How to connect with your magnetic sensuality

How to connect with your magnetic sensuality

How to connect with your magnetic sensuality, an article for the woman who wants to invite more pleasure and expansiveness in her life.


One of the most profound gifts I have given myself in this life is learning the skills to connect with my magnetic sensuality. 

As a female born in a traditional Indian family, I grew up seeing the idea of a woman’s sensuality being perceived as dirty and disgraceful.

Something that’s supposed to be explored within the 4 walls of a house. Something that’s reserved for moments of intimacy with your partner.

Evidently, the concept of which was often confused with a woman’s sexuality!

It wasn’t until my late 20s when I learnt that our sexuality is not equivalent to our sensuality but a beautiful subset of it.

I have lived and discovered in the last few years that our sensuality is..

our capacity to discover and connect with the aliveness, vitality and pleasure that’s pulsating through our body 24×7, 365 days a year, using our five external and infinite internal senses. 

This capacity can be cultivated by developing sensitivity to all the dimensions of our body- the physical, the emotional, the mental, and the energetic. By noticing the pulse, the texture, the feel of these sensations, we are able to..

  • create a toolkit of our internal senses to discover pleasure in our body, 
  • witness aliveness in the form of feel good sensations in our body, 
  • use this vitality as an emotional & energetic fuel for our day to day life interactions with the wider world.

Since this work is inside out, this enhanced sensitivity to our inner world leads to us being able to experience pleasure and aliveness using our external senses even more easily.

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And what does that result in? 

A sensually alive, an emotionally charged YOU who is not only magnetic to the humans around her but also to the invisible and endless possibilities her life holds for her. As a result of which, you

  • are able to experience life fully, intensely, wholly.
  • derive pleasure in breathing, moving, talking, eating, drinking a plain glass of water. 
  • feel incredibly softer in your energy to the men/ people around you.
  • feel inspired to carry out even the most routine tasks with joy and passion. 
  • are able to call in your heart’s deepest desires effortlessly.
  • develop a slowed down, calmer rhythm in the way you experience life, in the way you interact with the world. 
  • And of course, feel more sensually alive in moments of physical intimacy. 

4 ways to connect with your sensuality

So how do you connect with this innate, inherent, magnetic sensuality of yours? Here are 4 simple ways you can start reconnecting with your sensuality and aliveness in your day to day life:

One. Softening into your body in high pressure situations. 

Two. Slowing down and taking as much pleasure in everything you do. 

Three. Bringing your awareness to connect with a thread of pleasure in your body whenever you are navigating pain. 

Four. And finally, devoting just a few mins to your sensual flow practice everyday. 

journey deeper

If you’d like to learn the skills to connect with your magnetic sensuality, I invite you to explore my 7-step feminine energy activation program, Rise with the Feminine. In Step 5 of this programI share with you how you can somatically restore your connection with your pleasure and sensuality.

In this module, you will learn:

  • What is the true meaning of sensuality and female pleasure.
  • What pleasure is not.
  • What are the 4 types of pleasure a woman can experience.
  • What is the impact of our pleasure and sensuality in our individual life, in our love life and in our work life.
  • A somatic practice to connect with your pleasure and sacred sensuality.

You can learn more about this transformative offering here

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One of the lesser known facts about our feminine energy is that it is our process-oriented energy. At the centre of which lies our pleasure. In contrast to our outcome-focused masculine energy, the embodiment of our feminine energy involves enjoying the process of doing something, relishing in the pleasure of doing it and deepening our nourishment as we do it. Read this article to learn how to embody your pleasure-oriented feminine energy.

5 benefits of dating in your feminine energy

5 benefits of dating in your feminine energy

5 benefits of dating in your feminine energy, an article for the modern day, sensitive, high-achieving woman who wants to enjoy the process of dating instead of haphazardly racing towards the outcome.


Dating in your feminine energy is one of the best gifts you can give yourself as a single, feminine-essenced woman.

Your feminine energy is your feeling, flowing, sensual state of being, one that’s naturally magnetic to high value, embodied masculine men. When you date in your feminine energy, you inspire the men in your dating circle to show up in their masculine energy for you. They want to

  • show up for you,
  • be there for you when you need them,
  • provide for you with their most generous acts of service,
  • be around you all the time,

simply because they cannot resist it.

