The beautiful feminine art of receiving, an article for the woman who wants to learn how to receive from the masculine energy sources in her life.
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Did you know that one of the biggest challenges I faced on my journey of feminine embodiment was learning the feminine art of receiving.
Living in my hyper-masculine energy was my constant state. Forget about my dating matches, I didn’t even know how to receive from my peers, from my team, from friends in my social circle, or from my own family members.
In fact, my personal journey of feminine embodiment started first at my workplace. (all in my second book)
The more I softened in my feminine essence, the easier I started finding it to delegate tasks to my team, to receive support from my peers and managers and to let my work friends pay for me.
I witnessed myself slowly go from being an epitome of over-giving & people-pleasing to becoming a woman who felt worthy of receiving the love, respect, support, admiration from the people in her life.
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So, this is what I discovered in that process of transitioning from my hard, hyper-independent self to a soft, receptive version of me:
The more connected we are with our femininity, the deeper our connection with our self-worth grows.
The more we believe we are worthy, the easier it becomes for us to receive.
helping staff in our office, in our building residence, at the restaurant we eat. Basically from any and everyone we meet in our daily life.
And finally the more comfortable we get with receiving, the stronger our connection with our feminine essence becomes.
What a beautiful cycle, isn’t it?
Our feminine energy is the energy of being (not doing), after all. When we know how to practice embodied presence and not prove our worth by over-giving, over-doing, pushing or striving, the more space we create for the masculine energy sources in the world to serve us, to provide for us, to nourish us.
But for that to happen, we must first be open to receiving.
Staying open to the idea of receiving
Imagine being on a date and taking a moment to feel the energy that wonderful man has put in setting up the date, choosing a lovely setting for you both and is trying his best to ensure you have a nice time with him.
Feeling all of his efforts, the affection underneath and soaking yourself up in that love and generosity. And then simply letting him know how much you appreciate it with your warmth, joy and with a simple ‘thank you’.
It makes his evening. It makes his day. You’ve ended up inspiring this man to do all the more for you. To probably even go out of his way next time to be your hero again.
So next time, when someone does anything for you- may be a friend who genuinely has a compliment to offer, or a colleague who wants to pay for the lunch you both just had, pause for a moment, feel their affection, generosity, warmth towards you and receive it fully.
Let the energy of that person’s efforts drench your being, even just for a moment, and then just let them know with a small or big thank you how much you appreciate that gesture.
Learning the feminine art of receiving
Just like any other art, this feminine art of receiving too can be honed with practice provided we are willing to liberate all that’s in the way of us feeling worthy of receiving all the goodness life, God, men, money, you name it, is constantly sending our way.
I have witnessed this in my lived experience that when we successful women, the ones with a lot of winning, giving, achieving masculine energy learn this beautiful feminine art of receiving, our power in life grows manifold.
We become adept at knowing where to control and where to surrender.
We become fluent in giving only when we are fully resourced.
States of feeling burnt out or resentful are not a reality for us anymore.
We finally learn and live life in congruence to our true nature, to our feminine essence of being, receiving, feeling, sensing and more.
We figure out that we really don’t have to do it all to have it all.
We learn that collaborative partnerships are so much better than the cut throat competitive way of living and working we were conditioned about.
We ultimately realise that our worth is not defined by how much we do, give, perform, achieve. Our worth just is. It is a given.
And from that place, when we show up in the 3D world, we make it easier for the masculine energy forms around us to give to us. Simply because now we have become used to of living in our feminine energy of receiving.
We don’t reach for the check at the end of the date and let the man pay for us.
When we feel the urge to give back something in return, we smile and say, “thank you for the lovely dinner.”
At work, when our computer has had a glitch and our colleague offers help, we say “yes please, I’d really appreciate that.”
At the supermarket, when a lovely man offers to lift our bags and place them in the trolley, we say, “yes, thank you, so kind of you.”
When our partner wants to drive all the way to come pick us up and take us out, we let him do that and say, “thank you honey for doing that for me.
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Polarity between the masculine & feminine energies
When someone does something for us, whether it’s the Universe surprising us in its mysterious ways OR the human beings in our 3D reality participating in acts of service towards us, we receive that gift, that gesture with an open heart and acknowledge it with our energy and words filled with joy, radiance, and warmth.
By laws of polarity, the masculine providing energy in any and every form feels that appreciation and makes it their mission to give us even more.
