The beautiful feminine art of receiving – an article for the woman who wants to learn how to open her heart and become comfortable with receiving love, admiration, support, abundance, and so many more gifts the world offers her everyday.
One of the most common ways our over-masculinised conditioning disconnects us our feminine essence is by diminishing our inherent quality of receptivity.
It makes us build a hard armor of hyper-independence, placing us in a perpetual overdrive mode, suffocating our tender nervous system and slowly diluting our beautiful feminine traits of beauty, gentleness, ease and pleasure.
To most sensitive, aspirational women, this feels like an erroneous equation because even after they have succeeded in achieving external markers of progress, accomplishing all things on their goals list, they find themselves feeling out of touch with their inherent sense of fulfilment.
This reflects in the way they struggle to fully rest and relax, in the way they feel the resistance to ask for support even when they really need it. The impact of this disharmony reflecting in the distrust in the power of their unique feminine gifts.
I can resonate with this firsthand because one of the biggest challenges I too faced on my journey of reconnecting with my self was re-learning the feminine art of receiving. Living in my hyper-masculine energy was my default state of being.
While living the dream of being the first independent woman in my entire lineage, climbing the glorified corporate ladder, I slowly lost touch with this quality that could have made my success far easier, far more delicious.
In the initial years of that life, my default way of operating used to be I got it even when I didn’t get it or I’ll figure it out on my own even when I was in desperate need of support.
No matter how much I tried, I just didn’t know how to receive from my peers, from my team, from people in my social circle, or even from my own parents.
In my psyche, asking for help and support with my life meant I was weak and didn’t have it in me to live a ‘successful’ life. And so, I would push myself to the point of exhaustion trying to figure out life and its tricky parts all on my own, with my heart hardening and shutting me off from the world.
The feminine art of receiving support
When I accidentally and unknowingly started reconnecting with my feminine essence, I started noticing how easily my heart would open up to the people in my life and beyond.
The walls I had built around me started coming down one brick at a time, with my heart loving the idea of being supported by the people around me.
As I started softening in my natural (feminine) state of being, I started becoming comfortable with the idea of letting people do things for me.
My team felt the most connected with me in years, my seniors loved my energy, and the men in my romantic life, oh well, let’s just say they couldn’t get enough of me.
Reflecting upon this time, I realise there was no objective to this shift. I was so tired and exhausted from carrying the weight of life on my two little shoulders that whenever my energy felt the trust and comfort of people around me, I’d let them see me at my vulnerable self, I’d let them help me, I’d let them take care of me.
My energy was open and my nervous system was relaxed. I was working way less than I used to and was reaping the most delicious fruits at work.
The successful woman in me was a supported woman. The wealthy woman in me was a supported woman.
The relaxed woman in me was a supported woman. The pleasure-filled woman in me was a supported woman.
With no conscious awareness, I was embodying the feminine art of receiving at all levels of my being.
When I first started experiencing this power of my feminine gift of receptivity, I was still a part of the corporate world where I was learning how to receive from the people in my physical world, primarily my workplace.
But, slowly and very unexpectedly, I started witnessing my trust in the unseen masculine energy forms, grow deeper in this process.
And so, when I decided to walk away from that chapter of my professional career and start this business, instead of getting lost in the wilderness of entrepreneurship, I found myself feeling deeply held and supported.
What began with receiving the support and guidance of the divine masculine energy of the Higher Unknown, led me to trusting and feeling safe to receive from my inner masculine form.
I saw how easy it became for me to create supportive (masculine) business systems that made me feel safe to embody my inner feminine qualities of creativity, inspiration and flow. A chapter I consider to be fundamental in my success as a business owner because if I hadn’t learnt to receive from my inner masculine, the probability of creating this rich business of mine, would be close to nothing.
This is something I have found in common in my work with women in the space of feminine business, where within the safe presence of their inner masculine, they find it so much easier to tend to their nervous system, their emotions, their deeply intimate insecurities while navigating the generally messy realm of business.
In the support of the structures, boundaries, systems built by their inner masculine, they find the space to heal and grow, to relax, receive and deeply enjoy the milestones of success they cover in their business. (I talk in depth about this in Module 5 of my feminine business course)
Learning the feminine art of receiving
When I look back on these experiences from my personal life, I realize that one of the common themes in all these different phases of my life was a deeply rooted belief in my worthiness.
