The intuitive wisdom of our feminine nature

The intuitive wisdom of our feminine nature

The intuitive wisdom of our feminine nature, an article for the woman who wants to learn how to connect with her intuitive intelligence.

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In the current hyper-masculine world that we live in, one of the most underestimated powers of our femininity is our gift of intuition.

Commonly believed to be an element of woman’s inner power, the domain of intuition is simply the feminine– the feeling, sensing energy that connects us to the truth, to the ‘right’ answers to our questions. 

After all, our intuitive wisdom is the language that the Divine essence (spiritual dimension) in our body uses to guide us towards our desires.

Lets’s go a little deeper to understand this.

The intuitive wisdom of our feminine nature

So, our body consists of 4 dimensions- physical, mental, emotional and energetic, that have an overarching fifth dimension- the spiritual, one that represents the essence of the Divine, the One that’s in each one of us. 

Regardless of what area of our life we are calling a new desire in, it is imperative that we set clear intentions with regard to what we really want.

Because our fifth dimension, the essence of the Divine in us, uses these intentions as guideposts and accordingly communicates to us via our intuition whether we are on or off track on our journey towards our desired destination.

(For the sake of clarity, this destination can be a feeling, a vision, a 3D figure, person, situation, job or simply a state of being)

In fact, the Divine essence in us uses the help of the other four dimensions of our body to communicate its message to us in our 3D reality. 

These intuitive knowings, cues, nudges can feel like they’re.. 

  • Physical- where we might feel them via the sensations in our body, a knot in our gut, a constriction in our solar plexus, heaviness in our heart, etc.
  • Emotional- where we might feel extremely sad or ecstatic during the occurrence of an event.
  • Mental- where we might be reminded of an idea or a thought of a similar situation from the past.
  • Energetic- where we might notice a shift (drop or rise) in our vibration, our aura, our energetic state.

Almost always, it is via the feel of it, the feel of a sensation, an emotion, a thought or an energetic vibration that our intuition is speaking to us. 

The truth, as I always say in my work, is in the feel of it. The truth is in the feel of it.


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When something doesn’t feel right, it isn’t right. For you. At that moment. 

Now, there is no rulebook of life that says that we have to listen to our intuition. It is entirely up to us whether we want to listen to this message or not. 

There are countless times in our lives when we have ignored our intuition and gone ahead to do the exact opposite of what it has told us. Only to take a longer (and a messier) route to a point where we were left with no choice than to attend to this divine intervention. 

Because here is the interesting thing. 

Since we are not taught, trained, or educated to learn this language of the Divine, we grow up either totally oblivious of it or choose to stay ignorant of this superpower that we were born with. 

Because of our lack of belief in our own power, we rely on external support systems like card readings, crystals, readings from psychics and what not to guide us on our path. (nothing wrong with them as long as we haven’t made them the ONLY source of divine guidance.)

Knowing about this superpower and choosing to not use it is almost like saying, “What I cannot see with my naked eyes, I won’t believe in”. 

Just because we don’t witness this power in the obvious ways in our 3D reality, it is very easy for most of us to question its legitimacy and have a hard time trusting it. 

Exactly what brings us to the question of how one can then use this invisible power of intuition to navigate life and its tricky situations.

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Learning how to understand the language of our intuition is a skill, a very important one at that. 

It lies at the heart of our feminine magnetism, playing a vital role in the process of manifestation of our heart’s deepest and wildest desires. 

If you’d like to learn this skill and activate your feminine magnetism, you’re invited to explore my core feminine embodiment course, Your Magnetic Femininity.

In Module 8 of this deeply transformative course, I share with you the skills to somatically read and interpret the language of your body’s cues and intuitive knowings, thus activating a very integral element of your feminine embodiment. Here’s where you can learn more about it.

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Some say feminine embodiment in a skill, others say it’s an art. To me, it feels like a journey within. A journey of reconnecting with the feminine design nature had gifted us women from the time we took birth earth-side. Read this article to learn what feminine embodiment really is and what it looks like in our love and work life.