Whether it’s the Universe that responds to our feelings of gratitude and keeps fulfilling all our hearts desires
OR the men in our life who feel like a hero upon receiving our appreciation and want to give us even more, OR
the people in our social circle who notice the acknowledgment of their simple efforts, they are all embodying their masculine providing, protecting energy in those moments of service towards us.
When we live in embodiment of our feminine energy and are able to receive those gifts of service, the polarity between the masculine and feminine dynamic gets activated. (I share more aboutthe laws of feminine-masculine polarity in my core feminine embodiment course,Your Magnetic Femininity.)
The larger our capacity to receive (and appreciate what we’re receiving), the more that masculine source wants to keep giving to us.
The dynamic between the giving and receiving energy is the same throughout.
The Divine (masculine) keeps fulfilling our desires when we know how to receive and acknowledge what has been already given/ done for us. (we have learnt so much about the power of gratitude, haven’t we?)
The men in our lives want to devote themselves in our service when we have learnt how to receive their efforts and respond with our joyful radiance.
Whatever we appreciate, grows manifolds. And we can only appreciate something with utmost sincerity when we have cultivated the capacity to receive it.
journey deeper
If you’re desiring like to learn the feminine art of receiving through a self-paced resource, I invite you to explore my core feminine embodiment course, Your Magnetic Femininity.
In the last one year alone, this life-transforming offering has helped so many women around the world peel back the layers of their hyper-masculine conditioning, reconnect with the full spectrum of their organic feminine nature and become a magnetic woman in life, love and leadership.
You too can receive the wisdom this course has to offer and swim towards the deeper(and oh, so fulfilling) end of your feminine embodiment.
Some say feminine embodiment is a skill, others say it’s an art. To me, it feels like a journey within. A journey of reconnecting with the feminine design nature had gifted us women from the time we took birth earth-side. That’s why our feminine embodiment feels like fully embracing and embodying the feminine flavour of nature that we are innately gifted with. Read this article to learn what feminine embodiment really is and what it looks like in life, love and leadership.
7 ways to awaken the God in a man, an article for the woman who wants to awaken the Divine masculine in a man while embodying her Divine feminine.
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If you’ve been here in my community for a while, you’d know that when you’re on your path to becoming a Goddess in love, you learn how to awaken the God in a man as well.
When you are embodying your feminine energy, that is when you are simply being, flowing, surrendering, receiving, the men who are already in embodiment of their masculine energy instantly feel and notice that.
The ones who are just starting out, not so much.
After all, not all men in the world have the potential to become the God in love at the same time, right?
Some are already there, some have just started, some are not even aware of the divinity of their masculine essence.
You beautiful woman are here for the first kind. The ones who are already there. Looking for their Goddess in every woman they meet.
Seeking the Divine Feminine to come in Sacred Union with their Divine Masculine.
In the practical world, as a woman desiring meaningful love, your part is to simply show up in connection with your feminine essence and be the divinely magnetic woman you were born as. The rest simply follows.
In my lived experience, here are the 7 ways I have discovered an embodied woman has the power to awaken the God in a man.
She does so by:
1. Offering him the gift of his sacred space
A woman deeply connected with her feminine essence understands that both her partner and herself are two different individuals with their unique set of needs. To be able to meet their respective emotional needs and wants, they need to be there for themselves first.
In the practical sense, this looks like putting the me first, then the you and then the us.
She understands that two evolved humans cannot show up in a relationship as the best versions of themselves unless they have the space, capacity and intent to do their own inner work. And so, as much as she celebrates having her own share of space and time, so much does she feel comfortable in offering it to her partner.
This, in turn, has a profound impact on an embodied man. He cannot help but notice this shift in the polarity of the relationship and feels even more attracted towards her.
2. Staying connected to her own deepest emotions
When a woman feels safe connecting with her emotional world, she automatically creates a safe environment for her relationship and her partner as well.
By leading through her vulnerability, she sends an unspoken message to her man that he too can unpack his emotions here.
Her feminine energy of ease is what awakens the King in a man. He finds emotional safety in being around such a woman because now he can let his guard down and just be who he truly is.
In this process of staying connected to her most raw emotions, an embodied woman sets the tone for a romantic relationship that’s soaked in authenticity, vulnerability and courage.
In a world where humans are struggling to stay real, these behaviours infuse a sense of divinity in the relationship inspiring a man to show up and lead with integrity.
