What weakens the polarity in our romantic relationships, an article for the woman who wants to re-activate the attraction in her love life.
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Every once in a while, I think of my past disembodied relationships and who I used to be then.
As a hyper-masculine, disconnected woman, the only way I knew to operate was to lead my romantic relationships, playing Mommy to my ex-partners, providing for them, rescuing them from their money problems and what not.
I was so deeply drowning in that way of living with no hope of a life beyond that reality.
In retrospect, it feels like the blessing of a karmic gift that I experienced everything I went through in those years. Towards the end of which, in my 3D reality, my body came to my rescue.
After landing in the hospital for an emergency surgery amidst my ‘busy’ life of over-working, I was forced to slow down.
As I slowed down physically, my inner world started slowing down as well, helping me connect with my heart, my feelings, my desires, my essence.
Opening my soul’s eyes to the mess I had got myself in.
The rest, as they say, is history.
Three months later, I had walked away from the longest adult relationship of my life only to fall so deeply in love with myself. And then slowly and gradually cultivate the feminine art of receiving in my being, creating an infinitely large space within me to receive from men, and from the rest of the world.
In less than a year, I had gone from being a depleted woman to a deeply nourished woman who felt comfortable :
..allowing the men in her dating circle to travel >100kms to pick her for their date and drop her back safely home.
..receiving the acts of service from those men without feeling the slightest need to return those loving gestures.
..pacing out her suitors to honour her preferences and standards around intimacy and commitment.
If you asked me today, what was the most pivotal aspect of my healing, I’d tell you- it was healing the shadow side of my Mother archetype and reconnecting with my inner magnetic woman.
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As the eldest of my siblings, I had the giver and doer energy activated in me from an early age.
But meeting wounded masculine/passive men in the early years of my young adult life drew that energy out of me in unhealthy proportions.
I was hopelessly trapped in the cycles of over-giving and then feeling resentful, over-doing and then feeling bitter to my core.
When you keep pouring from a cup for years without filling it back, it runs dry to an extent that you can see the marks of dried out tea at its bottom. That cup desperately needs to be washed and cleaned inside out, and refilled again.
When this beautiful value of nurturing and caring for others is practiced from an under-resourced and under-supported state of being (especially in the area of our romantic relationships), it can lead to SO much self-harm.
Not only does it end up depleting us but also does it lead to extinguishing any possibility of romantic polarity that could have been established in that relationship.
What weakens the polarity in our romantic relationships
A man who may have taken on his embodied role of leading, providing, initiating, taking care of you and your relationship when treated like a toddler, mothered and smothered by his woman starts behaving like one.
And then we are left wondering why does this man never lead.
We expect the man to be the leader in our relationship but when he does, the wounded side of our Mother feminine archetype is standing over his head with a list of ways he could have done it correctly.
This shadow side of our Mother archetype isn’t just limited to when we are in partnered dynamics.
If it’s part of our deeper conditioning, it can show up in how we date as well.
~ Meeting a date halfway to make it easier and more convenient for him..
~ Offering to pay the check when you’re meeting a man who asked you out on a romantic date..
And at a deeper level,
~ Leaning forward in your energy by thinking of a future with a man without he having mentioned about it ever!
~ Being in the energetic state of leading the dating process forward, thinking of ways to “make things happen” in that courting process.
Everything around us is energy. And all of us feel it.
Men, especially the embodied ones, feel the overpowering impact of your masculine leading energy and their inherent masculine nature feels repelled by your presence no matter how attractive they may find you at the physical level.
Romantic polarity, that is the force of attraction between a masculine energy man and a feminine energy woman, keeps weakening with each instance of the two people abandoning their core energetic expression.
So how do we turn this around?
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As a feminine energy woman, you take responsibility of your part by embodying the laws of feminine-masculine polarity at a somatic level, at your energetic level.
By staying relaxed and rooted in your powerful feminine essence. By understanding how polarity works and integrating that knowledge in your being, thus becoming a woman who is magnetic to (so many) men around her.
In my work, I help my clients do that by sharing with them the skills of polarity through my powerful book Becoming a Goddess in love.
Consisting of 9 parts, this book will show you how to reclaim your feminine essence, radiance & power and use it all to revolutionise your love life. You will learn how to apply the laws of romantic polarity in your relationship/dating life and inspire the devotion of your man/the men you’re dating.
So many women around the globe have used the wisdom shared in this book to transform the way they show up in their love lives. If you’d like to learn more, you can explore its powerful contents here.
