Embodying your feminine essence in love, an article for the woman who wants to learn the powerful skills of feminine embodiment in love and activate the laws of romantic polarity in her love life.
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Embodiment means inhabiting all of ourselves. It is a way of being in which we are fully embodying all that we are in any given moment.
The feminine in feminine embodiment refers to the essence of feeling, flowing, sensing, receiving, surrendering to the process instead of trying to control the outcome. An essence that’s depth-oriented and not direction-oriented (masculine energy).
In the practical sense, feminine embodiment looks like living more in our body and less in our head. It looks like spiralling less in our thoughts and connecting more to our feelings.
It is about trusting that unlimited supply of wisdom our body offers us through its intuitions, nudges, cues throughout our lifetime.
A truly embodied woman derives her sense of self confidence, her sense of self worth and her sense of self belief from her inner wisdom that I like to call the Divine intelligence, that serves like an inner GPS guiding her on her path to a blissful and fulfilled life.
In fact, when a woman begins the process of embodying her feminine essence, it takes a beautiful spill on her love life too.
When connected with her feminine essence, she naturally becomes magnetic to a masculine man. By
flowing in her feminine energy,
practicing vulnerability with boundaries, and
staying deeply anchored in her worth,
she inspires the men/ man in her life to show up in their masculine energy for her.
They want to be there for her when she needs them, provide for her with their most generous acts of service.
They want to be around her all the time, simply because they cannot resist it. (feminine-masculine polarity)
When in a committed relationship,
her feminine embodiment looks like feeling comfortable with receiving the affection and attention her masculine energy partner gives to her.
She lives each day with a self-sourced assurance in the love he has for her. She feels secure in her relationship both in his presence and his absence.
In case of conflicts, she expresses her concerns with love without spending her days resenting him, feeling jealous or harbouring insecurities.
She lets the man be, without feeling the need to mother him or fix his problems without his invitation.
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When single and dating,
her feminine embodiment looks like not feeling the need to rush into anything with just any man she meets.
Not only does she feel safe exploring her options but also stays open to the infinite possibilities that exist for her in the dating world.
She feels self-assured in owning and protecting her standards in love, not settling for anything less than what she truly desires and deserves.
She practices effortless embodied presence and lets the masculine pursue her, impress her and win her heart.
As a woman embodied in her feminine essence, the idea of chasing men, leading her dating process or initiating efforts feels out of alignment with her truth.
What differentiates a woman connected with her feminine essence from the ones who aren’t, is the way she lives her life.
She is rooted in the belief that the love she truly desires is already out there. And that in its own Divine timing, it will come find her. All that she needs to do is to show up in the world (of dating) as her radiant and embodied self.
If you would like to learn the skills of feminine embodiment in love through a self-study resource, I invite you to explore my book, Becoming a Goddess in love.
Consisting of 9 parts, this ebook will show you how to reclaim your feminine essence, radiance & power in love. So many women from around the globe have used the wisdom of feminine embodiment shared in this book to transform their love lives.
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What weakens the polarity in our romantic relationships, an article for the woman who wants to re-activate the attraction in her love life.
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Every once in a while, I think of my past dis-embodied relationships and the woman I used to be then.
As a hyper-masculine, dis-connected woman, the only way I knew to operate was to lead my romantic relationships, playing Mommy to my ex-partners, providing for them, rescuing them from their money problems and what not.
I was so deeply drowning in that way of living with no hope of a life beyond that reality.
In retrospect, it feels like the blessing of a karmic gift that I experienced everything I went through in those years. Towards the end of which, in my 3D reality, my body came to my rescue.
After landing in the hospital for an emergency surgery amidst my ‘busy’ life of over-working, I was forced to slow down. As I slowed down physically, my inner world started slowing down as well, helping me connect with my heart, my feelings, my desires, my essence.
Opening my soul’s eyes to the mess I had got myself in.
The rest, as they say, is history.
Three months later, I had walked away from the longest adult relationship of my life only to fall so deeply in love with myself. And then slowly and gradually cultivate the feminine art of receiving in my being, creating an infinitely large space within me to receive from men, and from the rest of the world.
In less than a year, I had gone from being a depleted woman to a deeply nourished woman who felt comfortable :
..allowing the men in her dating circle to travel >100kms to pick her for their date and drop her back safely home.