3. Letting him know she sees him (no fixing, no mothering, just acknowledging she understands and is around for him)
A woman embodying her divine feminine essence lives the laws of feminine-masculine polarity like her second nature.
She understands that her sacred union with a masculine man is founded on these powerful laws of magnetism. And so it is not her place to mother, smother or fix her man’s problems without an invitation.
Her compassion for her embodied masculine man in distress runs through her energy. She witnesses him as he is, without trying to solve/ fix his problems and making him feel emasculated.
A man in deep connection with his masculine essence wants to feel like the leader, the problem- solver in his relationship. Not the other way round. And she understands that.
And yet, owing to the bountiful love she holds for him in her heart, she stays around. Offering her energy of warmth and radiance as a soothing balm to his distress.
Want to learn the secrets that make a woman magnetic? Access your free copy of the Magnetic Woman guide here.
4. Communicating her desires with respect towards herself & towards him.
When a woman lives in inner harmony of her masculine & feminine energies, she naturally is masterful in her feminine art of communication.
In that process, she learns how to express her desires without coming across as unreasonable or demanding.
Her communication is infused with respect for herself and for the man she is in love with.
Considering that respect happens to be the biggest aphrodisiac for a man, it not only brings him closer romantically but also sets a precedent for all future communication in the relationship.
5. Receiving his love and efforts with an open heart.
A woman in her feminine energy understands that nothing inspires a man more than her feminine energy of receiving.
After all, masculine energy is the giving, the providing, the leading energy. Which when comes in contact with her feminine energy of receiving, being, surrendering- the attraction in her relationship is inevitable.
And so she receives the love, attention, affection of her man with an open heart, radiating her joy as an acknowledgement to his efforts.
6. When the urge to reciprocate arises, remembering to return his efforts with her joy, warmth and radiance
An embodied woman understands that she doesn’t need to compete with her man’s efforts to show him her love.
She knows that doesn’t need to become his clone in order to feel loved, heard and cherished.
Her man sees her when she is embodying the polar opposite of his energy. Meaning, when he offers to give, she joyfully receives. When he wants to take the lead, she is happy to follow.
(this might sound counter-intuitive to the modern twisted definition of feminism you last heard. I encourage you to read my first book if you’d like to understand the science behind feminine-masculine polarity)
7. Trusting and surrendering in his devoted leadership towards their relationship
Masculine energy signifies innate leadership. To a man embodying his masculine energy, it is an honour to be allowed to lead and provide for the people he loves.
When a feminine energy woman entrusts her faith in her man’s ability to take care of their relationship, she further fuels his connection with his divine masculine essence. It sets him on a path of devoted leadership to his woman & to their relationship for the times to come.
One of the best gifts you as a Goddess in love can offer to a man is your trust. Trust that he strives to earn with all his actions, small and big from the moment he meets you.
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When you learn to just flow in your feminine energy, the above ways do not feel like work. They simply are a residual effect of your ease, of your flow and of your worthiness.
By returning home to your divinely magnetic essence of a woman, you awaken the God in a man.
If what you’re calling in your love life right now is a man in deep connection with his masculine essence, perform a self-check and ask yourself,
How far have I come on my path of feminine embodiment?
How much closer am I from returning to my home, to my essence?
What’s in my way and what can I do to liberate that and clear my path?
At every heart break, at every self sabotage in love, the divine (feminine) in you is pulsating with your life force energy, hungering to come alive, asking you to let her animate you, let her come to life.
Come, return home, begin your beautiful journey of feminine embodiment today.
journey deeper
If you’re desiring to learn the powerful skills of feminine embodiment in love and apply the laws of romantic polarity in your love life, I invite you to explore my powerful book Becoming a Goddess in love.
In parts 7-9 of this book, I show you how you can awaken & inspire the Divine Masculine in your man/ the men you’re dating and become a receiver of his devotion towards you and your relationship.
If you’d like to learn more, you can explore the contents of this powerful offering here.
related reading
Do you know what’s one of the biggest challenges we women face on our journey of feminine embodiment in love? It’s the struggle of relaxing back in our feminine energy of surrender. Our control + outcome oriented masculine energy does practically help us in areas of our work or even in some areas of our love life but when we zoom out and look at our overall love life, we realise that there’s nothing’s more powerful than our feminine energy of surrender. Read this article to learn how to embody your energy of surrender in your love life.