In such a dynamic, the love, the spark, the so called chemistry is unimaginably easy and effortless.

By showing up in your polar opposite energies (feminine & masculine), you are supporting the build up of romantic polarity in your dating interactions.

Shared below for you are 5 of the many delicious benefits you receive when dating in your feminine energy.

1. No more pressure to audition for, impress or please your date.

An embodied feminine woman is rooted in her authenticity, her worthiness and her magnetism. As a result, she doesn’t need any scripts or tricks to navigate her every day dating situations.

She feels relaxed and confident in her enough-ness. And shows up for her dates from that space.

She can rely upon her (divine) intuition to guide her when dating gets tricky. She knows that her only job is to show up in her full light and beauty inside out.

To a man, she feels like a breath of fresh air in the claustrophobic modern-dating world.

2. No more working hard for love

An embodied woman lives her life in trust and surrender to the infinite possibilities around her. She knows that anything that is meant for her won’t pass her.

This faith in the unknown and unseen gives her the superpower to attract easy, flowing love in her life.

She also understands and lives by the power of feminine masculine polarity in romance. She knows that it’s a masculine man’s honour and privilege to do the work in winning her heart. And not vice-versa.

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3. Dating with fun, ease and flow

An embodied woman understands that dating is the most fun way to explore her options in the world. And that not all the men she meets in her dating circle are going to be her soulmate.

She looks at every experience as a chance to get to meet new people, hear their stories and exchange a part of her life with them. As a result, she dates with non-attachment to the outcome. Because she knows that when it comes to dating, no one owes anything to anyone.

Moreover, she understands that just like her, the men in her circle are on an exploration too.

This way of dating- in non-attachment, devoid of control, is the beautiful art of feminine dating. It attracts high value masculine men to her like bees to honey. Whereas the feminine is about surrender, the masculine is about control. If the feminine is about the process, the masculine is about the outcome.

Two opposite ends of a spectrum right? Exactly the reason why the opposite energies of feminine and masculine attract each other so effortlessly!

4. Feeling safe with expressing your vulnerability

An embodied woman understands that vulnerability is the language of the heart.

She routinely brings her vulnerability to her dating interactions and shows her imperfections to her man/the men in her dating circle. 

Over a period of getting to know a man, she allows her romantic interactions to gain depth by letting him see her at her less than best. As a result, he feels safe to show her his heart too. 

Because her safety in expressing her vulnerability is rooted in her embodied boundaries, she doesn’t feel scared to place her trust and surrender in the unknown.

Her confidence in her enough-ness serves her as a reminder that a high value man, one who is truly deserving of her, won’t be offended by her boundaries and would only feel more inspired to step up and win her heart.

5. Feeling comfortable with trusting your date to lead the way

A woman connected with her feminine essence does’t compete with the men in her dating circle.

She is replete in her self-worth and doesn’t feel the need to prove her worth by leading the dating process.

She enjoys being the prize in love and is aware that the best way she can give back to man is through receiving his efforts, affection and attention with her joy, warmth and radiance.

And most importantly, she knows that leading, initiating, providing, doing, are the masculine elements in a romantic relationship. She knows that if she starts doing any of the above, she would be:

  • preventing a masculine man’s emotional investment in the relationship,
  • making the man feel emasculated, or
  • pushing him farther away with her own masculine energy (remember: as per the laws of romantic polarity, opposite energies attract, similar ones repel).

And so, as a feminine energy woman who desires an electrifying romantic relationship, her best bet is to let the man take the lead. By doing so, she also is filtering out any men who are not yet connected with their divine masculine energy.

journey deeper

If you’re currently at a stage in your love life where you’re desiring 1-1 support with dating in your feminine energy, you’re welcome to explore my private coaching program, Goddess in love.

This program has been curated for a woman who wants to attract her wildest desires in love using the skills of feminine embodiment. Here’s where you can learn more about this offering and explore the next steps.

And if you prefer to learn from a self-study resource, I invite you to explore my book, Becoming a Goddess in love. So many women from around the globe have used the concepts of feminine embodiment shared in this book to transform their love life. You can explore its powerful contents here.

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