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When you are embodying your feminine energy, that is when you are simply being, flowing, surrendering, receiving, the men who are already in embodiment of their masculine energy instantly feel and notice that. The ones who are just starting out, not so much. After all, not all men in the world have the potential to become the God in love at the same time, right? Read this article to learn the 7 ways an embodied woman can awaken the God in a man.
Trusting our feminine gift of intuition in business, an article for the woman who wants to create & grow her business by trusting her intuitive superpower.
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One of the earliest discoveries I made on my journey of feminine embodiment was realizing the power of my intuitive wisdom.
As I was resting deeper into my feminine design, I started noticing how I felt called to make decisions that didn’t appear linear or logical to my outside world.
It was simply a sense of following what felt right to me. That resonated with my inner realities. That felt true to my heart and soul.
What the world perceived as my madness in leaving behind an established career in the corporate, felt like honouring the deepest calling of my soul. One that has led me to living this deeply fulfilled life, doing the work that I was brought here in this world to do.
What the world perceived as a totally irrational biz decision in turning away from (the noisy environment of) social media turned out to be the biggest act of service I’ve offered to my heart-led business. One where I have instead adopted more organic methods of online marketing that let my work be naturally discovered by women who are the right match for my business.
Such is the power of our feminine gift of intuition.
It doesn’t make sense to anyone besides us. It doesn’t need to.
What may seem like an irrational decision to others feels right to us, like a deep knowing, like a divinely guided decision.
Whether it comes to deciding what to charge for our offerings, or exploring the next phase of our business, or designing the right kind of systems and structures for our business, our inner sense of knowing is always present. Always available to be tuned into.
But this doesn’t come naturally to a lot of us women. Especially if we come from cultures that have long valued the masculine way of living and working. Where logic precedes our inner knowings, where the doing precedes our feeling, sensing nature.
We aren’t really trained to honour or even trust these inner knowings, the subtle cues that our deeply wise feminine bodies offer us at every turn of life.
As a result, we often end up taking longer, more tedious routes to the actualisation of our desires.
In the end, realising the futility of it all and finally turning to our inner wisdom to receive guidance around our decisions and actions.
Imagine how different and easy our lives would be if we instead chose to trust our inner sense of right and wrong?
How pleasurable would our business become if we instead trusted our body’s knowings to guide us?
I’ve noticed in my experience of coaching women on their journeys of feminine leadership that interpreting the language of our intuition is a matter of developing the right skills.
Skills that when embodied can guide us to simply turn inwards and receive our answers to the most complex questions around our business decisions. Skills that help us restore and reclaim our sovereignty in business and in life.
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If you’d like to learn how to use your intuitive feminine wisdom in creating & growing your business(es), you’re welcome to explore my private coaching program Embodied Businesswoman.
It is an offering designed for sensitive, high-achieving women who are already on the path of entrepreneurship and want to integrate the principles of feminine leadership in the way they share their gifts with the world through their business
OR
who are currently a part of the corporate world, feeling the inner fire to translate one or more of their skills into a thriving and sustainable business model.
Here’s where you can learn more about this powerful offering and explore the next steps.
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Learning how to understand the language of our intuition is a skill, a very important one at that. It lies at the heart of our feminine magnetism, playing a vital role in the process of manifestation of our heart’s deepest and wildest desires. Read this article to learn how to connect with your intuitive intelligence.
4 reasons why we women need embodied boundaries in our relationships, an article for the woman who wants to reconnect with her feminine power by learning the art of setting and upholding boundaries.
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Like a lot of us, you too must have heard about the concept of boundaries on the Internet, through your peers or in your self-development books.
What I understood from the courses I participated in, the books I read and the practitioners I followed early in my journey, was that boundaries meant knowing what I like or don’t like and letting people around me know that.
Except back then, forming a boundary felt like a guarding system that I had to ‘put up’ to protect myself. It felt like a constant effort-requiring act that needed to be ‘maintained’ by me every single time. At the end of which, I’d feel so exhausted that most often, I would either end that act of putting up that boundary OR try to simply avoid being in situations that needed me to hold that boundary.
What I didn’t know or rather had not learnt until then was that when a boundary is set up in the right way, it becomes life-generating not life-depleting.
What made my back then process of setting up a boundary so exhausting was the fact that I was setting the boundary first and embodying (more like trying to) it later.
