An article for the woman who wants to heal her relationship with money and call in her deepest desires for wealth and abundance through the power of her feminine magnetism.
Money is a word that can make most people uncomfortable. It is a subject that can create rifts between the closest. It is a resource that can cause a lot of harm and misery in the world.
Money is also a word that can make us feel relaxed, supported and nourished just at the mention of it. It is also a subject that can create deeply impactful movements in the world. It is also a resource that can uplift communities, bridge gaps, reunite humanity.
What I have found while deepening my own money magnetism and while supporting women in healing their relationship with money, is that how we see money, how we feel about money, how we circulate money, is all a reflection of our energetic relationship with money.
This relationship once restored, can transform our reality in ways we can’t yet imagine. Once healed, this relationship can call in our wildest desires for wealth + abundance with utmost ease and pleasure.
For most women, this healing begins when we realise that we don’t need to sacrifice our life force to create a truly wealthy life for ourselves. When we start opening our hearts and minds to the possibility that we can magnetise our desires for wealth + abundance while staying drenched in our pleasure, flow and ease.
I have seen this heartfelt desire in women who are drawn to my money magnetism offerings, who are seeking a way to earn money from their feminine state of being, living and working. Exhausted from functioning in highly-masculinised systems that make them question their nature-gifted qualities of a woman, they are seeking a softer, more easeful approach to actualising their deepest money desires.
As they begin to tend to their relationship with money, liberating any shame, guilt or similar weighing emotions they feel around these desires and infusing their feminine magnetism in their relationship with money, they start discovering nourishing, soul-aligned ways to create spaces in their life that money can continue to flow into freely and effortlessly. They start unearthing easeful, creative means to transform their financial reality without ever again abandoning their heart, body and soul.
Here in this blog, i am sharing with you 6 signs you too might be feeling called to heal your relationship with money and activate your money magnetism.
sign 1 | feeling a deep desire to heal your hyper-masculine conditioning around money.
You might be someone who was taught that she needs to strive, to force, to relentlessly exert and extract from herself in order to create a truly prosperous life for herself. Perhaps this conditioning was passed down to you from the previous generations, or perhaps it was your work environments that instilled these beliefs in you.
These ideas kept you uninformed of your inherent magnetism and normalised earning money in soulless, burnout-oriented ways that dishonoured your sensitivities, heart and essence as a woman.
You are now realising how futile this conditioning, this way of working has been. Because it has only taken care of how your life appears on the outside, depriving you of the fulfilment you were hoping to find within your being.
You are now exploring the possibility of unlearning this conditioning and re-connecting with your inherent gift of feminine receptivity so you can create + multiply your wealth with ease, pleasure, magnetism and play.
sign 2 | hearing a recurrent call of your heart to create a privileged life for yourself and your coming generations.
You might be someone who wasn’t born in wealth or an environment with an abundance mindset. You may have grown up seeing resistance and acute discomfort around money and how it was earned. In the absence of the privilege of a softer life, you had to build up the masculine armor of fast-paced hustle so you could survive those environments.
You are now desiring to release this hardness you always felt around money. You are feeling called to soften and cultivate the inner safety that lets you be gentle with yourself around money. You are seeking to cultivate an inner sense of security around money and move at a pace that feels good to you.
You are desiring to nourish your starved being with so much ease and pleasure so that your healed relationship with money naturally overflows into the lives of those around you and after you. So that the financially resourced life you create for yourself (and your future lineage) feels like a true privilege, a gift that deepens with each interaction with money. So that when money arrives in your life and keeps growing its presence, your former feelings of shame and guilt are replaced by a deep sense of deservingness for this life that you have created for yourself and for the generations to follow you.
sign 3 | feeling the need to liberate yourself from other people’s beliefs and ideas about money.
Perhaps you’re someone who grew up absorbing the outside world’s rigid, limiting money beliefs that have led you to experience self-sacrifice and feelings of unworthiness, scarcity or fear around letting money in your life.