5 signs you are embodying your feminine essence in your love life

5 signs you are embodying your feminine essence in your love life

5 signs you are embodying your feminine essence in your love life, an article for the woman who wants to learn the art of feminine embodiment in love.

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Contrary to a very popular belief system, our femininity goes far beyond our ‘feminine’ dresses, colours, appearances. It has everything to do with our energy of receptivity, sensitivity, sensuality, vulnerability and more. 

Our feminine embodiment is the portal to our power. Power that’s rooted in our worthiness, embodied boundaries & embodied presence.

A woman connected to her feminine essence is (energetically) soft on the outside and strong on the inside. In the space of her love life, she brings her whole (healed) self and lets the man/men her witness her in her radiant femininity. 

Embodying your feminine essence in your love life

Today, in this article, I want to share with you 5 signs that convey if you’re embodying your feminine essence in your love life. 

Sign 1 ~ Feminine art of receiving

You have little or no trouble asking for support from your man/ the men you’re seeing.

You have healed your relationship with your inner masculine. As a result of which, you don’t see asking for help as a sign of weakness.

You know you can do it all by yourself and yet you’re open to receiving more ease and pleasure in your life that men bring to your life.

The more you can receive, the more inspired these (empowered masculine) men want you to pour into you, to give to you, to please you. 

Sign 2 ~ Feminine energy of worthiness

You can joyfully receive from men without feeling the urge to return their efforts and gestures.

You know you are inherently worthy of all the gifts, all the good things that life has to offer you. And that the love, affection and admiration of men/your man is a tiny beautiful part of that gift bundle.

When men try to serve you with their acts of service, you joyfully receive those gestures and exude your warmth and gratitude in return. You don’t feel the pressure to match their efforts to even out the relationship.

This activates the polarity between your feminine energy and the masculine energy of empowered masculine men.

Sign 3 ~ Feminine value of surrender

You effortlessly trust and surrender in the unknown. You’re deeply rooted in your feminine value of divine surrendering.

When you’re single & dating, you allow yourself to flow through and enjoy the process of getting to know a man without worrying about the outcome of that dating association.

When you see that (embodied masculine) man taking the lead, you place the same trust in him and follow his lead.


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When in a committed partnership, you trust your partner to lead your relationship in the right direction.

In both of these scenarios, you trust that your intuition will guide you if that value of trust and surrender is dishonoured.

Sign 4 ~ Feminine gift of intuition

You are able to use your intuition to make decisions in matters of the heart. This is a sign of your heightened sensitivity to your inner knowings and deep trust in your Divine inner guidance.

When something doesn’t feel right, you trust that inner voice and don’t do it. Your intuitive wisdom guides you in your day to day life to make the right decisions around saying yes to dates, saying yes to invitations, following the lead of a man/ men you’re dating and so on. 

Sign 5 ~ Feminine radiance & power

You’re not afraid of expressing your vulnerability in your intimate interactions with men because it is supported by your embodied boundaries.

You know when to open your heart to men and how to protect yourself from getting hurt.

Your energy is open and inviting and guarded by your (highly empowered) energetic boundaries that lets men know that you are a no-nonsense woman indeed. 

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If you would like to learn the art of feminine embodiment in love in a private coaching container, here’s where you can learn more about my 1-1 offerings and explore the next steps.

And if you prefer the support of a self-paced resource, you may explore my powerful book Becoming a Goddess in love. This ebook will guide you to reclaim your feminine nature, radiance and divinely magnetic essence and use it all to revolutionise your love life. Here’s where you can learn more about it.

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Did you know that practising vulnerability in your love life is a skill, one that can be cultivated if you desire an emotionally rich romantic relationship in your life? Read this article where I share with you more on how you can add this skill in your emotional intelligence toolkit.

How to embody your energy of surrender in love

How to embody your energy of surrender in love

How to embody your energy of surrender in love, an article for the woman who wants to be ravished in love.