..receiving the acts of service from those men without feeling the slightest need to return those loving gestures.
..pacing out her suitors to honour her preferences and standards around intimacy and commitment.
If you asked me today, what was the most pivotal aspect of my healing, I’d tell you- it was healing the shadow side of my Mother archetype and reconnecting with my inner magnetic woman.
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As the eldest of my siblings, I had the giver and doer energy activated in me from an early age. But meeting wounded masculine/passive men in the early years of my young adult life drew that energy out of me in unhealthy proportions.
I was hopelessly trapped in the cycles of over-giving and then feeling resentful, over-doing and then feeling bitter to my core.
When you keep pouring from a cup for years without filling it back, it runs dry to an extent that you can see the marks of dried out tea at its bottom. That cup desperately needs to be washed and cleaned inside out, and refilled again.
When our beautiful (feminine) value of nurturing and caring for others is practiced from an under-resourced and under-supported state of being (especially in the area of our romantic relationships), it can lead to SO much self-harm.
Not only does it end up depleting us but also leads to extinguishing any possibility of romantic polarity that could have been established in that relationship.
What weakens the polarity in our romantic relationships
A man who may have taken on his embodied role of leading, providing, initiating, taking care of you and your relationship when treated like a toddler, mothered and smothered by his woman starts behaving like one.
And then we are left wondering why does this man never lead.
We expect the man to be the leader in our relationship but when he does, the wounded side of our Mother feminine archetype is standing over his head with a list of ways he could have done it correctly.
This shadow side of our Mother archetype isn’t just limited to when we are in partnered dynamics.
If it’s part of our deeper conditioning, it can show up in how we date as well.
~ Meeting a date halfway to make it easier and more convenient for him..
~ Offering to pay the check when you’re meeting a man who asked you out on a romantic date..
And at a deeper level,
~ Leaning forward in your energy by thinking of a future with a man without he having mentioned about it ever!
~ Being in the energetic state of leading the dating process forward, thinking of ways to “make things happen” in that courting process.
Everything around us is energy. And all of us feel it.
Men, especially the embodied ones, feel the overpowering impact of your masculine leading energy and their inherent masculine nature feels repelled by your presence no matter how attractive they may find you at the physical level.
Romantic polarity, that is the force of attraction between a masculine energy man and a feminine energy woman, keeps weakening with each instance of the two people abandoning their core energetic expression.
So how do we turn this around?
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As a feminine energy woman, you can take responsibility of your part by understanding the laws of feminine-masculine polarity AND learning how to stay relaxed + rooted in your powerful feminine essence.
..thus becoming a woman who is magnetic to (so many) men around her.
If you’re looking for a self-study resource to learn the priceless wisdom of feminine-masculine polarity and apply it in your love life, I invite you to explore my book Becoming a Goddess in love.
AND/OR
If you’re looking for a self-paced resource to reconnect with your femininity at the somatic level, at your energetic level, I highly recommend my 7-step feminine energy activation program Rise with the Feminineto you.
Forever in awe of our feminine magnetism, Navdeep x
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When you are embodying your feminine energy, that is when you are simply being, flowing, surrendering, receiving, the men who are already in embodiment of their masculine energy instantly feel and notice that. The ones who are just starting out, not so much. After all, not all men in the world have the potential to become the God in love at the same time, right? Read this article to learn the 7 ways an embodied woman can awaken the God in a man.
Reclaiming your worth in love, an article for the woman who wants to feel worthy of the love, affection and adoration her man/ the men she is dating send her way.
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When I first entered the scene of modern dating in my later twenties, I was a first time single woman since the age of 17.
I had no idea of how modern dating worked, I never had to download a dating app because there were enough men around me to choose from and get into an instant relationship with. (like Liz says in Eat Pray Love, I was either breaking up with a guy or entering into a relationship with another guy!)
But the damage that my last relationship caused to my self-esteem made me completely forget who I was.
And so, even though I didn’t have any of the skills of feminine embodiment that I teach in my work today, I couldn’t help but notice how attractive I was for the men online.
I was observing how in less than 15 mins, my profile would have hundreds of men of different colours, nationalities, ethnicities swiping on me.
I was paying attention to how some men would even travel all the way from Abu Dhabi to come meet me at the other end in Dubai.
Deep within, I didn’t feel worthy of all that attention and affection and yet there was a part of me curious to know what was it that made so many men want to get a minute of my time.
