The beautiful feminine art of receiving – an article for the woman who wants to learn how to open her heart and become comfortable with receiving love, admiration, support, abundance, and so many more gifts the world offers her everyday.
something shifts within a woman when she starts practicing the feminine art of receiving.
her heart melts open and relaxes in the comfort of the love, affection, support and care that is being poured into her life.
her body feels a deep exhale knowing that she is always loved, always taken care of, always provided for.
her soul blooms, grows and thrives in the belongingness she feels with God and with those who truly value her.
there’s so much beauty in embodying this gift of receptivity because deep within, every woman knows that this is one of the most essential aspects of her femininity that she was never really taught to stay connected with.
in a highly-masculinised world that celebrates striving and proving, she too is taught early on that giving is noble and receiving is selfish. that asking for support means she is weak and that she doesn’t have what it takes to be a ‘self-made’ success story.
she moves through life seeing this in every layer of her society.
her feminine nature that is designed to thrive on connection and belonging starts drifting towards the myth of individuality from a very young age, slowly disconnecting her from the very ecosystem she is a part of. now, something as simple as asking for help feels like dependence and is often accompanied by a lot of shame.
even if she somehow manages to escape that conditioning, she finds that receiving comes with conditions around her worth that is always tied to something outside of her. being a good student, or a girl who meets the external beauty standards, or an obedient daughter, or an independent self-sufficient woman, or giving wife and a selfless mother.
this slowly builds a shield around her heart that dictates she is worthy only when she gives and does for others, a shield that doesn’t allow her to receive even the simplest well-meaning gestures of care, affection and service offered to her.
on a personal level, it makes her look at these acts of kindness from the lens of her perceived flaws. because she is so deeply conditioned to attach her value to her outward appearance, to how she speaks, to whether or not she thinks or feels like most around her, whenever any form of goodness comes her way, she can’t help but question its legitimacy, its realness.
in the space of relationships, this hardens her heart and makes it difficult for her to believe that someone might want to love her with pure and true devotion. that someone might be drawn to her for who she is in her most natural state, and not for her achievements or how much she can do for others including that person.
in the realm of her career and business, this leads her to taking on the stride of “i can do it all” when she might actually be needing support underneath. it makes her equate delegation with weakness and losing control, depriving her of the nourishment that is always available through the support of those around her.
and on a spiritual level, this shield makes it difficult for her to believe in the unseen support of the grace that’s always guiding her. often leading to an over-riding of her intuitive wisdom in situations that cannot be navigated solely via logic. it makes her more impatient and less relaxed around problems that may present themselves with a solution only if she allowed herself to truly feel and receive what’s unfolding within her.
if you resonate with any of this, please know you are not alone.
so many women today are feeling this way. they are slowly realizing the cost of hyper-independence that has deprived them of the fulfilment they could feel if only they allowed themselves to truly receive, whether from the people in their life or from the divine grace of the higher power they feel drawn to.
they are paying attention to the tugging at their heart, telling them that there might a different way to living and being.
they are letting themselves feel the exhaustion that their striving and grinding culture has brought to them, slowly allowing themselves to rest, heal and restore their life force energy.
they are releasing the pressure on themselves to figure life out, to know everything (before it even unfolds!)
i have been seeing a lot of these shifts in my feminine softening work with women. and i feel it’s necessary.
because these initial permissions are what leads to restoring and returning to the various beautiful aspects of our femininity that include our capacity to receive without shame or guilt.
i see it as a good sign if you are longing to receive love and support without having to perform, earn your worth, over give and over work. if you’re craving to receive deeper intimacy, belonging and emotional connection in your life and relationships.
because it’s through these desires is how we truly arrive to the heart of this feminine art of receiving. it is through these sacred callings that we allow ourselves to melt our hard masculine shield and soften into our feminine essence.
and so, continue listening to and honoring what’s arising within you, giving yourself the permission to practice this feminine art of receiving as and when you feel safe to.
and if you find yourself seeking more support with this, feel free to explore my feminine softening course Her Soft Power or work with me privately in one of my feminine softening 1-1 sessions.