The trust that I am deserving of receiving all that I need and want- be it support, ease and pleasure in my life or success and prosperity in my career, I was embodying this belief effortlessly.
The same belief that transformed me from an epitome of over-giving, people-pleasing, over-working to a woman who took pleasure in receiving the love, respect, support, admiration from the people in her life.
In my work with women in helping them transition from their hard, hyper-independent self to a soft, receptive version of their being, I notice the same pattern.
That is, the more connected they are with their feminine essence, the deeper their connection with their self-worth grows.
The more they embody their inherent value of worthiness, the easier it becomes for them to receive. To receive from the..
divine masculine powers of God and money.
loving matches in their dating circle.
their doting partner, friends, well-wishers, colleagues.
helping staff in their office, in their building residence, at the restaurant they eat. Essentially, from any and everyone they meet in their daily life.
And finally, the more comfortable they get with receiving, the stronger their connection with their feminine essence becomes. Such a beautiful cycle, isn’t it?
Our feminine energy is the energy of being (not doing), after all. When we know how to practice embodied presence and not prove our worth by over-giving, over-doing, pushing or striving, the more space we create for the masculine energy forms to serve us, to provide for us, to nourish us.
But for that to happen, we must first be open to receiving.
The feminine art of receiving wealth and abundance
Something I talk about in my money magnetism course about this beautiful feminine art of receiving is how when someone does something for us, whether it’s the Universe surprising us in its mysterious ways or God showering our life with blessings or money supporting us in the physical world – we must receive that gift, that gesture with an open heart and acknowledge it with our energy and words filled with joy, radiance, and warmth.
When we do this, by laws of polarity, the masculine providing energy in any and every form feels that appreciation and makes it their mission to give to us even more.
Whether it’s God responding to our feelings of gratitude and fulfilling our heart’s desires, or the Universe blessing our cloudy days with sunshine-filled miracles, or the energy of money that feels even more drawn to our state of sufficiency (and not scarcity) and finds newer ways to enrich our lives, they are all embodying their masculine-providing energy in those moments of service towards us.
When we live in embodiment of our feminine energy of receptivity and are able to acknowledge and receive those gifts of service, the polarity between their masculine and our feminine energy gets activated.
The larger our capacity to receive (and appreciate what we’re receiving), the more that masculine form wants to keep giving to us.
The dynamic between these giving and receiving energies is the same throughout.
The divine (masculine) energies of the Universe keep fulfilling our desires when we know how to fully receive what has been already given/ done for us.
Instead of living in scarcity, worrying about not having enough money, when we shift our state to that of trust and sufficiency where we know how to fully feel and receive the abundance we already have, we naturally find the inspiration to multiply our wealth in even more nourishing and easeful ways.
Whatever we appreciate, grows manifolds. And we can only appreciate something with utmost sincerity when we have cultivated the capacity to receive it.
What happens when we start practicing the feminine art of receiving:
In my feminine softening work, I have found that when women (who are well connected with their winning, achieving masculine energy) learn this beautiful feminine art of receiving, their power in life grows manifold.
They become adept at knowing where to control and where to surrender.
They become fluent in giving only when they are fully resourced.
States of feeling burnt out or resentful are not a reality for them anymore.
They live life in congruence to their true nature, to their feminine essence of being, receiving, feeling and enjoying life through their senses.
They realise that they don’t really have to do it all to have it all.
They learn that collaborative partnerships are so much better than the cut-throat competitive way of living and working they were conditioned to accept as the norm.
They realise that their value is not defined by how much they can do, give, perform, or achieve. Just like any part of nature, they too are worthy simply because they exist.
And from that place of being, when they show up in life, they make it easier for all the masculine energy forms (God, money, opportunities, people) to give to them.
Simply because now, they have become skilled at living in their feminine energy of receiving.
They don’t reach for the check at the end of the date and let the man pay for them. When they feel the urge to give something back to him in return, they simply smile and say ‘thank you for the lovely dinner.‘
At the supermarket, when a lovely man offers to lift their bags and place them in the trolley, they say ‘yes, thank you, that’s so kind of you.‘
At work, when their computer has had a glitch and a colleague offers help, they say ‘yes please, I’d really appreciate that.’