In those early months, I was once on a date with a man who was consistently pursuing me. He paused eating and looked into my eyes and said to me, “Can I ask you a favour? I nodded.
He continued, “I don’t like it so much when you do all the work of planning our dates. I want to please you not the other way round. Can you let me do that?”
And the rest, as they, is history.
My hyper-masculine behaviour drove him way, soon after which I set inwards on an exploratory journey to understand what this man meant, and why did I not feel worthy of being the prize a man so desperately wants to claim and cherish.
That was precisely when my journey of feminine embodiment in love started.
Today, I can tell you this with utmost surety that you, a woman, is the ultimate prize that any man would consider himself fortunate of receiving.
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You don’t have to lift a finger and there will be guys willing to devote themselves to you, serve you with their leadership for almost nothing in return.
Because they know that you, the woman, is the prize in love.
It is this same reason why a man will go down on one knee to ask a woman to marry him, why he will put himself in that vulnerable position when he takes the emotional risk of expressing his love out aloud.
Men know the power women hold in a relationship.
And it is for the very fear of this power as to why a lot of disembodied men will string along women in years of relationships without offering them the commitment they desire. (unless of course, they’re carrying their own fears of commitment)
Embodied men know this power and revere and worship it. Disembodied ones will do anything to dominate or evade the impact of this power.
My clients who are single & dating don’t just meet a guy on a dating app and agree to his proposal to move-in, to become his girlfriend when they are looking for a commitment like a lifelong partnership.
I feel no more shame in sharing it with the world how many girlfriend proposals, how many requests to move in, etc. have I refused in the last couple of years.
That’s the magic of your embodied self-worth. Once you have seen it, you can’t un-see it. Once you have felt it in your being, you can not not feel it.
No matter how strong the attraction, no matter what a ‘catch’ the guy in front of you is, you won’t be able to override your heart’s desires and settle for anything less that what you truly desire and deserve.
You know your worth, you see it, you feel it, you honour it.
Ten out of ten times, the women who approach me to work on the romantic polarity in their relationships, see things turn around the moment they start reclaiming their worth in their love lives.
Previously disconnected from their feminine essence (and their self-worth as a result), their men start seeing them when they start seeing themselves.. in all their glory, in all their magnificence.
If you’ve read my first book, you know the kind of proposals I have said no to. Simply because I see who I am, because I know what’s my worth and because I know what I’m here for when it comes to my desires in love. There’s no shame, there’s no resistance in honouring my deepest desire for a partnership that’s worthy of my heart, my essence and my presence.
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This element, the element of your embodied self-worth, is the heart of your feminine energetics in love.
One that can be embodied by somatically liberating all the barriers that are in the way of your connection with it. One can be somatically felt and integrated in your being.
Reclaiming our worth is a skill that can be learnt and practiced until it becomes a part of our nature.
If you’re looking for a self-study resource to reclaim your worth in love and in life, you are welcome to explore this offering where I guide you to reconnect and anchor in your innate enough-ness and live, love & lead from your divinely magnetic femininity.
Here’s where you can learn more about its contents.
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In my experience of working with women, I have noticed how it isn’t for thelack of our decisiveness that we say yes to men with traits we don’t want. It is our : 1. lack of clarity around what we truly, truly desire in love and in life, and 2. lack of self worth, that feeling of “who am I to want more”, that leads us to settle for whatever ‘decent’ comes along. Read this article to learn how to cultivate clarity around your desires in love.
9 ways to melt your masculine shield & reconnect with your feminine radiance, a video series for the woman who wants to melt the hardness in her feminine being and return home to her softness, her radiance, her magnetism.
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We are currently living in a go-go, hyper-masculine world that values hustling, pushing, striving, exerting more than anything else.
It teaches us to man up, to tighten up when the going gets tough.
It values perfection over vulnerability, competition over connection.
In such times, it is so easy to harden up, to build up a masculine shield when things don’t go our way.
Instead of softening and melting into our truth that’s so safely held within our feminine bodies, we build an armour to protect us from the outside world, from our own shadows.
And while that armour does its job by giving us the temporary illusion of safety, in the longer run it ends up disconnecting us from our feminine, feeling, sensitive nature. And in turn from our innate feminine magnetism.
