Embodying your feminine essence in love

Embodying your feminine essence in love

Embodying your feminine essence in love, an article for the woman who wants to learn the powerful skills of feminine embodiment in love and activate the laws of romantic polarity in her love life.


Embodiment means inhabiting all of ourselves. It is a way of being in which we are fully embodying all that we are in any given moment. 

The feminine in feminine embodiment refers to the essence of feeling, flowing, sensing, receiving, surrendering to the process instead of trying to control the outcome. An essence that’s depth-oriented and not direction-oriented (masculine energy).

In the practical sense, feminine embodiment looks like living more in our body and less in our head. It looks like spiralling less in our thoughts and connecting more to our feelings.

It is about trusting that unlimited supply of wisdom our body offers us through its intuitions, nudges, cues throughout our lifetime.

A truly embodied woman derives her sense of self confidence, her sense of self worth and her sense of self belief from her inner wisdom that I like to call the Divine intelligence, that serves like an inner GPS guiding her on her path to a blissful and fulfilled life. 

In fact, when a woman begins the process of embodying her feminine essence, it takes a beautiful spill on her love life too. 

When connected with her feminine essence, she naturally becomes magnetic to a masculine man. By

  • flowing in her feminine energy,
  • practicing vulnerability with boundaries, and
  • staying deeply anchored in her worth,

she inspires the men/ man in her life to show up in their masculine energy for her.

They want to be there for her when she needs them, provide for her with their most generous acts of service. 

They want to be around her all the time, simply because they cannot resist it. (feminine-masculine polarity)

When in a committed relationship, 

her feminine embodiment looks like feeling comfortable with receiving the affection and attention her masculine energy partner gives to her.

She lives each day with a self-sourced assurance in the love he has for her. She feels secure in her relationship both in his presence and his absence.

In case of conflicts, she expresses her concerns with love without spending her days resenting him, feeling jealous or harbouring insecurities.

She lets the man be, without feeling the need to mother him or fix his problems without his invitation.

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When single and dating, 

her feminine embodiment looks like not feeling the need to rush into anything with just any man she meets.

Not only does she feel safe exploring her options but also stays open to the infinite possibilities that exist for her in the dating world.

She feels self-assured in owning and protecting her standards in love, not settling for anything less than what she truly desires and deserves.

She practices effortless embodied presence and lets the masculine pursue her, impress her and win her heart.

As a woman embodied in her feminine essence, the idea of chasing men, leading her dating process or initiating efforts feels out of alignment with her truth. 

What differentiates a woman connected with her feminine essence from the ones who aren’t, is the way she lives her life.

She is rooted in the belief that the love she truly desires is already out there. And that in its own Divine timing, it will come find her. All that she needs to do is to show up in the world (of dating) as her radiant and embodied self. 

If you would like to learn the skills of feminine embodiment in love through a self-study resource, I invite you to explore my book, Becoming a Goddess in love.

Consisting of 9 parts, this ebook will show you how to reclaim your feminine essence, radiance & power in love. So many women from around the globe have used the wisdom of feminine embodiment shared in this book to transform their love lives. 

Here’s where you can learn more about this powerful offering.

How do you measure your self-worth?

How do you measure your self-worth?

How do you measure your self-worth? An article for the woman who wants to reconnect with the unconditionality of her self-worth.


How do you measure your self-worth?

Do you measure it through your job?

Or do you measure it through the amount of money you earn?

Or is there another external, transient factor that has got you attaching your inherent worth to it?

If you’re here reading this, chances are you have chosen to be a worldly being. And in that capacity, we obviously need most of the above mentioned forms of rewards to sustain life in the most thriving manner. 

The problem arises when any of these become the source of self-worth for us. Even worse if these external sources run dry/ empty of their supply of worth for us.

We losing a job is a possibility. The incoming flow of wealth getting disrupted is another scenario. The rapidly changing landscape of social relationships can cost us some of ours too.

The questions to reflect upon are, 

What happens to your life when any/all of these are gone? 