This outside-in process wasn’t serving me. I would either start doubting my own self in that process or be always scared of practising that boundary.
It took me a long winding journey to learn that there indeed is an easier way to set and commit to our boundaries.
Something that is also known as healthy or embodied boundaries.
Maybe you already know what those are. Maybe what you know about boundaries is what matches the definition of disembodied (unhealthy) boundaries.
And while having an unhealthy or disembodied boundary is still much better than having no boundaries, for the sake of clarity, let’s first understand what distinguishes embodied boundaries from the opposite of it.
Boundaries by definition are personal rules or limits we create as a standard for interaction with other people/ situations.
The way we choose to interact with the world, and with the people in it, is largely defined by the boundaries we hold, and embody.
Boundaries also inform how we will respond if/when someone crosses those limits.
Our boundaries are a part of our essence, always pulsating, living, breathing in one way or the other. They’re constantly being fueled by our being, our heart, our standards and our preferences.
For us to be able to show up in our relationships as our authentic self, we need a set of boundaries to protect us in that process of sharing our beautiful vulnerabilities.
So let’s go a little deeper today and understand the 4 reasons why we need our own individual set of embodied boundaries if we want to show up in the world in our feminine radiance:
1. Boundaries help us define our unique identity (to ourselves and to the world).
When we don’t know who we are or what types of behaviours/ conditions/ experiences we desire to consent to, we become no one.
For us to know how we prefer to operate in this human world, we need to know what we like, what we don’t like, what we can say yes to, what we would like to say no to.
Similarly for a person to know you as/ for something, they need to know what is acceptable when they are around you, what is not acceptable when they are with you. If you haven’t done the work to figure out what works for you and what doesn’t, it would really not be fair to expect another being to respect your ‘undefined’ preferences.
We are all holding and embodying a boundary of some form at all times. Even an apparent ‘lack of boundaries’ is a boundary we are holding and embodying. Boundaries can be:
~ Healthy: creating an empowering sense of identity, rooted in love and compassion, further enhancing our integrity and generosity.
~ Unhealthy: creating a sense of depletion, rooted in wounding and resentment, enhancing undesirable (for us) quality/ qualities.
~ Absent: a sense of no direction or objective, depending on other’s preferences and standards (rather than embodying one’s own).
In absence of boundaries, we tend to develop unhealthy forms of attachment like codependency. Something that is not recommendable when it comes to the health of our relationships.
In order to fully actualise the vision you hold for yourself in different areas of your life, you need to clarify, create, embody and hold boundaries that serve you and help you thrive as the woman in that desirable version of you.
Want to learn the secrets that make a woman magnetic? Access your copy of the Magnetic Woman guide here.
2. Boundaries help us in our decision-making process.
Our boundaries have one of the following three orientations:
Yes
No
Still deciding
Where “still deciding” isn’t necessarily the same as maybe. Somewhere in between a yes and a no, it’s a choice we make when we are trying to avoid holding boundaries. It also means that we genuinely may not have an answer yet. Still deciding will lead to a yes, or a no, eventually.
Every single decision you make in your life is informed by your boundaries. And without clear boundaries, it becomes increasingly difficult to make decisions (and thus move forward) in the world.
For instance, reflect upon your current dating life and explore if you have clear answers to the following questions.
Are you available to be a texting buddy to your dating match(es)?
Do you feel comfortable having sex with a man who hasn’t offered you a solid commitment yet?
Would you be okay to date a man who doesn’t match one of your minimum standards yet but feels good to be around with?
The answer to all of these questions depends on the health of your boundaries.
Take some time out today to research in what part of your life, you’re in the ‘still deciding’ orientation. Drop into your heart and research the answers to all such questions and decide what it is that you truly would want to happen if anything was possible for you.
3. Embodied boundaries help us honour ourselves
Have you ever said yes, but meant no?
Have you ever left your intention unclear, undefined, unsaid?
or have you ever not fully asked for what you wanted?
Do you remember how that felt to your inner world? Not good, I’m guessing.
Every woman knows what it’s like to dishonour her boundaries as this is the part that inspires us to learn how to create healthy boundaries.
If you’re unable to form a clear yes/no based on your own existing set of boundaries, then the natural result is that you’ll dishonour yourself.
You’ll agree to going to a man’s house when you didn’t want to go to. You’ll agree to be penetrated when you are not prepared.