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Do you know what’s one of the biggest challenges we women face on our journey of feminine embodiment in love? 

It’s the struggle of relaxing back in our feminine energy of surrender.

Add to that a deeper sense of scarcity fed to us by our culture that constantly reminds us “if you do not go after what you want, you’ll never have it!” 

Now this control + outcome oriented masculine energy does practically help us in areas of our work or even in some areas of our love life where we need it to set up a lovely dating profile, respond to texts from the man/ men in our dating circle, etc. when we are single

AND 

letting our inner masculine take care of our inner feminine when we are in a committed partnership.

But when we zoom out and look at our overall love life, we realise that there’s nothing’s more powerful than our feminine energy of surrender. We were gifted this energy from the time we took birth as a woman, after all!

Surrender in our love life looks like staying rooted in the truth that

~ we are born worthy of love, 

~ a man who truly is interested/ invested in us will gladly make the efforts to win our heart,

~ our part in our love life is only our own inner work. 

There is so much power, so much strength in just the value of our feminine surrender. 


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Contrary to popular misconceptions, surrender isn’t about giving up.

It’s about giving over to something way more powerful than we can think or imagine to guide us in the direction of our desires. Trusting that this unknown power will take care of our desires without us pushing or chasing to make things happen in our life.

And this applies to our love life more than to anything else! 

Let’s go a little deeper to understand this. 

We know that our body has 5 dimensions.

The mental, the physical, the emotional, the energetic. All of which have an overarching dimension of the spiritual, that is the essence of the Divine, that’s present in each one of us. 

Let’s understand what does surrender look like by considering this example first. 

Think of how we are when we’re surrendered in our prayers. At our:

mental level, we’re not using our masculine energy of brainstorming or thinking of the answers we’re seeking in our prayers. We’re fully present in the moment without our mind wandering or wondering about what we need to do next to make things happen in that moment.

physical level, our body is relaxed, softened, calm, composed, willing to follow the lead of this masculine energy that is the Divine power we believe in. 

emotional level, we’re deeply connected with our truest feelings, we’re aware of the emotions that are flowing through us. 

energetic level, our faith is entrusted in the masculine energy source that’s the Divine, God, the Higher power we’re praying to. We’re in a state of receptivity, open to receiving our answers. 

At no point, we doubt our worthiness to receive what we have just asked in our prayers. We’re not trying to prove ourselves worthy of our desires. We’re anchored in the belief that we’re good enough for what we have asked for in our prayers.

Now let’s apply this same dynamic to when we’re on a date or in presence of our masculine energy romantic partner. 

Knowing that we’re around a masculine energy source that is this man, we can..

..be relaxed in our physical body,

..be fully present with our thoughts in that moment,

..stay fully connected to our heart

..exuding an energy of openness and receptivity. 

This is what being in our feminine energy of surrender looks like in our love life. 

The more we practice connecting with our feminine essence of softness, flow, enough-ness and receptivity, the deeper our surrender grows in life and in love. 

We feel safe with trusting the empowered masculine energy men in our life to lead the way for us and our love life. 

Thus building on to the existing polarity between their masculine and our feminine energy.

Being able to practice surrender in love is such a powerful way to activate our feminine magnetism in our romantic relationships. 

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If you would like to learn the feminine art of surrender in an intimate support container, you are welcome to explore my private coaching program, Goddess in Love where I help you magnetise your wildest desires in love using the power of your Divine Surrender. Here’s where you can learn more about this offering and explore the next steps. 

And if you prefer to learn from a self-study resource, I invite you to explore my core feminine embodiment course, Your Magnetic Femininity. This offering will help you peel the layers of your hyper-masculine conditioning and reconnect with the full spectrum of your feminine, feeling, surrendering energy. You can learn more about it here.

related reading

A woman connected with her feminine essence is (energetically) soft on the outside and strong on the inside. In the space of her love life, she brings her whole (healed) self and lets the man/men her witness her in her radiant femininity. Read this article to learn the 5 signs that convey if you’re embodying your feminine essence in your love life. 