Perhaps like me, you didn’t come from a financially privileged background and grew up hearing various myths and limiting beliefs about money and how women ‘should behave’ when it comes to this area of our lives.
‘Money doesn’t grow on trees. Women aren’t good with money. Rich people are evil. Don’t talk about money, let the elders (men) in the family take care of it. ‘
And perhaps you ended up unconsciously believing these restricting ideas.
It is now that you are hearing the call to recognise + release these unconsciously borrowed beliefs so you can trust in your deservingness of your wildest and deepest money desires.
You’re desiring to enter into a sovereign relationship with money that doesn’t get influenced by how your outer world feels or thinks about money. You want to restore the sanctity of your relationship with money so you can reassign it the intended role of being your ever protecting and providing masculine energy form, so you can fully receive and enjoy its support as you create a beautiful life for yourself and your loved ones.
sign 4 | feeling the desire to break free from the endless, exhausting cycle of ‘hacking’ your relationship with money.
You might be someone like me who entered the self-development world through the path that spoke about the power of mind alone. Over time, you may have found yourself feeling worn out by the advice to ‘fix your mindset’ in order to attract your heart’s desires around wealth + abundance.
Perhaps, you have also been able to discern the ineffectiveness of this advice that leaves out the energetic, emotional and somatic aspect of your relationship with money.
You are now realising that in order to enter into a truly healed relationship with money, you need to become an embodiment of the woman who can receive and grow her wealth without the mental striving and forceful adoption of money hacks.
You are becoming aware that in order to enter into a truly healed relationship with money, your body, emotions and nervous system need to be included, tended to and attuned to safety around money, so you can become a safe space that money flows towards, freely and effortlessly.
sign 5 | noticing the silent, recurring nudge of your heart to rewrite your money story.
You might be someone like me who has experienced past dishonouring of her voice, her heart, her value through the extraction of her financial resources that has left a lot of emotional heaviness in her heart.
Perhaps this reflects in your relationships with the people in your inner/ outer circle where your heart stays closed and guarded so that no one can betray your trust again.
You are now desiring to free yourself of these distressing memories (that might be present in your body in form of frozen tension) and learn how to become an energetic guardian of your money. (I share the embodiment route to this step in Safe Woman module of my money magnetism course)
You want to heal from these experiences so you can self-assuredly navigate money conversations in your relationships with the people in your near and far world.
sign 6 | feeling the yearning to learn a new, gentler and deeply nourishing way of earning money.
Perhaps you grew up around role models who exemplified, or even glorified the dry, hyper-masculine hustle in business.
Perhaps you are depleted from following the forceful, aggressive, overly competitive ways of growing your business income.
You’re now feeling called to create a deeply nourishing and wildly abundant business for yourself by reclaiming your feminine path where your heart, your emotions, your sensitivities, your gentleness, your body’s natural rhythms – all have a place.
You’re feeling more and more ready to embody the full spectrum of your feminine gifts and learn the skills to creating a sustainably wealthy life & business from this place of being.
something to remember when healing your relationship with money
Sharing these thoughts reminds me of something I mention to women when they start healing their relationship with money through my money magnetism offerings. I advise them to be very compassionate with themselves and not fall prey to the internalised voices of shame or judgement in assuming that there is anything wrong with them if they don’t have a secure, peaceful and empowering relationship with money yet.
Because time and time again, while supporting women from different walks of life, I keep coming back to the truth that no matter what class, race or color, the paper money was never designed to be in the hands of women. Precisely why, so many of us carry some kind of an emotional charge when it comes to the subject of money. most times, without the slightest idea of it.
Through my lived + taught experience with this art of money magnetism, what I have also come to see is that once we have liberated this inner heaviness around our desire for abundance, we no more feel the need to comply to masculine-focused, extractive work systems to actualise those desires (that were never designed to work for us feminine-essenced beings).