How do you measure your self-worth? An article for the woman who wants to reconnect with the unconditionality of her self-worth.
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Hi beauty, I invite you to reflect upon the answers to these questions:
How do you measure your self-worth?
Do you measure it through your job?
Or do you measure it through the amount of money you earn?
Or is there another external, transient factor that has got you attaching your inherent worth to it?
If you’re here reading this, chances are you have chosen to be a worldly being. And in that capacity, we obviously need most of the above mentioned forms of rewards to sustain life in the most thriving manner.
The problem arises when any of these become the source of self-worth for us. Even worse if these external sources run dry/ empty of their supply of worth for us.
We losing a job is a possibility. The incoming flow of wealth getting disrupted is another scenario. The rapidly changing landscape of social relationships can cost us some of ours too.
I invite you to reflect upon..
What happens to your life when any/all of these are gone?
What happens to your sense of inner balance if one or more of these sources of your worthiness go missing?
As you read the next few lines, take a moment to close your eyes and strip away everything you attach your worth to. Your job, your career, your money, your romantic/ social connections, everything outside of you.
Who are you now?
How does it feel to be with yourself?
Do you like the woman you are?
Can you wrap your arms around her and still tell her that you love and accept her, from the core of your heart?
How we feel within ourselves, with this version of us sans all our external, transient sources of worth- is all that matters.
If that relationship feels whole and complete, we celebrate it, we deepen it further. If it doesn’t, we give ourselves the permission to turn within and ask, “Why is it that I don’t feel worthy by just being me?“
Our relationship with our worthiness is always an inside job, dear one. Our worth is innate, it’s ever-present, it is precious.
We don’t need to downgrade it by measuring it up through a transient title, the dollar we earn, the status our romantic relationships hold.
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Our self-worth is like a naturally flowing waterfall that we are born with an exclusive access to. It is available with an unlimited source of water, ever present for us.
We live under that waterfall, soaking ourselves with its water on harsh hot days any and every time we want. We don’t have to give, to do, to prove anything to keep that waterfall of self-worth flowing forever.
When we grow up/live in an environment where our self-worth gets compared and measured- in form of our looks, our grades, our size, our skin color, our voice, our achievements, etc., we slowly start disconnecting from this eternal truth.
We start depending on external validation to feel worthy.
We start relying upon our community, our partner/the men in our dating circle to bring buckets of water to cool off the heat of unworthiness. Totally forgetting that we live under our own waterfall of self worth. And that we don’t need anyone else’s buckets of validation to feel worthy.
When you begin your journey of feminine embodiment, you learn to identify and liberate this dependency on all external sources of your self-worth and connect with your enough-ness effortlessly.
You start showing up in your love life anchored in this truth- no longer feeling the urge to give, to provide, to match the love, affection and attention you receive from your man/ the men you’re seeing.
As a result, you are able to receive all of that love, the compliments, the offerings like a Goddess exuding her warmth and gratitude without clinging onto any of those gifts.
Want to learn the secrets that make a woman magnetic? Access your free copy of the Magnetic Woman guide here.
Similarly in areas of your leadership & business, you can show up with as much integrity towards yourself as you hold for the job you’re set out to complete. Thus living your life in connection with this enough-ness, under this waterfall of your innate self-worth once again.
Not only are you able to release the need to chase a man for trickles of validation but also are you able to let go of the urge to people-please just so they can see your worth in your work..and may be even reward you for that.
That is you embodying your feminine essence in its most natural, primal form.
This energy is what creates the magic for you.
When you can sit across the table and look into the eyes of the person you’re negotiating with, you are telling them via more than just words that you are here for more and you are not willing to settle for anything lesser.
This applies just as much as to your work front as much as it does to your preferences/standards in dating/relationships.
It is far more powerful than any negotiation tactic you’ll ever learn. Because this energy with which you approach your negotiations in life and relationships is oozing with your sincerity, your authenticity of your deservingness.
journey deeper
Our feminine energy is replete with our worthiness so much so that our self-worth is one of the essential elements of our feminine embodiment.
When we are connected with this essence, we don’t need to measure our self-worth with anything outside of us. We understand that it just is.
We believe we are worthy simply because we exist.
If you’re looking for a self-paced resource to reconnect with your feminine essence of worthiness, I invite you to explore Your Magnetic Femininity, my core feminine embodiment course.
This program will help you anchor in your inner enough-ness and show you how to live, love + lead in your divinely magnetic femininity.
