How to embody your energy of surrender in love – an article for the woman who wants to be ravished in love.
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One of the biggest challenges we women face on our journey of feminine embodiment in love is relaxing back in our feminine energy of surrender. Add to that a deeper sense of scarcity fed to us by our scarcity-fueling culture that constantly reminds us “if you do not go after what you want, you’ll never have it!”
Now this control + outcome oriented masculine conditioning does practically help us in areas of our work or even in some areas of our love life where we need it to set up a lovely dating profile, respond to texts from the man/ men in our dating circle, etc. when we are single
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letting our inner masculine take care of our inner feminine when we are in a committed partnership.
But when we zoom out and look at our overall love life, we realise that there’s nothing’s more powerful than our feminine energy of surrender. We were gifted this energy from the time we took birth as a woman, after all!
Surrender in our love life looks like staying rooted in the truth that
~ we are born worthy of love,
~ a man who truly is interested/ invested in us will gladly make the efforts to win our heart,
~ our part in our love life is only our own inner work.
There is so much power, so much strength in just the value of our feminine surrender.
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Contrary to popular misconceptions, surrender isn’t about giving up.
It’s about giving over to something way more powerful than we can think or imagine to guide us in the direction of our desires. Trusting that this Unknown power (God, Goddess, universe, you name it) will take care of our desires without us pushing or chasing to make things happen in our life.
A law of nature that equally applies to our love life.
Let’s go a little deeper to understand this.
In my core feminine embodiment course Your Magnetic Femininity, I share about the 5 dimensions of our feminine body. The mental, the physical, the emotional, the energetic. All of which have an overarching dimension of the spiritual, that is the essence of the Divine, that’s present in each one of us.
Let’s understand what does surrender look like through this example. Think of how we are when we’re surrendered in our prayers.
At our:
mental level, we’re not using our masculine energy of brainstorming or thinking of the answers we’re seeking in our prayers. We’re fully present in the moment without our mind wandering or wondering about what we need to do next to make things happen in that moment.
physical level, our body is relaxed, softened, calm, composed, willing to follow the lead of this masculine energy that is the Divine power we believe in.
emotional level, we’re deeply connected with our truest feelings, we’re aware of the emotions that are flowing through us.
energetic level, our faith is entrusted in the masculine energy source that’s the Divine, God, the Higher power we’re praying to. We’re in a state of receptivity, open to receiving our answers.
At no point, we doubt our worthiness to receive what we have just asked in our prayers. We’re not trying to prove ourselves worthy of our desires. We’re anchored in the belief that we’re good enough for what we have asked for in our prayers.
Now let’s apply this same dynamic to when we’re on a date or in presence of our masculine energy romantic partner.
Knowing that we’re around a masculine energy entity that is this man, we can..
..be relaxed in our physical body,
..be fully present with our thoughts in that moment,
..stay fully connected to our heart,
..exuding an energy of openness and receptivity.
This is what being in our feminine energy of surrender looks like in our love life.
The more you practice connecting with your feminine essence of softness, flow, enough-ness and receptivity, the deeper your surrender in love (and life) grows.
You feel safe with trusting the empowered masculine energy man in your life to lead the way for you and your love life.
Thus building on to the existing polarity between his masculine and your feminine energy.
Being able to practice surrender in love is such a powerful way to activate our feminine magnetism in our romantic relationships. It is a skill that can be learnt and embodied as our second nature. One that I teach in depth in my core feminine embodiment course, Your Magnetic Femininity.
In this deeply transforming offering, I show you how you can disrupt your hyper-masculine conditioning, reconnect with the core qualities of your femininity and become a magnetic woman in life and in love.
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A woman connected with her feminine essence is (energetically) soft on the outside and strong on the inside. In the space of her love life, she brings her whole (healed) self and lets the man/men her witness her in her radiant femininity. Read this article to learn the art of embodying your feminine essence in your love life.
