What makes up your Wealthy Woman life – an article for the woman who wants to create a truly wealthy life for herself – one that’s aligned with her deepest values, her truth, her heart as a feminine-essenced soul. 

as I sat down to write this article, some core memories from the history of my relationship with money resurfaced and found their way into it. 

the first half of this blog aptly describes how the environment we grow up in decides who we shape up to be, how we form our values and what kind of relationship we develop with money and abundance. 

and the second part elaborates on the role our feminine embodiment plays in redesigning all those aspects of our life that don’t feel true to our essence, including how we define wealth and prosperity.

if you’re seeking a softer approach to feeling successful with money, this article will show you the path to creating a truly wealthy life for yourself with utmost ease and pleasure.

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so, I grew up around a super rich maternal uncle who had a lot of money. a self-made international businessman, every time i would see him, he would be on his phone. his family would come to our cultural gatherings the last and would be the first ones to leave.

even though he had that much money, i never saw him live in the moment. 

then few years ago, when he moved with his family to the United States, the extended family  couldn’t stop gushing and singing the praises of his hard work. the narrative was, ‘he can finally relax now and have his children take over the biz empire.’

and i couldn’t help but feel sad thinking how he had to work for more than half of his life to be able to finally relax and enjoy everything he had created.

then on my Dad’s side, i grew up around an uncle who was a hard-working hotelier. he would be out of the house early and get back late at night. and one could clearly see how tired he was, every day and night.

he made a lot of money too, especially for that small town life we lived. but his energy was predominantly that of scarcity.

since we were a joint family in my childhood years, i would often daydream of growing up and helping him with strategies to refine his business. but as soon as i completed schooling, i moved out of that town and set out to chart my own path. except, i was carrying the impressions of these two ‘successful’ figures and was trying to replicate them in my life.

so when I landed an international job placement and moved to Dubai post my MBA, i did the same. i toiled, i hustled, i worked hard. and made a lot of money.

i achieved milestones of success that no woman in my lineage could even imagine was possible. 

but i also lost all sense of my well-being and started outsourcing my worth to my external achievements.

perhaps because i was in my early twenties where one naturally has a lot of bodily energy, i was able to get by with a little rest and lot of work. yet, i was starting to notice teeny-tiny signs of how this way of working and living was not going to sustain my success.

a couple of years later, when i received a hard wake-up call in form of a health crisis, i was forced to slow down. all i can remember thinking was, “well that means I’m going to lose the race now. ahat good would be my life be if I don’t become as rich as those uncles and make my parents proud.”

but i didn’t have much choice, did i? if i went back to my old ways of working, i could possibly harm myself even more. and without a healthy body and mind, i couldn’t achieve anything i wanted to achieve.

so.. i surrendered. i surrendered with the faith that if my desires for a wildly abundant life exist in my heart, i’ll receive the guidance to call in those desires, in a way that serves me. 

in that one year of slowing down (and learning to enjoy that pace), i started realising..

how i was different from my rich uncles, how i was a woman whose body was designed so differently from that of a man, how i felt, perceived and enjoyed richness so differently from them.

and started wondering..

could it be possible that if nature has designed me to live and work at a slower pace, then may be it has given me some other gifts that make me equally capable as a man? 

and, could it be possible that there is a gentler, more resonant way to financial prosperity that doesn’t involve the kind of sacrifice and self-harm i was inflicting upon myself?!

and more importantly,

if i, unlike my uncles who had to provide for their families, have been gifted the privilege to not hustle, to not sacrifice my life force to earn money..could i dare use this privilege and create a truly wealthy life that is supportive of my deepest values, my sensitivities, my heart as a feminine-natured woman? 

in that following year, as i let myself soften more deeply into my essence, connecting with my heart and my feminine gifts, all that i desired in that corporate life of mine, started getting magnetised to me one by one.

so, when i keep striving and extracting from myself everyday in chase of my desires for four long years, nothing comes my way.

and then, when i slow down and start enjoying my life, all my career goals get accomplished in less a year’s time?! …the thoughts that perplexed me in that final year of my corporate life.

what i didn’t know then was that i had unknowingly and unintentionally turned on my inner magnetism. 

the same magnetism that made me go from an over-worked, resentful executive to a blissfully productive and deeply revered manager.

the same magnetism that called in three back-to-back career promotions and made this success story the talk of the town in that Fortune-500 company I worked for.

so this time when i moved on to the next chapter of my life as a business owner, i became even more intentional about the life i wanted to create for myself. 

i wanted to be the first wealthy person in my family. but not the kind of wealth my uncles had. my kind of wealth.

where my life would be overflowing with abundance of time, of rest, of ease, of pleasure, of peace, of embodied presence. and of money, of course. 

in those two years of career transition, when i had gone back to school to study and hone my skills as a feminine embodiment practitioner, i was solely relying on the savings and investments from my corporate life. 

but i would often notice how much wealthier I felt despite not having a regular stream of money coming into my account every month. 

after all, i had the luxury of time, i had the luxury of great health, i had the luxury of sovereignty and freedom to make my choices.