Here’s where you can learn more about this deeply potent offering.
How to connect with your magnetic sensuality, an article for the woman who wants to invite more pleasure and expansiveness in her life.
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One of the most profound gifts I have given myself in this life is learning the skills to connect with my magnetic sensuality.
As a female born in a traditional Indian family, I grew up seeing the idea of a woman’s sensuality being perceived as dirty and disgraceful. Something that’s supposed to be explored within the four walls of a house. Something that’s reserved for moments of intimacy with your partner. (Evidently, the concept of which was also often confused with a woman’s sexuality!
It wasn’t until my late twenties when I learnt that our sexuality is not equivalent to our sensuality but a beautiful subset of it.
Wherein our sensuality is our capacity to discover + connect with the aliveness, vitality and pleasure that’s pulsating through our body (literally, all the time) by using our five external and infinite internal senses.
This capacity can be cultivated by developing sensitivity to all the dimensions of our body- the physical, the emotional, the mental, and the energetic. By noticing the pulse, the texture, the feel of these sensations, we are able to..
create a toolkit of our internal senses to discover pleasure in our body,
witness aliveness in the form of feel good sensations in our body,
use this vitality as an emotional & energetic fuel for our day to day life interactions with the wider world.
Since this work is inside out, this enhanced sensitivity to our inner world leads to us being able to experience pleasure and aliveness using our external senses even more easily.
And what does that result in?
A sensually alive, an emotionally charged YOU who is not only magnetic to the humans around her but also to the invisible and endless possibilities her life holds for her. As a result of which, you
are able to experience life fully, intensely, wholly.
derive pleasure in breathing, moving, talking, eating, drinking a plain glass of water.
feel incredibly softer in your energy to the men/ people around you.
feel inspired to carry out even the most routine tasks with joy and passion.
are able to call in your heart’s deepest desires effortlessly.
develop a slowed down, calmer rhythm in the way you experience life, in the way you interact with the world.
And of course, feel more sensually alive in moments of physical intimacy.
Want to learn the secrets that make a woman magnetic? Access your free copy of the Magnetic Woman guide here.
4 ways to connect with your sensuality
So how do we connect with this innate, inherent, magnetic sensuality of ours? In my lived experience I have discovered these 4 beautiful ways you can start reconnecting with your sensuality and aliveness in your day to day life:
One. Softening into your body in high pressure situations.
We are currently living in a hyper-masculine, burnout-oriented world that has conditioned us to strive harder when we are in the face of a challenge.
This effort-filled way of living is so celebrated in most cultures around the globe that it ends up disconnecting us women from our innate (feminine) magnetism.
When we are in the face of a challenge, if we choose to move forward thrusting our energy to resolve that issue without first connecting with our inner flow, we are not only setting ourselves up for failure but also further hardening our inner constrictions that have arisen in response to that challenge.
What if instead of hardening up or choosing the outdated striving route, you allowed yourself to soften, you allowed your tenderness to guide you out of that situation?
The next time you find yourself in a high pressure situation, consider consciously softening into your body, connecting with your senses and moving your body to find a thread of pleasure within.
As you keep moving your body to your inherent pleasure, you’ll notice how it helps you unravel your inner frozen tension as well thus allowing you to source your fuel of right thoughts and the right innovation from within.
This happens because the more we’re connected with our inner senses, the easier it becomes for us to use our intuitive guidance to navigate that challenge far more efficiently.
Two. Slowing down and taking pleasure in everything you do.
When taking actions of eating, drinking, walking, speaking, or working, I invite you to consciously slow down and practise moment to moment awareness when you’re indulging in any activity.
You don’t need to worry about getting it perfect, just try slowing down your usual pace of doing things and then slow down a little more.
As someone whose entire journey of feminine embodiment started when she was forced to physically slow down after an unexpected surgery, I can’t emphasise enough on the importance of a slowed down rhythm for re-establishing your sensual connection.
What’s important to remember here is that this rhythm looks different for different women, there is no one-size-fits-all formula here.
So this is what happens when we start slowing down at any level of our body (physical, mental, emotional or energetic).
We start acquainting ourselves with our body’s sensations that had earlier been numbed or repressed by the fast-paced rhythm of doing life. Once this connection has been activated, we are more connected with all of our outer (five) senses and our inner felt senses.