Each moment of dishonouring can lead to the build up of constrictions in our energy. Some may lead to shame, some may lead to a lot of buried pain and sadness, others may lead to resentment towards ourselves and the person who dishonoured us.
Experiences of such dishonour towards ourselves can leave us feeling rather powerless when actually we are immensely powerful beings.
When you learn how to embody your boundaries, it becomes so effortless and guilt free to be able to say no to what doesn’t serve you.
4. Boundaries help us eliminate resentment and birth compassion.
A lot of cultures around the globe perpetuate the belief that women are supposed to give first and take care of others first.
The same programming when fed to us in our formative years leads us to believe that we are ‘supposed’ to prioritise the needs of others before our own.
When we don’t speak up for what we want/need, when we let others walk over us, and when we don’t embody strong boundaries we may be giving from a place of lack, or self-sacrifice. We’ve been trained to think this is a noble thing to do, and that it makes us a good person.
But is that really true?
How do you feel when…
a man you’ve just met tries to force his ideologies upon you?
you give to a man your attention, time, energy in amounts that you very well know he hasn’t earned yet?
you agree to sex but don’t want it?
Do you feel compassionate, generous, and inspired in those actions? Or do you feel resigned, resentful and angry at the end of it all?
One of the most common reasons behind why the health of our relationships, the romantic ones in particular, declines over time is the resentment that women build within them as a result of their over-giving nature.
In absence of boundaries around when and how much to give to a relationship, they end up feeling bitter and resentful of their partner.
Not to forget that this over-giving approach is a very masculine one to begin with.
And so when we create, hold and embody the boundaries that serve our emotional health, we are able to show up in the outside world with integrity, compassion and generosity, all of which align with our feminine power.
We learn to give from the overflow of our cup, not the depth of it.
There’s grace in our energy, there is honesty in our words and actions.
If you’re an empath/ sensitive woman like me, I can’t describe how uncomplicated your life will become once you start practicing this life-generating skill of setting embodied boundaries.
You’ll no longer have to succumb to being the nice girl to any and every person.
You can hold your ground and yet be the most generous and compassionate woman when you show up in the world. You can honour yourself by respecting your own boundaries and honour the person in front of you by practising radical honesty.
Your boundaries when embodied fuel your feminine power. A power that’s devoid of arrogance and is rooted in love and compassion.
A power state you were inherently assigned as a woman, one that may have been lost or forgotten on the way. One that can be regained, one that makes life so liveable, so much fun, so easy and so effortless.
Your boundaries are the simplest medium to channel that power in the 3D world we live in.
Whether it’s your dating life, your social interactions, your workplace relationships, your embodied boundaries help you- define your identity, make your decision making process unimaginably easier, honour yourself with utmost sincerity and eliminate resentment while birthing compassion in your heart for yourself and for the world.
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If you’d like to learn the art of setting embodied boundaries, I invite you to explore my core feminine embodiment program, Your Magnetic Femininity.
In this deeply transformative course, I help you reconnect with the elements of your feminine power and use them to build an internal protection system that keeps you safe as you show up in the world in your feminine value of vulnerability.
You can learn more about its rich curriculum here.
Reclaiming your worth in love, an article for the woman who wants to feel worthy of the love, affection and adoration her man/ the men she is dating send her way.
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When I first entered the scene of modern dating in my later twenties, I was a first time single woman since the age of 17.
I had no idea of how modern dating worked, I never had to download a dating app because there were enough men around me to choose from and get into an instant relationship with. (like Liz says in Eat Pray Love, I was either breaking up with a guy or entering into a relationship with another guy!)
But the damage that my last relationship caused to my self-esteem made me completely forget who I was.
And so, even though I didn’t have any of the skills of feminine embodiment that I teach in my work today, I couldn’t help but notice how attractive I was for the men online.
I was observing how in less than 15 mins, my profile would have hundreds of men of different colours, nationalities, ethnicities swiping on me.
I was paying attention to how some men would even travel all the way from Abu Dhabi to come meet me at the other end in Dubai.
Deep within, I didn’t feel worthy of all that attention and affection and yet there was a part of me curious to know what was it that made so many men want to get a minute of my time.
In those early months, I was once on a date with a man who was consistently pursuing me. He paused eating and looked into my eyes and said to me, “Can I ask you a favour? I nodded.
He continued, “I don’t like it so much when you do all the work of planning our dates. I want to please you not the other way round. Can you let me do that?”
And the rest, as they, is history.