7 ways to awaken the God in a man

7 ways to awaken the God in a man

7 ways to awaken the God in a man, an article for the woman who wants to awaken the Divine masculine in a man while embodying her Divine feminine.

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If you’ve been here in my community for a while, you’d know that when you’re on your path to becoming a Goddess in love, you learn how to awaken the God in a man as well.

When you are embodying your feminine energy, that is when you are simply being, flowing, surrendering, receiving, the men who are already in embodiment of their masculine energy instantly feel and notice that.

The ones who are just starting out, not so much.

After all, not all men in the world have the potential to become the God in love at the same time, right?

Some are already there, some have just started, some are not even aware of the divinity of their masculine essence.

You beautiful woman are here for the first kind. The ones who are already there. Looking for their Goddess in every woman they meet. 

Seeking the Divine Feminine to come in Sacred Union with their Divine Masculine. 

In the practical world, as a woman desiring meaningful love, your part is to simply show up in connection with your feminine essence and be the divinely magnetic woman you were born as. The rest simply follows. 

In my lived experience, here are the 7 ways I have discovered an embodied woman has the power to awaken the God in a man. 

She does so by: 

1. Offering him the gift of his sacred space 

A woman deeply connected with her feminine essence understands that both her partner and herself are two different individuals with their unique set of needs. To be able to meet their respective emotional needs and wants, they need to be there for themselves first.

In the practical sense, this looks like putting the me first, then the you and then the us.

She understands that two evolved humans cannot show up in a relationship as the best versions of themselves unless they have the space, capacity and intent to do their own inner work. And so, as much as she celebrates having her own share of space and time, so much does she feel comfortable in offering it to her partner.

This, in turn, has a profound impact on an embodied man. He cannot help but notice this shift in the polarity of the relationship and feels even more attracted towards her.

2. Staying connected to her own deepest emotions 

When a woman feels safe connecting with her emotional world, she automatically creates a safe environment for her relationship and her partner as well.

By leading through her vulnerability, she sends an unspoken message to her man that he too can unpack his emotions here.

Her feminine energy of ease is what awakens the King in a man. He finds emotional safety in being around such a woman because now he can let his guard down and just be who he truly is.

In this process of staying connected to her most raw emotions, an embodied woman sets the tone for a romantic relationship that’s soaked in authenticity, vulnerability and courage.

In a world where humans are struggling to stay real, these behaviours infuse a sense of divinity in the relationship inspiring a man to show up and lead with integrity.

3. Letting him know she sees him (no fixing, no mothering, just acknowledging she understands and is around for him) 

A woman embodying her divine feminine essence lives the laws of feminine-masculine polarity like her second nature.

She understands that her sacred union with a masculine man is founded on these powerful laws of magnetism. And so it is not her place to mother, smother or fix her man’s problems without an invitation.

Her compassion for her embodied masculine man in distress runs through her energy. She witnesses him as he is, without trying to solve/ fix his problems and making him feel emasculated.

A man in deep connection with his masculine essence wants to feel like the leader, the problem- solver in his relationship. Not the other way round. And she understands that.

And yet, owing to the bountiful love she holds for him in her heart, she stays around. Offering her energy of warmth and radiance as a soothing balm to his distress.


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4. Communicating her desires with respect towards herself & towards him. 

When a woman lives in inner harmony of her masculine & feminine energies, she naturally is masterful in her feminine art of communication.

In that process, she learns how to express her desires without coming across as unreasonable or demanding.

Her communication is infused with respect for herself and for the man she is in love with.

Considering that respect happens to be the biggest aphrodisiac for a man, it not only brings him closer romantically but also sets a precedent for all future communication in the relationship.

5. Receiving his love and efforts with an open heart.

A woman in her feminine energy understands that nothing inspires a man more than her feminine energy of receiving.