It becomes easier for us to tap into our pleasure without relying on any external sources (casual sex, Netflix & chill, junk food, scrolling, gossip, etc) to bring that pleasure to us.
Living in connection with our self-sourced aliveness and pleasure becomes our second nature.
This sensitivity to our inner senses helps us live more richly because now we know how to feel not just our pleasure but also the other half of our emotional spectrum of uncomfortable emotions like pain, grief, anger and inner deaths & rebirths.
This is the part where we start navigating the deeper end of our feminine embodiment, where we learn how to honour the full sacred spectrum of our emotions- the pain and the pleasure, the light and the dark shadows.
(I share extensively about this in my core feminine embodiment course Your Magnetic Femininity. that’s designed to help you reconnect with the full spectrum of your feminine, feeling, sensing nature. )
Three. Bringing your awareness to connect with a thread of pleasure in your body whenever you are navigating pain.
As we covered in the previous point, once you have slowed down your usual pace of living and doing life, it becomes easier for you to observe and identify your inner felt senses. You now know how to tap into your pleasure just like how you always knew how to feel your pain.
This might come across as new information for some of us who are generally used to numbing our emotions and feelings. Where our default (and subconscious) response to pain might be to numb it out with pseudo-pleasures and so feeling the pain might not be the usual course of action for us. (this was me a few years ago.)
But the beauty of living life at a slowed down rhythm is that it helps us see even our pain as a sensation that’s temporary like every other sensation.
Every painful sensation in our body (at the physical, mental, emotional or energetic) brings to us a medicine, a message, a lesson that we need to learn in order to move into the next chapter of our lives.
When we have developed this understanding of our pain, we don’t hold it as our eternal state and can allow our connection with our pleasure to make this process of navigating our pain much, much easier.
Imagine being able to turn within and soak yourself in the threads of pleasure in your body when you are in the midst of pain. Imagine how little or no impact it has then on the outer expression of your sensuality.
You live your life as the sensually magnetic woman you were born as, both in your outlook and in your inner world, where you have now developed the lived wisdom to not let your pain reduce you to anything lesser.
Four. And finally, devoting just a few mins to your sensual flow practice everyday.
All of the above mentioned ways become easier to explore when we have learnt the skill of connecting with our inner threads of pleasure.
That’s why, it is so important to have a pleasure or sensuality practice that takes you deeper than flower baths, massages and other external self-care practices.
The ability to tune into our sensuality and pleasure is a skill that, unfortunately, we weren’t taught in our school or university curriculum. With consistent practice, it becomes our second nature to stay tuned into our pleasure regardless of where we are and what we are doing.
In my lived experience, this skill is one of the most powerful elements of our feminine embodiment because we no more need to depend even on the more popular sexual sources of pleasure to experience our true sensual power.
Imagine yourself standing in a long queue of frustrated travellers at the airport and knowing how to connect with your feel-good feelings, your pure unadulterated pleasure from within. It turns that general ordeal-filled moment of waiting into something so luscious, so expansive.
Imagine being on a date with a man and not relying on him to please you. Imagine knowing how to enjoy yourself fully, how to source your joy from within. What strong forces of romantic polarity does that create in your dating dynamic.
As you traverse deeper on this journey of your sensual embodiment, you’ll notice that not only does this inner sensual connection offer you the gift of a truly nourished and fulfilled life but also does it deepen your magnetism towards your heart-felt desires as well as the wider world around you.
journey deeper
If you are desiring to learn how to connect with your feminine essence of aliveness, pleasure and vitality through a simple (and proven) step-by-step process,I invite you to explore Your Magnetic Femininity, my core feminine embodiment course.
In modules 5 & 6 of this powerful offering, I show you how you can awaken your feminine energy by somatically connecting with your sensuality and healing your relationship with your sacred sexuality.
Here’s where you can learn more about this powerful offering.
related reading
When we are in the process of calling in our desires, the only way to tell if we’re embodying our feminine magnetism is to explore if we are enjoying that process and having fun on the way. Our pleasure is the only yardstick we need to determine how magnetic we are being in the manifestation of any desire of our heart. Doesn’t mater how big, how impossible, how wildly daring that desire may be. Read this article to learn how to embody your pleasure-oriented feminine energy.
5 benefits of dating in your feminine energy, an article for the modern day, sensitive, high-achieving woman who wants to enjoy the process of dating instead of haphazardly racing towards the outcome.