i could wake up slowly, spend as much extra time in my bed doing my pleasure practices, enjoy my nutritious breakfast with no rush to get anywhere.

i could satiate my hunger for reading and learning as much as i wanted, spend hours dancing, moving my body, spending restorative time in nature, birthing new ideas for my new (work) life.

and then when the business started growing and income started flowing in, it felt like my heart couldn’t contain my gratitude. Every waking moment of my life, i would feel a deep awe at what I had created for myself – a truly wealthy life. 

where i had the time to have meaningful relationships with the people in my life, where i had the space to process my feelings before i expressed them in my outside world.

where anything i bought felt bigger and better because a). i was now buying it with intention, and b). i now had the time and space to truly enjoy it. 

what makes up your Wealthy Woman life?

something i have noticed in my feminine embodiment work with women from different walks of life, is that wealth can mean different things for each one of us. 

for some of us, it can look like a certain figure in our bank account. for some of us, it can look like a life where we get to wake up every morning and dress up for a job we absolutely love. 

and for some of us, it can look like a time + peace abundant life supported by a business / work that’s aligned with our values.

there really is no one-size-fits-all answer when it comes to defining this. because the deeper we are embodied in our feminine essence, the more we connect with our natural design, and the clearer we become about our values. 

i can speak from my own experience of healing my relationship with money that most of the things i used to think i would need to feel rich, have been blissfully replaced by things, routines and habits that make me feel like a wildly wealthy woman today.

unintentionally but so naturally, i have stopped resonating with the idea of displaying wealth to feel wealthy via external validation, for example. i’d rather let my money grow and support my dreams behind the scenes than spend it on anything that doesn’t feel true to who i am and what i value.

but this was a process that took its fair share of trial and error for me.

for instance, there was a brief period after i left the corporate world when i remember still holding on to my blingy lifestyle in Dubai. losing my grip on the things that made up my outer identity felt like i would fall apart and disappear into oblivion. 

it was only in the gentle process of peeling my societal conditioning (that dictated what success should look like for a woman of my ‘potential’) that i was able to connect with my deepest desires around wealth and abundance.

and because my relationship with money was already repaired by then, i felt no shame / guilt for wanting what i needed to create my unique version of a Wealthy Woman life (this time as a business owner). 

i have noticed this while supporting women with their feminine softening in wealth creation as well. for instance, when i was teaching the live round of my money magnetism course earlier this year, it was so beautiful to witness the course students unearth and acknowledge the tender most desires their heart held deep within.

the uncovering of these desires gave them so much inspiration and courage that they were able to wholeheartedly surrender to the process of embodying the other four archetypes of the money magnetism process shared in this course.  

close to halfway through the course, the online business owner had already created and was selling her first passive product, the legal practitioner had revised her prices and was confidently navigating negotiations, the corporate executive on a career break had gone from chasing to magnetising interviews at companies that she wanted to work in, and more such success stories you can read here.

creating your Wealthy Woman life in congruence to your deepest values.

a common theme i have found in the reviews of this work is that as women uncover these hidden longings of their heart, they start feeling a calming sense of self-belief in their value and skillset.

money and opportunities are no more chased by them because they have created the right (healed) space for their arrival in their lives.

and because their energetic relationship with money has been restored, they can sustain the flow of these resources in their lives by becoming safe guardians of money (i talk about this in the Safe woman module of my money magnetism course) 

this essentially is the art of creating a truly wealthy life for ourselves..

..one that’s aligned with our deepest values, our truth, our heart as feminine-essenced women. 

the life a woman creates for herself this way is no more lined with fears of money running out on her.

because she is so embodied in her self-belief that she knows she can nurture the flow of money in her life without the old patterns of forceful/ fearful gripping.

no matter what season of life or how turbulent the economy may seem on her outside, she knows how to stay soft and be a reservoir of receptivity for the kind of wealth and abundance her heart desires.

how she works, how she shows up in the world to earn money, is infused with ease, pleasure and magnetism.

her faith in her skill and artistry is mightier than the fears that surface occasionally, that she very well knows to liberate from their roots of origin. she can be wild, free and audacious in dreaming and actualising the most ‘unrealistic’ desires her heart holds, without the shame and guilt she previously felt around the subject of money. 

in the Wealthy Woman’s Way course, i offer guidance around this if this is the kind of relationship you desire to cultivate with money. the money magnetism process shared in this course has helped the past course students recognise their core values, define what abundance truly means for them and call in their Wealthy Woman life with utmost ease and pleasure. 

and in case you’d like more focused and time-efficient support, you can also explore Money Magnetism mastery, my 8-weeks private coaching program. it has been designed to support women who are exhausted from striving, forcing, relentlessly exerting and extracting from themselves in order to create a prosperous life for themselves.

in this coaching partnership, i help my clients heal + deepen your relationship with money so they can fulfil their wildest, most ‘unrealistic’ desires for wealth + abundance with utmost ease and pleasure.

if you need any support deciding which option is best suited for you, please don’t hesitate to reach out.

Navdeep 💗

p.s. looking for more articles on feminine softening in wealth creation? continue reading here.