Instead of worrying about not having enough money, they feel genuine gratitude for all that money has gifted them, for all the ways it has and continues to support them. Instead of living in scarcity, their default state shifts to that of sufficiency where they now know how to fully feel and receive the abundance they have, where they naturally find the inspiration to multiply the wealth that already exists in their life.
When they show up to their prayers, instead of complaining about what God hasn’t given them yet, they naturally remember and give thanks for the long list of things that have been (so mysteriously) working out for them.
I can speak from experience that just like any art, this feminine art of receiving too can be honed with practice. It begins with liberating all that’s in the way of us feeling worthy of receiving the goodness that life, God, money, are constantly sending our way.
It involves removing the masculine shields of achievements (and a multitude of conditions attached to our value) and softening into our sacred existence. Believing that we are valuable with or without what we have earned, achieved, gained and conquered.
This simple shift multiplies our strength where not only do we understand how to move around in the physical world but are also connected to the unseen realm of the spiritual, where our feminine essence essentially belongs. The life we go on to create from this space feels so resonant to our deepest values and honors our most intimate truths.
I offer support around cultivating this art of receiving in my feminine softening course Her soft power, that is specifically designed for the woman who is seeking to to recover from the impacts of her over-masculinised conditioning, reclaim the power of her feminine gifts and live a life overflowing with peace, ease, joy and pleasure.
If you’d like to deepen your feminine gift of receptivity, here’s where you can learn more about this offering.
And if you’re desiring more focused support that is tailored to your current state, I also offer feminine softening sessions, designed for the woman who is seeking to recover from the influence of her hyper-masculine conditioning that has so far normalised an effort-filled way of life for her.
Together in this coaching partnership, we will help you soften in your feminine essence, so you can show up in your life and love deeply attuned to your natural pace, your values, your feminine eros, your sensitivities, your radiance, your magnetism and your inherent wisdom.
Money magnetism in times of economic shifts – an article for the feminine-essenced woman who wants to learn how to trust + receive from the masculine-providing energy of money no matter how turbulent the economic times in her outer world may feel like.
Two months into 2025, when I decided to share my money magnetism process with the women in my client community, the world was already feeling the impact of an economic shift.
The geopolitical landscape had started to look unpredictable. And as with any economic shift, one could sense the uncertainty in the energy on and off the internet.
Amidst all of this, I noticed how one thing didn’t change at all.
That was my business growing and the money flowing in my life through it. If the world really was in a recession or was entering into one, why was my business not getting affected by it, I wondered.
I was working way lesser since I was now exploring the traveling entrepreneur life. Naturally then, I was putting even lesser ‘effort’ in the process of growing my business. Yet, my business income kept flowing in, money just kept supporting me.
When I was preparing for the launch of Wealthy Woman’s Way, I realised that this was nothing but an extension of my inner money magnetism.
That was fuelled and continues to be fuelled by my trust in the energy of money, by my inner sufficiency that has all the areas of my life overflowing with abundance, as a result.
Reflecting upon these experiences, I discovered the truth that no matter how much fear is stirred up in the world in times of economic changes, one thing remains the same.
That is, regardless of the season of our lives or the season of the economy, the energy of money continues to be greater than the physical paper notes or the digital currencies we see circulating in the world.
Any given day, money is simply a physical representation of the providing energy of the Divine masculine source.
As long as we are in right receivership with money, it will flow into our lives.
As long as we trust and expect money to fill our lives, it will find mysterious and almost, magical ways to fulfil our desires.
These are the simple laws of feminine-masculine polarity.
When a feminine vessel, we women in this case, create the space for money to flow into our lives, it is the most natural thing for the masculine energy of money to flow into that vessel.
The deeper our energetic capacity to receive, the easier money will find to come and fill our lives. A truth that all of us, all of us have experienced at least once in our lives.
All of us have at least once experienced a time in our lives when nothing outside of us appeared to be in favor of our desires coming true, but we continued to trust in the protective, providing masculine energy of the Unknown power.
This energy of our trust created the space for us to receive our prayers in ways we couldn’t possibly have imagined.
We stayed in connection with this energy of sufficiency, acknowledging the presence of the Divine grace in the existing richness of our life.
We didn’t obsess over the how’s and when’s and instead embodied the energy of surrender and gave over our control to this Divine over-arching power.