After all, masculine energy is the giving, the providing, the leading energy. Which when comes in contact with her feminine energy of receiving, being, surrendering- the attraction in her relationship is inevitable.

And so she receives the love, attention, affection of her man with an open heart, radiating her joy as an acknowledgement to his efforts.

6. When the urge to reciprocate arises, remembering to return his efforts with her joy, warmth and radiance

An embodied woman understands that she doesn’t need to compete with her man’s efforts to show him her love.

She knows that doesn’t need to become his clone in order to feel loved, heard and cherished.

Her man sees her when she is embodying the polar opposite of his energy. Meaning, when he offers to give, she joyfully receives. When he wants to take the lead, she is happy to follow.

(this might sound counter-intuitive to the modern twisted definition of feminism you last heard. I encourage you to read my first book if you’d like to understand the science behind feminine-masculine polarity)

7. Trusting and surrendering in his devoted leadership towards their relationship 

Masculine energy signifies innate leadership. To a man embodying his masculine energy, it is an honour to be allowed to lead and provide for the people he loves.

When a feminine energy woman entrusts her faith in her man’s ability to take care of their relationship, she further fuels his connection with his divine masculine essence. It sets him on a path of devoted leadership to his woman & to their relationship for the times to come.

One of the best gifts you as a Goddess in love can offer to a man is your trust. Trust that he strives to earn with all his actions, small and big from the moment he meets you.

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When you learn to just flow in your feminine energy, the above ways do not feel like work. They simply are a residual effect of your ease, of your flow and of your worthiness. 

By returning home to your divinely magnetic essence of a woman, you awaken the God in a man.

If what you’re calling in your love life right now is a man in deep connection with his masculine essence, perform a self-check and ask yourself,

  • How far have I come on my path of feminine embodiment?
  • How much closer am I from returning to my home, to my essence? 
  • What’s in my way and what can I do to liberate that and clear my path? 

At every heart break, at every self sabotage in love, the divine (feminine) in you is pulsating with your life force energy, hungering to come alive, asking you to let her animate you, let her come to life. 

Come, return home, begin your beautiful journey of feminine embodiment today.

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If you’re desiring the support of private coaching on your journey of feminine embodiment in love, you’re welcome to explore my private coaching program, Goddess in love. This program has been curated for a woman who wants to attract her wildest desires in love using the skills of feminine embodiment. Here’s where you can learn more about this offering and explore the next steps.

And if you’re looking for a self-paced resource to learn how to inspire the Divine masculine in a man, I invite you to explore my powerful book Becoming a Goddess in love. So many women from around the globe have used the concepts of feminine embodiment shared in this book to transform their love life. You can learn more about it here.

related reading

Do you know what’s one of the biggest challenges we women face on our journey of feminine embodiment in love? It’s the struggle of relaxing back in our feminine energy of surrender. Our control + outcome oriented masculine energy does practically help us in areas of our work or even in some areas of our love life but when we zoom out and look at our overall love life, we realise that there’s nothing’s more powerful than our feminine energy of surrender. Read this article to learn how to embody your energy of surrender in your love life.

How do you measure your self-worth?

How do you measure your self-worth?

How do you measure your self-worth? An article for the woman who wants to reconnect with the unconditionality of her self-worth.

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Do you measure your worthiness through your job? Or do you measure it through the amount of money you earn? Is there another external, transient factor that has got you attaching your inherent worth to it?

If you’re here reading this, chances are you have chosen to be a worldly being. And in that capacity, we obviously need most of the above mentioned forms of rewards to sustain life in the most thriving manner. 

The problem occurs when any of these become the source of self-worth for us. Even worse if these external sources run dry/ empty of their supply of worth for us.

We losing a job is a possibility. Our company going under a restructuring is possible too. The incoming flow of wealth getting disrupted is another scenario. The rapidly changing landscape of social relationships can cost us some of ours too.

The questions to reflect upon are, 

What happens to your life when any/all of these are gone? 