I recently completed a new video series for my YouTube channel sharing 9 ways you can melt your masculine shield & reconnect with your feminine radiance.
If you’re desiring the support of a self-study resource to melt your masculine shield and reconnect with your feminine radiance, I invite you to explore my signature feminine embodiment course Your Magnetic Femininity. This offering will help you peel back the layers of your hyper-masculine conditioning and reconnect with your divinely magnetic femininity.
And if you’d like to explore working with me privately, here’s where you can lear more about my 1-1 offerings.
Embodying our feminine archetype of the sensual Lover, an article for the woman who wants to reconnect with the power of her sensuality in love and in life.
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When I first discovered (non-sexual) pleasure in my body, I felt as though I had found the meaning to my life,
the meaning to my existence,
the meaning to my womanhood.
But often in those early instances, I used to feel a faint pull of my old hyper-masculine conditioning. After all, spending hours turned inwards to my pleasure wasn’t getting anything done.
I was not being ‘productive’ in my days, this practice of cultivating depths of my pleasure wasn’t something I could show to the world (and to myself) as my that day’s work. It felt completely irrational and illogical to the recovering workaholic in me.
And yet, something in me wanted to stay here, in my body, feeling that juicy, life-giving pleasure, marinating myself in it. So I continued to do that.
The self-critical voice diminished and died soon after and I went swimming in the deeper end of my sensual embodiment.
Surprisingly enough, it didn’t take long for this connection with myself to reflect in my connection with the world.
It deepened my receptivity when it came to my love life, where my moments of intimacy with the men in my dating circle became so much more than just kissing and fondling.
I could literally feel our sexual energies meeting each other without any form of sexual contact in picture.
Fast forward to today, living and showing up in my sensual connection so effortlessly invites the penetrative masculine energy of these men in my life further deepening our intimacy and polarity.
So here’s the thing, sweets.
We are living in a world where a woman’s connection with her sensuality (and in turn with her sexuality) is so manipulated, degraded, suppressed by our patriarchal society that we start seeing it as something dirty, sinful and disgraceful (the only exception being when it’s a man bringing pleasure to a woman).
This so sneakily diminishes our connection with our sacred feminine archetype of the sensual Lover that is the most easily identifiable archetype of an embodied feminine woman.
The slow, sensual, emotionally connected, magnetic, passionate, creative woman.
Considered as the personification of our sacred sensuality, we are embodying this archetype when we feel the most sensually alive, emotionally connected, deeply fulfilled, ravished by love and intimacy, and are in tune with our life force energy of creativity, inspiration and magnetism.
The magic of this archetype reflects in your most intimate relationships when it pulls a man and keeps him glued to you like a magnet.
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Your natural and juicy expansiveness creates the space for you to fully receive and feel ravished by everything this man does for you.
You stop measuring the magnitude of his offerings of love, intimacy, affection, attention, acts of service and start receiving them as they are, radiating your warmth, joy and pleasure as his return gift.
His masculine energy feels the pull of this magnetic, receiving, feminine energy of yours and wants to give you more, to keep pouring into the infinitely large reservoir of your being.
He lives every waking day of his life to fill that reservoir of your feminine essence.
It is this depth of polarity that keeps men devoted to their women no matter what seasons of life pass them.
It is this strength of attraction that makes a man go from being just a suitor to a smitten, committed, deeply devoted masculine partner.
Just like we women feel the most fulfilled when connected with our feminine essence, men too feel their lives fully actualised when they get to show up for you in their masculine essence.
And it all starts with you melting your hard, masculine armour and allowing yourself to connect with the most profound gift of your womanhood- your sensuality. A gift that makes you a natural receiver of the love, affection, admiration and adoration (embodied) masculine men shower upon you.
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If you are looking for a self-paced resource to learn how to connect with your feminine essence of pleasure and sensuality, I invite you to explore Your Magnetic Femininity, my signature feminine embodiment course.
In modules 5 & 6 of this powerful offering, I show you how you can awaken your divinely magnetic feminine energy by somatically connecting with your sensual aliveness and healing your relationship with your sacred sexuality.
Here’s where you can learn more about this powerful program.
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Our sensuality is our capacity to discover and connect with the aliveness, vitality and pleasure that’s pulsating through our body by using our five external and infinite internal senses. Read this article to learn 4 simple ways you can start reconnecting with your sensuality and aliveness in your day to day life.
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