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Dating in your feminine energy is one of the best gifts you can give yourself as a single, feminine-essenced woman.
Your feminine energy is your feeling, flowing, sensual state of being, one that’s naturally magnetic to high value, embodied masculine men.
When you date in your feminine energy, you inspire the men in your dating circle to show up in their masculine energy for you. They want to
show up for you,
be there for you when you need them,
provide for you with their most generous acts of service,
be around you all the time,
…simply because they cannot resist it.
In such a dynamic, the love, the spark, the so called chemistry is unimaginably easy and effortless.
By showing up in your polar opposite energies (feminine & masculine), you are supporting the building of romantic polarity in your dating interactions.
Shared below for you are 5 of the many delicious benefits you receive when dating in your feminine energy.
1. No more pressure to audition for, impress or please your date.
An embodied feminine woman is rooted in her authenticity, her worthiness and her magnetism. As a result, she doesn’t need any scripts or tricks to navigate her every day dating situations.
She feels relaxed and confident in her enough-ness. And shows up for her dates from that space.
She can rely upon her (divine) intuition to guide her when dating gets tricky. She knows that her only job is to show up in her full light and beauty inside out.
To a man, she feels like a breath of fresh air in the claustrophobic modern-dating world.
2. No more working hard for love
An embodied woman lives her life in trust and surrender to the infinite possibilities around her. She knows that anything that is meant for her won’t pass her.
This faith in the unknown and unseen gives her the superpower to attract easy, flowing love in her life.
She also understands and lives by the power of feminine masculine polarity in romance. She knows that it’s a masculine man’s honour and privilege to do the work in winning her heart. And not vice-versa.
Want to learn the secrets that make a woman magnetic? Access your free copy of the Magnetic Woman guide here.
3. Dating with fun, ease and flow
An embodied woman understands that dating is the most fun way to explore her options in the world. And that not all the men she meets in her dating circle are going to be her soulmate.
She looks at every experience as a chance to get to meet new people, hear their stories and exchange a part of her life with them. As a result, she dates with non-attachment to the outcome. Because she knows that when it comes to dating, no one owes anything to anyone.
Moreover, she understands that just like her, the men in her circle are on an exploration too. This way of dating- in non-attachment, devoid of control, is the beautiful art of feminine dating. It attracts high value masculine men to her like bees to honey.
Whereas the feminine is about surrender and flow, the masculine is about control and structure. If the feminine is about the process, the masculine is about the outcome. Two opposite ends of a spectrum right? Exactly the reason why the opposite energies of feminine and masculine attract each other so effortlessly!
4. Feeling safe with expressing your vulnerability
An embodied woman understands that vulnerabilityis the language of the heart.
She routinely brings her vulnerability to her dating interactions and shows her imperfections to her man/the men in her dating circle.
Over a period of getting to know a man, she allows her romantic interactions to gain depth by letting him see her at her less than best. As a result, he feels safe to show her his heart too.
Because her safety in expressing her vulnerability is rooted in her embodied boundaries, she doesn’t feel scared to place her trust and surrender in the unknown.
Her confidence in her enough-ness serves her as a reminder that a high value man, one who is truly deserving of her, won’t be offended by her boundaries and would only feel more inspired to step up and win her heart.
5. Feeling comfortable with trusting your date to lead the way
A woman connected with her feminine essence does’t compete with the men in her dating circle.
She is replete in her self-worth and doesn’t feel the need to prove her worth by leading the dating process.
She enjoys being the prize in love and is aware that the best way she can give back to man is by receiving his efforts, affection and attention with her joy, warmth and radiance.
And most importantly, she knows that leading, initiating, providing, doing, are the masculine elements in a romantic relationship. She knows that if she starts doing any of the above, she would be:
preventing a masculine man’s emotional investment in the relationship,
making the man feel emasculated, or
pushing him farther away with her own masculine energy (remember: as per the laws of romantic polarity, opposite energies attract, similar ones repel).
And so, as a feminine energy woman who desires an electrifying romantic relationship, her best bet is to let the man take the lead. By doing so, she also is filtering out any men who are not yet connected with their divine masculine energy.
journey deeper
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Consisting of 9 parts, this book will show you how to reclaim your feminine essence, radiance & power and use it all to revolutionise your love life. This is a wonderful resource especially if you’re desiring to learn the skills of feminine embodiment in love and apply the laws of romantic polarity (also known as feminine-masculine polarity) in your dating life.
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