What happens to your sense of inner balance if one or more of these sources of your worthiness go missing? 

As you read the next few lines, take a moment to close your eyes and strip away everything you attach your worth to. Your job, your career, your money, your romantic/ social connections, everything outside of you. 

Who are you now? 

How does it feel to be with yourself? 

Do you like the woman you are? 

Can you wrap your arms around her and still tell her that you love and accept her, from the core of your heart? 

How we feel within ourselves, with this version of us sans all our external, transient sources of worth- is all that matters. 

If that relationship feels whole and complete, we celebrate it, we deepen it further. If it doesn’t, we give ourselves the permission to turn within and ask, “Why is it that I don’t feel worthy by just being me?

Our relationship with our worthiness is always an inside job, dear one. Our worth is innate, it’s ever-present, it is precious. 

We don’t need to downgrade it by measuring it up against a transient title, the dollar we earn, the status our romantic relationships hold. 

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Let’s take a moment now and think of our self-worth as a naturally flowing waterfall that we are born with an exclusive access to. It is available with an unlimited source of water, ever present for us. 

We live under that waterfall, soaking ourselves with its water on harsh hot days any and every time we want. We don’t have to give, to do, to prove anything to keep that waterfall of self-worth flowing forever. 

Now imagine growing up in an environment where our self-worth starts to get compared and measured- in form of our looks, our grades, our size, our skin color, our voice, our achievements, etc.

What happens then?

We start depending on external validation to feel worthy. We start relying upon our community, our partner/the men in our dating circle to bring buckets of water to cool off the heat of unworthiness. Totally forgetting that we live under our own waterfall of self worth. And that we don’t need anyone else’s buckets of validation to feel worthy. 

When we begin our journey of feminine embodiment, we learn how to identify and liberate this dependency on all external sources of our self worth and connect with our enough-ness effortlessly. 

We start showing up in our love life anchored in this truth, no longer feeling the urge to give, to provide, to match the love, affection and attention we receive from the man/men we’re seeing.

As a result, we are able to receive all of that love, the compliments, the offerings like a Goddess exuding her warmth and gratitude without clinging onto any of those gifts. 


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Similarly in areas of our leadership & business, we can show up with as much integrity towards ourselves as we hold for the job we’re set out to complete. Thus living our life in connection with this enough-ness, under this waterfall of our innate self-worth once again. 

Not only are we able to release the need to chase a man begging him for buckets of validation but also let go of the urge to people-please just so they can see our worth in our work..and may be even reward us for that.

That is we embodying our feminine essence in its most natural, primal form.

This energy is what creates the magic for us. When we can sit across the table and look into the eyes of the person we’re negotiating with, we are telling them via more than just our words that I am here for more and I am not willing to settle for anything lesser.

This applies just as much as to our work front as much as it does to our preferences in dating/relationships. 

It is far more powerful than any negotiation tactic we’ll ever learn. Because this energy with which we approach our negotiations in life and relationships is oozing with our sincerity, our authenticity of our deservingness.

Our feminine essence, the one we were inherently born with, is replete with our worthiness, our enough-ness. When we are connected with this essence, we don’t need to measure our self-worth with anything outside of us. We understand that it just is.

journey deeper

If you would like to cultivate a solid, potent relationship with your feminine energy of worthiness in an intimate support container, here’s where you can learn more about my 1-1 offerings and explore the next steps.

And if you’re looking for a self-paced resource to learn from, I invite you to explore Rise with the Feminine, my 7-step feminine energy activation program. In Step 3 of this transformative process, I share with you the skills to somatically restore your connection with your innate self-worth and create ripples of embodied change in the way you live, love and lead. 

Here‘s where you can learn more about this powerful offering.

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Our inner wild woman is the one who shows us the way to follow the beating of our hearts and walk in the direction of our desires. She is the one that reminds us of our inherent worthiness when we have forgotten our value, our glory, our magnificence. Read this article to learn how to reconnect with your inner wild woman.