What happens to your sense of inner balance if one or more of these sources of your worthiness go missing? 

As you read the next few lines, take a moment to close your eyes and strip away everything you attach your worth to. Your job, your career, your money, your romantic/ social connections, everything outside of you. 

Who are you now? 

How does it feel to be with yourself? 

Do you like the woman you are? 

Can you wrap your arms around her and still tell her that you love and accept her, from the core of your heart? 

How we feel within ourselves, with this version of us sans all our external, transient sources of worth- is all that matters. 

If that relationship feels whole and complete, we celebrate it, we deepen it further. If it doesn’t, we give ourselves the permission to turn within and ask, “Why is it that I don’t feel worthy by just being me?

Our relationship with our worthiness is always an inside job, dear one. Our worth is innate, it’s ever-present, it is precious. 

We don’t need to downgrade it by measuring it up through a transient title, the dollar we earn, the status our romantic relationships hold. 


Our self-worth is like a naturally flowing waterfall that we are born with an exclusive access to. It is available with an unlimited source of water, ever present for us. 

We live under that waterfall, soaking ourselves with its water on harsh hot days any and every time we want. We don’t have to give, to do, to prove anything to keep that waterfall of self-worth flowing forever. 

When we grow up/live in an environment where our self-worth gets compared and measured- in form of our looks, our grades, our size, our skin color, our voice, our achievements, etc., we slowly start disconnecting from this eternal truth. 

We start depending on external validation to feel worthy.

We start relying upon our community, our partner/the men in our dating circle to bring buckets of water to cool off the heat of unworthiness. Totally forgetting that we live under our own waterfall of self worth. And that we don’t need anyone else’s buckets of validation to feel worthy. 

When you begin your journey of feminine embodiment, you learn to identify and liberate this dependency on all external sources of your self-worth and connect with your enough-ness effortlessly. 

You start showing up in your love life anchored in this truth- no longer feeling the urge to give, to provide, to match the love, affection and attention you receive from your man/ the men you’re seeing.

As a result, you are able to receive all of that love, the compliments, the offerings like a Goddess exuding her warmth and gratitude without clinging onto any of those gifts. 

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Similarly in areas of your leadership & business, you can show up with as much integrity towards yourself as you hold for the job you’re set out to complete. Thus living your life in connection with this enough-ness, under this waterfall of your innate self-worth once again. 

Not only are you able to release the need to chase a man for trickles of validation but also are you able to let go of the urge to people-please just so they can see your worth in your work..and may be even reward you for that.

That is you embodying your feminine essence in its most natural, primal form.

This energy is what creates the magic for you.

When you can sit across the table and look into the eyes of the person you’re negotiating with, you are telling them via more than just words that you are here for more and you are not willing to settle for anything lesser.

This applies just as much as to your work front as much as it does to your preferences/standards in dating/relationships.

It is far more powerful than any negotiation tactic you’ll ever learn. Because this energy with which you approach your negotiations in life and relationships is oozing with your sincerity, your authenticity of your deservingness.

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Our feminine essence, the one we were inherently born with, is replete with our worthiness, our enough-ness. 

When we are connected with this essence, we don’t need to measure our self-worth with anything outside of us. We understand that it just is.

We believe we are worthy simply because we exist. 

If you’re looking for a self-paced resource to reconnect with your feminine energy of worthiness, I invite you to explore Rise with the Feminine, my 7-step feminine energy activation program.

This program will help you anchor in your inner enough-ness and show you how to live, love + lead from your feminine heart and power. 

In step 3 of this offering, I teach you how to restore your connection with your innate self-worth. In this module, you will learn:

~ what is the true meaning of our self-worth.

~ what disconnects us from our innate worthiness.

~ how our self-worth lies at the core of our feminine embodiment.

~ what happens when we show up in our individual life, our love life and our work life anchored in our self-worth.

~ a powerful somatic practice to reconnect with your inherent self-worth.

Here’s where you can learn more about this deeply potent offering.