Thus magnetising our desires sooner than we had expected. In a way that we didn’t even know was possible.
In times of economic shifts too, it is our trust in the providing-masculine energy of money that helps us tune out the noise of the outer world and tune into our wise inner voice to receive the inspiration to multiply our resources in soul-nourishing ways, while making the best use of the money we already have.
I hold the memory of so many moments from my past corporate life, when everything around me was working fine- the economy was great, I was taking home a big salary, the performance of the company I was working for was stable, but I was drenched in the fear of money running out on me.
Since restoring my relationship with money, no matter what’s happening in my outside world, I find myself feeling safe, abundant, and sovereign with money. Living my days with a deep knowing that money always has my back.
In Module 6 of my money magnetism course, I talk about how no matter what season of our lives or the season of the economy, it is in the nature of money to provide for us. It would simply go to whoever is open and willing to receive it.
Through the real-life examples mentioned in this offering, I share how money doesn’t see our race, colour, class or religion. It doesn’t see even if we are business owners or salaried employees.
It just responds to our energy of sufficiency, to our energy of trust and receptivity.
As long as we have physically created the channels through which it can arrive into our lives, money will continue to fulfil its duty of taking care of us.
For women who find my money magnetism offerings while still peeling back the layers of their overly-masculinised conditioning, this often feels like a complex equation.
In such instances, I like to remind them that any given day, each one of us have access to our divine intuitive cues that guide us towards what needs to be done, what kind of channels we need to create for our financial desires to be fulfilled.
When we are relaxed in our energy of ease, trust and surrender, we become more receptive to this intuitive wisdom and are able to make decisions that lead us directly in the direction of our desires, even when the outside world is in a state of panic. (I offer focused support around this specific step in my feminine business course as well)
This step is so important because money is all the time mirroring our energy.
If we are spending our days drenched in the energy of fear, of lack and scarcity, of tough times ahead, then money will simply respond to our energy by moving farther away from us.
If we have internalised borrowed beliefs like ‘this is a tough time for business’ or ‘the market is slow, so I gotta settle for the salary I am being offered’ and are using the lens of these beliefs to make our everyday decisions, then money is simply going to confirm these beliefs back to us.
In my money magnetism course Wealthy Woman’s Way, we do the energetic work of identifying and liberating these barriers of limiting beliefs and shift into our empowered feminine state of safety, ease, trust and receptivity, pleasure and sufficiency, thus becoming magnetic to the masculine energy of money that is always on a mission to provide for us, to take care of us.
If you’d like support around that, you may explore this course that’s specifically designed for women who are desiring to heal their relationship with the providing energy of money and receive their deepest desires around wealth and abundance through the power of their feminine magnetism.
And in case you want to more focused support that is tailored to your current state, you can also explore Money Magnetism mastery, my 8-weeks private coaching program. It has been designed to support women who are exhausted from striving, forcing, relentlessly exerting and extracting from themselves in order to create a prosperous life for themselves.
Together in this coaching partnership, we will help you heal + deepen your relationship with money so you can fulfil your wildest, most ‘unrealistic’ desires for wealth + abundance with utmost ease and pleasure.
If you need any support deciding which option is best suited for you, please don’t hesitate to reach out.
What is a feminine business – an article for the sensitive, aspirational, creative woman who wants to birth her gifts in the world through a business that nourishes + enriches both her soul and her bank account.
When I decided to translate my personal journey of feminine embodiment into a business practice, my natural instinct was to look around for success stories of women who had walked this path before me.
I was curious to see how they were applying the art of feminine embodiment in the way they led themselves, created their businesses and offered their services.
That exciting pursuit soon turned into a disappointment when I saw feminine embodiment practitioners hustling in their hyper-masculine energy to create six, seven figure businesses.
As someone who had opted out of that same hustle by leaving her high-flying corporate career behind, my nervous system instantly refused to accept those as the kind of success stories I needed for this next phase of my life.
Where was the ease, where was the pleasure, where was the richness in these stories – my heart searched for these answers.
Having spent the previous year on a sabbatical consciously slowing down and identifying my body’s natural pace, I wanted to create a business that was led by my heart.
I wanted to savor the juice out of my days while birthing this business in alignment with my inner sensitivities, with the natural rhythm of my body.