Instead, we turn to the gift of our inherent magnetism that naturally guides us towards easeful, life-enhancing ways to create a financially resourced life that we look forward to living every new day.
I witnessed this in the lives of women who had joined the live launch of this money magnetism course last year. And I hear this feedback from women who have self-studied this work since then :
‘It is so beautiful that there is a feminine way to deal with money.’
‘I also feel an inexplicable sense of confidence in the way I have been functioning in my workspace. People have started noticing my work and they have become more gentle with me simply because I now embody my feminine traits in what is otherwise an extremely masculine environment. This feels surreal, because I always thought that I’d have to hustle like my male colleagues to have the kind of success & money my work deserves.’
..some words from the recent reflections shared by women who have taken this course.
I really think its a gift that when we women heal in any way, it ripples out into our life and the bigger world. As their emails tell me, when these women had signed up for this course, their intention was to simply heal their relationship with money. But in its unfolding, they discovered that this process also anchored them in their gentle, intuitive, magnetic feminine design as they continued to create and live their Wealthy Woman life thereafter.
If you’re at a point in life where you too are desiring to activate + deepen your money magnetism while fully embracing your natural feminine design and desires, you might enjoy learning the Wealthy Woman’s Way of living + loving + working + receiving money through my money magnetism course.
You can also access the format 1 of this course at a reduced value in the Feminine Business bundleif you’re a businesswoman who wants to grow the income of her gentle and nourishing feminine business through deeper healing of her fears + patterns around money.
Navdeep 💗
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What makes up your Wealthy Woman life ~ an article for the woman who wants to learn the feminine way to build wealth.
As I sat down to write this article, some core memories from the history of my relationship with money resurfaced and found their way into it.
The first half of this blog aptly describes how the environment we grow up in decides who we shape up to be, how we form our values and what kind of relationship we develop with money and abundance.
And the second part elaborates on the role our feminine embodiment plays in redesigning all those aspects of our life that don’t feel true to our essence, including how we define wealth and prosperity.
If you’re seeking a softer, more delicious approach to feeling successful with money, this article will show you the path to creating a truly wealthy life for yourself with utmost ease and pleasure.
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So, I grew up around a super rich maternal uncle who had a lot of money. A self-made international businessman, every time i would see him, he would be on his phone. His family would come to our cultural gatherings the last and would be the first ones to leave.
Even though he had that much money, I never saw him live in the moment.
Then few years ago, when he moved with his family to the United States, the extended family couldn’t stop gushing and singing the praises of his hard work. The narrative was, ‘He can finally relax now and have his children take over the biz empire.’
And i couldn’t help but feel sad thinking how he had to work for more than half of his life to be able to finally relax and enjoy everything he had created.
Then on my Dad’s side, I grew up around an uncle who was a hard-working hotelier. He would be out of the house early and get back late at night. And one could clearly see how tired he was, every day and night.
He made a lot of money too, especially for that small town life we lived. But his energy was predominantly that of scarcity.
Since we were a joint family in my childhood years, I would often daydream of growing up and helping him with strategies to refine his business. But as soon as i completed schooling, I moved out of that town and set out to chart my own path. Except, I was carrying the impressions of these two ‘successful’ figures and was trying to replicate them in my life.
So when I landed an international job placement and moved to Dubai post my MBA, I did the same. I toiled, I hustled, I worked hard. And made a lot of money.
I achieved milestones of success that no woman in my lineage could even imagine was possible.
But I also lost all sense of my well-being and started outsourcing my worth to my external achievements.
Perhaps because I was in my early twenties where one naturally has a lot of bodily energy, I was able to get by with a little rest and lot of work. And yet, I was starting to notice teeny-tiny signs of how this way of working and living was not going to sustain my success.
A couple of years later, when I received a hard wake-up call in form of a health crisis, I was forced to slow down. All I can remember thinking was,“Well that means I’m going to lose the race now. What good would be my life be if I don’t become as rich as those uncles and make my parents proud.”