Navdeep 💗
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What is a feminine business – an article for the sensitive, aspirational, creative woman who wants to birth her gifts in the world through a business that nourishes + enriches both her soul and her bank account.
when i decided to translate my personal journey of feminine embodiment into a business practice, my natural instinct was to look around for success stories of those who had walked this path before me.
i was curious to see how they were applying the art of feminine embodiment in the way they led themselves, created their businesses and offered their services.
that exciting pursuit soon turned into a disappointment when i saw practitioners in the feminine embodiment space hustling in their hyper-masculine energy to create six, seven figure businesses.
as someone who had opted out of that same hustle by leaving her high-flying corporate career behind, my nervous system instantly refused to accept those as the kind of success stories i needed for this next phase of my life.
where was the ease, where was the pleasure, where was the richness in these stories – my heart searched for these answers.
having spent the previous year on a sabbatical consciously slowing down and identifying my body’s natural pace, i wanted to create a business that was led by my heart.
i wanted to savor the juice out of my days while birthing this business in alignment with my inner sensitivities, with the natural rhythm of my body.
i wanted my business to be identified for my natural expertise as a coach, as a mentor but not at the expense of making my body work 24×7, striving, pushing, chasing clients.
so, i decided to undertake an experiment.
every time i would feel that old urge of my workaholic self to yet again strive, to yet again push, force, hustle myself into productivity, i would come back into my body, soften into it and connect back with my flow.
and then from that place of flow, of calm, of this unshakeable connection with my inherent enough-ness, i would listen to my heart, to the silent whispers of my body and take the next steps to create my feminine business.
today, it’s been over three wildly successful years of listening to my heart and my wise feminine body, of enjoying creating a sustainable and deeply profitable business that feels as nourishing as it did on the first day of its inception.
on this journey of supporting women with their feminine embodiment, i have had the privilege of coaching so many women who are already in business or are in the corporate world feeling the call to translate one (or more) of their skills into a profitable, a soul-nourishing business.
women who are passionate about sharing their gifts with the world, who want to take ownership of their time and resources and use it to create a life of their choice.
these are the women who have in some way already been on their journey of feminine embodiment.
they have started taking joy in the slowness of their lives, they are committed to savouring the deliciousness of their (once mundane) work routines.
they can’t anymore deny their body’s and soul’s needs for slowness, for gentleness, for rest and for relaxation. and now they’re desiring to create business systems that support this feminine way of their living.
they want to peel back the layers of their masculine conditioning and infuse their feminine gifts in the way they create & lead their businesses. They want to now lead in their work lives with their feminine, calling in success as effortlessly as they attract all the other desires of their heart.
if any of this is a reflection of your desires for your current or yet to be launched business or if you’re feeling called to this feminine way of living, leading a business and making money at it, read on to learn what really is a feminine business.
what is a feminine business
feminine business is a business philosophy that works for women who want to create and grow their business in alignment with their organic feminine, feeling, magnetic nature.
birthing a feminine business is the process of illuminating, nurturing and sharing our gifts with the world in a way that honors and nourishes us first- our body, soul, and deepest desires for success.
it involves defying the traditionally masculine ways of business by sharing our gifts of knowledge, creativity, passions, skills and wisdom in a way that feels true, sustainable and deeply nourishing to us.
it is the process of creating business systems that honour our sensitivities, our soft and slow cyclic nature, our needs for rest and relaxation.
this path is meant for women who are desiring to lead their business from an unwavering connection with their enough-ness, trusting that their intuitively chosen business models + methodologies will magnetise the right people to their work, trusting that they won’t have to abandon their soul, their essence to be successful in business.
on the energetic spectrum, a feminine business lies at the opposite end of the fast-paced, burnout-oriented entrepreneurial culture.
this way of business speaks to the woman who is exploring a shift from the outdated masculine ways of striving, performing, hustling in business to a more resonant, feminine path that is deeply rooted in her belief in her gifts, expression and artistry.
she is learning how to birth a financially profitable business by listening to her body first, honoring her needs first and then making shifts in her outer world.
a theme that takes centre stage in my feminine business course Birthing a Rich Business created for the sensitive, aspirational, creative woman who wants to birth her gifts in the world through a business that nourishes + enriches both her soul and her bank account.
this offering has been designed to simplify the art of business for you so that it can make success feel sweet to you, so that it gives you the chance to experience true wealth, so that it helps you honor your beautiful feminine sensitive nature, and so that it continues to support your creativity and innovation.
the deeply transformational curriculum shared in this course will help you identify the ways your over-masculinised conditioning that has got you extracting from your life-force energy in order to feel successful in life and business. it has been designed to support you with liberating this conditioning and letting your feminine intelligence guide you with easier, more pleasure-filled ways of doing business and making money at it.
i hope you can use the wisdom shared in this course to birth your gifts in the world through a business that is infused with your softness and magnetism and is rich in peace, nourishment, time and money.
and in case you’d like more focused and time-efficient support, (you may also explore Feminine Business mastery, my 8-weeks private coaching program designed for the woman who is depleted from following the over-masculinised, aggressive and competitive ways of growing her business.
in this coaching partnership, I help my clients create a deeply nourishing business by reclaiming their feminine sovereignty where their heart, emotions, sensitivities and cyclic rhythms – all have a place.
Navdeep 💗
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