How to connect with your womb wisdom – an article for the woman who wants to opt out of the masculine hustle and embrace the feminine flow.
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I’ve been noticing a recurrent theme in the hyper-masculine state of our world.
A theme that perpetuates the belief that for us women to be successful in life, we must match the pace, the design, the natural rhythm of men.
A theme that encourages us women to abandon our inherent feminine gifts and sells to us the idea that the best way to get ahead in life, love and leadership is to follow the inner design of men (around whom our hyper-masculine cultures are entirely designed).
When I say the natural rhythm of men, I’m referring to the organic masculine energy traits of pushing, thrusting, constantly forward-moving, striving; the traits that are all about effort-ing and using the head/logic most of the time.
Which is the polar opposite of the natural rhythm of women, formed by our organic feminine energy traits of being, feeling, connecting, sensing, receiving, surrendering; the traits that are all about ease, flow, play and using our heart + intuition most of the time.
The point being missed here is that there’s a BIG difference between..
women stepping into their power and becoming one with their unique truth,
AND
the highly masculine hustle culture we’re being conditioned into.
Think about it:
Women are not men.
We are designed differently.
We create differently.
Women love differently.
Women lead differently.
We connect differently.
And yet, when it comes to these modern hustle mantras, we are trained to believe that the path to our success is the same as the one men follow.
Completely overlooking the fact that being influenced and sometimes even being convinced to live, love and lead like men is harming us in more ways than one.
Completely undermining the fact that this masculine way of living is not only messing up with the polarity in our romantic relationships but also adversely affecting the way we show up in all other areas of our life.
This is the reason why we are experiencing more burnouts than ever, why we are feeling more & more unfulfilled despite all our worldly achievements.
This is the reason why even after following the much celebrated hustle-oriented way of living, we come home at the end of the day feeling dissatisfied, hoping to find fulfilment outside of us next day in another goal, in another task on our to-do list.
The heart-breaking part here being, this conditioning is making us forget that we were wired differently for a reason.
That we were gifted differently so that when our feminine energies came in contact with the masculine energies, the world could attain its balance.
~ We represent the Yin in the interplay of Yin and Yang, after all.
~ We represent the Shakti in the Divine Union of Shiva and Shakti, after all.
All of these systems of nature would break down if there was only the masculine, the Yang, the Shiva.
Just like how all our visible systems are currently breaking apart with all of us hustling, following the one-size-fits-all formula to create our desired realities.
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I invite you to consider this example of the womb.
Every month, the womb of a woman (who menstruates) prepares to welcome a new life created by the fusion of an egg and a sperm.
Let’s take a few steps back and explore what happens in that process.
The ovary releases just one egg every month. Millions of sperm cells swim towards that one egg to fertilise it and create a life.
Whether you say that the sperms chase the egg or the egg attracts the sperms, the essence of this monthly occurrence is this-
The egg that is the embodiment of feminine energy is magnetic to the millions of those sperms that are symbolic of masculine energy.
~ The sperm cell’s primal design is to hunt for and pursue the egg.
~ The egg’s primal design is to choose & receive from the best one of those millions of sperms.
Our womb wisdom reminds us that we feminine-essenced women in true embodiment of our feminine energy are inherently magnetic to all the masculine sources in our life- the men, the Almighty power (the Divine masculine), money, opportunities, and more.
Imagine how different life would feel if we remembered this aspect of our womb wisdom. Imagine how different life would feel if we changed the above ongoing narrative and created our new normal.
A ‘new normal’ where we..
~ stop chasing the desires of our heart in love, leadership, life and instead connect back to our essence thus becoming an embodiment of our inherent magnetism, where we
~ get so anchored in our innate self-worth that life would become as simple as a game of choosing what speaks the most to our heart, where we
~ attentively listen to, honour and follow the innate wisdom that oozes from our body, where we
~ remember that the true metrics for success aren’t our work titles and annual income, but our nervous system regulation and deep fulfilment, where we
~ decide to not push anymore and let the pull of our inherent magnetic nature call our desires in our three-dimensional reality, where we
~ reprogram our hyper-controlling conditioning and learn how to co-live and co-create with our Divine surrender to the power of the great Unknown.
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So how do we then create this new normal?
The simplest way to do that is to reconnect with our precious & much forgotten quality of feminine magnetism. A quality that once we have regained and reconnected with, there’s no more room for hustle in our gifted lives.
One that you can learn to cultivate through my core feminine embodiment course, Your Magnetic Femininity.
This offering has been created for the sensitive-hearted woman who wants to peel back the layers of her deep rooted hyper-masculine conditioning, embody the core qualities of her femininity & become a magnetic woman in life, love and leadership.
If you’re feeling called, here’s where you can learn more about this life-transforming course.
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Very often, we think of our feminine embodiment as a modality, a concept, a theory that we need to somehow ‘get’ to be truly embodied in our (feminine) essence. But if we pause to reflect, we will realize how our feminine embodiment is simply we embodying our truest essence. In my work of supporting women on their journeys of feminine embodiment, I have noticed that oftentimes this process doesn’t feel as easy as it sounds. Even though our essence is a part of us, we don’t always ‘naturally’ embody it. There are many reasons why this happens. In this article, I share with you 3 of those reasons I rank highest in that list. (Not a coincidence that these were the very reasons that kept me disconnected from my feminine essence for years.)