But I didn’t have much choice.. If I went back to my old ways of working, I could possibly harm myself even more. And without a healthy body and mind, I couldn’t achieve anything I wanted to achieve.
So.. I surrendered.I surrendered with the faith that if my desires for a wildly abundant life exist in my heart, I’ll receive the guidance to call in those desires, in a way that serves me, that feels good to me.
In that one year of slowing down (and learning to enjoy that pace), I started realising..
How I was different from my rich uncles, how I was a woman whose body was designed so differently from that of a man, how I felt, perceived and enjoyed richness so differently from them.
And I started wondering..
Could it be possible that if nature has designed me to live and work at a slower pace, then may be it has given me some other gifts that make me equally capable as a man?
And, could it be possible that there is a gentler, more resonant way to financial prosperity that doesn’t involve the kind of sacrifice and self-harm I was inflicting upon myself?!
And more importantly,
If I, unlike my uncles who had to provide for their families, have been gifted the privilege to not hustle, to not sacrifice my life force to earn money..could I dare use this privilege and create a truly wealthy life that is supportive of my deepest values, my sensitivities, my heart as a feminine-natured woman?
In that following year, as I let myself soften more deeply into my essence, connecting with my heart and my feminine gifts, all that I desired in that corporate life of mine, started getting magnetised to me one by one.
So, when I keep striving and extracting from myself everyday in chase of my desires for four long years, nothing comes my way. And then, when I slow down and start enjoying my life, all my career goals get accomplished in less a year’s time?!
…the thoughts that perplexed me in that final year of my corporate life.
What I didn’t know then was that I had unknowingly and unintentionally turned on my inner magnetism.
The same magnetism that made me go from an over-worked, resentful executive to a blissfully productive and deeply revered manager.
The same magnetism that called in three back-to-back career promotions and made this success story the talk of the town in that Fortune-500 company I worked for.
So this time when I moved on to the next chapter of my life as a business owner, I became even more intentional about the life I wanted to create for myself.
I wanted to be the first wealthy person in my family. But not the kind of wealth my uncles had. My kind of wealth.
Where my life would be overflowing with abundance of time, of rest, of ease, of pleasure, of peace, of embodied presence. And of money, of course.
In those two years of career transition, when I had gone back to school to study and hone my skills as a feminine embodiment practitioner, I was solely relying on the savings and investments from my corporate life.
But I would often notice how much wealthier I felt despite not having a regular stream of money coming into my account every month.
After all, I had the luxury of time, I had the luxury of great health, I had the luxury of sovereignty and freedom to make my choices.
I could wake up slowly, spend as much extra time in my bed doing my pleasure practices, enjoy my nutritious breakfast with no rush to get anywhere.
I could satiate my hunger for reading and learning as much as I wanted, spend hours dancing, moving my body, spending restorative time in nature, birthing new ideasfor my new (work) life.
And then when the business started growing and income started flowing in, it felt like my heart couldn’t contain my gratitude. Every waking moment of my life, I would feel a deep awe at what I had created for myself – a truly wealthy life.
Where I had the time to have meaningful relationships with the people in my life, where I had the space to process my feelings before I expressed them in my outside world.
Where anything I bought felt bigger and better because a). I was now buying it with intention, and b). I now had the time and space to truly enjoy it.
what makes up your Wealthy Woman life?
Something I have noticed in my feminine embodiment work with women from different walks of life, is that wealth can mean different things for each one of us.
For some of us, it can look like a certain figure in our bank account. For some of us, it can look like a life where we get to wake up every morning and dress up for a job we absolutely love.
And for some of us, it can look like a time + peace abundant life supported by a business / work that’s aligned with our values.
There really is no one-size-fits-all answer when it comes to defining this. Because the deeper we are embodied in our feminine essence, the more we connect with our natural design, and the clearer we become about our values.