I wanted my business to be identified for my natural expertise as a coach, as a mentor but not at the expense of making my body work 24×7, striving, pushing, chasing clients.
So, I decided to undertake an experiment.
Every time I would feel that old urge of my workaholic self to yet again strive, to yet again push, force, hustle myself into productivity, I would come back into my body, soften into it and connect back with my flow.
And then from that place of flow, of calm, of this unshakeable connection with my inherent enough-ness, I would listen to my heart, to the silent whispers of my body and take the next steps to create my feminine business.
Today, it’s been over three wildly successful years of listening to my heart and my wise feminine body, of enjoying creating a sustainable and deeply profitable business that feels as nourishing as it did on the first day of its inception.
On this journey of supporting women with their feminine embodiment, I have had the privilege of coaching so many women who are already in business or are in the corporate world feeling the call to translate one (or more) of their skills into a profitable, a soul-nourishing business.
Women who are passionate about sharing their gifts with the world, who want to take ownership of their time and resources and use it to create a life of their choice.
These are the women who have in some way already been on their journey of feminine embodiment.
They have started taking joy in the slowness of their lives, they are committed to savouring the deliciousness of their (once mundane) work routines.
They can’t anymore deny their body’s and soul’s needs for slowness, for gentleness, for rest and for relaxation. And now they’re desiring to create business systems that support this feminine way of their living.
They want to peel back the layers of their masculine conditioning and infuse their feminine gifts in the way they create & lead their businesses. They want to now lead in their work lives with their feminine, calling in success as effortlessly as they attract all the other desires of their heart.
If any of this is a reflection of your desires for your current or yet to be launched business OR if you’re feeling called to this feminine way of living, leading a business and making money at it, read on to learn what really is a feminine business.
What is a feminine business
Feminine business is a business philosophy that works for women who want to create and grow their business in alignment with their organic feminine, feeling, magnetic nature.
Birthing a feminine business is the process of illuminating, nurturing and sharing our gifts with the world in a way that honors and nourishes us first- our body, soul, and deepest desires for success.
It involves defying the traditionally masculine ways of business by sharing our gifts of knowledge, creativity, passions, skills and wisdom in a way that feels true, sustainable and deeply nourishing to us.
It is the process of creating business systems that honour our sensitivities, our soft and slow cyclic nature, our needs for rest and relaxation.
This path is meant for women who are desiring to lead their business from an unwavering connection with their enough-ness, trusting that their intuitively chosen business models + methodologies will magnetise the right people to their work, trusting that they won’t have to abandon their soul, their essence to be successful in business.
On the energetic spectrum, a feminine business lies at the opposite end of the fast-paced, burnout-oriented entrepreneurial culture.
This way of business speaks to the woman who is exploring a shift from the outdated masculine ways of striving, performing, hustling in business to a more resonant, feminine path that is deeply rooted in her belief in her gifts, expression and artistry.
She is learning how to birth a financially profitable business by listening to her body first, honoring her needs first and then making shifts in her outer world.
A theme that takes centre stage in my feminine business course Birthing a Rich Business created for the sensitive, aspirational, creative woman who wants to birth her gifts in the world through a business that nourishes + enriches both her soul and her bank account.
This offering has been designed to simplify the art of business for you so that it can make success feel sweet to you, so that it gives you the chance to experience true wealth, so that it helps you honor your beautiful feminine sensitive nature, and so that it continues to support your creativity and innovation.
The deeply transformational curriculum shared in this course will help you identify the ways your over-masculinised conditioning that has got you extracting from your life-force energy in order to feel successful in life and business. It has been designed to support you with liberating this conditioning and letting your feminine intelligence guide you with easier, more pleasure-filled ways of doing business and making money at it.
I hope you can use the wisdom shared in this course to birth your gifts in the world through a business that is infused with your softness and magnetism and is rich in peace, nourishment, time and money.
In case you’re desiring more focused support that is tailored to your current state, you may also explore Feminine Business mastery, my 8-weeks private coaching program designed for the woman who is depleted from following the over-masculinised, aggressive and competitive ways of growing her business.
Together in this coaching partnership, we will help you create a deeply nourishing business by reclaiming your feminine sovereignty where your heart, emotions, sensitivities and cyclic rhythms – all have a place.
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