I can speak from my own experience of healing my relationship with money that most of the things I used to think I would need to feel rich, have been blissfully replaced by things, routines and habits that make me feel like a wildly wealthy woman today.
Unintentionally but so naturally, I have stopped resonating with the idea of displaying wealth to feel wealthy via external validation, for example. I’d rather let my money grow and support my dreams behind the scenes than spend it on anything that doesn’t feel true to who I am and what I value.
But this was a process that took its fair share of trial and error for me.
For instance, there was a brief period after I left the corporate world when I remember still holding on to my blingy lifestyle in Dubai. Losing my grip on the things that made up my outer identity felt like I would fall apart and disappear into oblivion.
It was only in the gentle process of peeling my societal conditioning (that dictated what success should look like for a woman of my ‘potential’) that I was able to connect with my deepest desires around wealth and abundance.
And because my relationship with money was already repaired by then, I felt no shame / guilt for wanting what I needed to create my unique version of a Wealthy Woman life (this time as a business owner).
I have noticed this while supporting women with their feminine softening in wealth creation as well. For instance, when I was teaching the live round of my money magnetism course earlier this year, it was so beautiful to witness the course students unearth and acknowledge the tender most desires their heart held deep within.
The uncovering of these desires gave them so much inspiration and courage that they were able to wholeheartedly surrender to the process of embodying the other four archetypes of the money magnetism process shared in this course.
Close to halfway through the course, the online business owner had already created and was selling her first passive product, the legal practitioner had revised her prices and was confidently navigating negotiations, the corporate executive on a career break had gone from chasing to magnetising interviews at companies that she wanted to work in, and more such success stories you can read here.
creating your Wealthy Woman life in congruence to your deepest values.
A common theme I have found in the reviews of this work is that as women uncover these hidden longings of their heart, they start feeling a calming sense of self-belief in their value and skillset.
Money and opportunities are no more chased by them because they have created the right (healed) space for their arrival in their lives.
And because their energetic relationship with money has been restored, they can sustain the flow of these resources in their lives by becoming safe guardians of money (I talk about this in the Safe woman module of my money magnetism course)
This essentially is the art of creating a truly wealthy life for ourselves..
..one that’s aligned with our deepest values, our truth, our heart as feminine-essenced women.
The life a woman creates for herself this way is no more lined with fears of money running out on her.
Because she is so embodied in her self-belief that she knows she can nurture the flow of money in her life without the old patterns of forceful/ fearful gripping.
No matter what season of life or how turbulent the economy may seem on her outside, she knows how to stay soft and be a reservoir of receptivity for the kind of wealth and abundance her heart desires.
How she works, how she shows up in the world to earn money, is infused with ease, pleasure and magnetism.
Her faith in her skill and artistry is mightier than the fears that surface occasionally, that she very well knows to liberate from their roots of origin. She can be wild, free and audacious in dreaming and actualising the most ‘unrealistic’ desires her heart holds, without the shame and guilt she previously felt around the subject of money.
In the Wealthy Woman’s Way course, I offer guidance around this if this is the kind of relationship you desire to cultivate with money. The money magnetism process shared in this course has helped the past course students recognise their core values, define what abundance truly means for them and call in their Wealthy Woman life with utmost ease and pleasure.
And in case you’d like more focused and time-efficient support, you can also explore Money Magnetism Incubator, my 8-weeks private coaching program. It has been designed to support women who are exhausted from striving, forcing, relentlessly exerting and extracting from themselves in order to create a prosperous life for themselves.
In this coaching partnership, I help my clients heal + deepen their relationship with money so they can fulfil their wildest, most ‘unrealistic’ desires for wealth + abundance with utmost ease and pleasure.
If you need any support deciding which option is best suited for you, please don’t hesitate to reach out.
Navdeep 💗
P.S. looking for more articles on money magnetism? continue reading here.
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