My hyper-masculine behaviour drove him way, soon after which I set inwards on an exploratory journey to understand what this man meant, and why did I not feel worthy of being the prize a man so desperately wants to claim and cherish.
That was precisely when my journey of feminine embodiment in love started.
Today, I can tell you this with utmost surety that you, a woman, is the ultimate prize that any man would consider himself fortunate of receiving.
Want to learn the secrets that make a woman magnetic? Access your copy of the Magnetic Woman guide here.
You don’t have to lift a finger and there will be guys willing to devote themselves to you, serve you with their leadership for almost nothing in return.
Because they know that you, the woman, is the prize in love.
It is this same reason why a man will go down on one knee to ask a woman to marry him, why he will put himself in that vulnerable position when he takes the emotional risk of expressing his love out aloud.
Men know the power women hold in a relationship.
And it is for the very fear of this power as to why a lot of disembodied men will string along women in years of relationships without offering them the commitment they desire. (unless of course, they’re carrying their own fears of commitment)
Embodied men know this power and revere and worship it. Disembodied ones will do anything to dominate or evade the impact of this power.
My clients who are single & dating don’t just meet a guy on a dating app and agree to his proposal to move-in, to become his girlfriend when they are looking for a commitment like a lifelong partnership.
I feel no more shame in sharing it with the world how many girlfriend proposals, how many requests to move in, etc. have I refused in the last couple of years.
That’s the magic of your embodied self-worth. Once you have seen it, you can’t un-see it. Once you have felt it in your being, you can not not feel it.
No matter how strong the attraction, no matter what a ‘catch’ the guy in front of you is, you won’t be able to override your heart’s desires and settle for anything less that what you truly desire and deserve.
You know your worth, you see it, you feel it, you honour it.
Ten out of ten times, the women who approach me to work on the romantic polarity in their relationships, see things turn around the moment they start reclaiming their worth in their love lives.
Previously disconnected from their feminine essence (and their self-worth as a result), their men start seeing them when they start seeing themselves.. in all their glory, in all their magnificence.
If you’ve read my first book, you know the kind of proposals I have said no to. Simply because I see who I am, because I know what’s my worth and because I know what I’m here for when it comes to my desires in love. There’s no shame, there’s no resistance in honouring my deepest desire for a partnership that’s worthy of my heart, my essence and my presence.
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This element, the element of your embodied self-worth, is the heart of your feminine energetics in love.
One that can be embodied by somatically liberating all the barriers that are in the way of your connection with it. One can be somatically felt and integrated in your being.
Reclaiming our worth is a skill that can be learnt and practiced until it becomes a part of our nature.
A skill that I teach my clients in my 7-step feminine energy activation program Rise with the Feminine.
If you’re looking for a self-study resource to reclaim your worth in love and in life, you are welcome to explore this offering where I guide you to reconnect and anchor in your feminine value of enough-ness and live, love & lead from your feminine heart and power.
Here’s where you can learn more about its powerful inclusions.
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In my experience of working with women, I have noticed how it isn’t for thelack of our decisiveness that we say yes to men with traits we don’t want. It is our : 1. lack of clarity around what we truly, truly desire in love and in life, and 2. lack of self worth, that feeling of “who am I to want more”, that leads us to settle for whatever ‘decent’ comes along. Read this article to learn how to cultivate clarity around your desires in love.
What really is a feminine business? An article for the woman who wants to build and grow her (future) business(es) in alignment with her natural feminine design.
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When I decided to translate my personal journey of feminine embodiment into a business practice, my first instinct was to look around for success stories of women who had walked this path before me.
I wanted to see how they were applying these principles of feminine embodiment in the way they led themselves, created their businesses and offered their services.
That exciting pursuit soon turned into a disappointment when I saw ‘feminine embodiment’ practitioners hustling in their hyper-masculine energy to create six, seven figure businesses.
As someone who had opted out of that hustle by leaving her six-figure corporate career behind, my nervous system instantly refused to accept those as the kind of success stories I needed for the next phase of my life. Where was the ease, where was the pleasure, where was the richness in these stories, my heart searched for these answers.
Having spent the previous year on a sabbatical consciously slowing down and identifying my body’s natural pace, I wanted to create a business led by my heart. I wanted to suck the juice out of my days while birthing this business in alignment with my inner sensitivities, with the natural rhythm of my body. I wanted my business to be identified for my natural expertise as a coach, as a mentor but not at the expense of making my body work 24×7, striving, pushing, chasing clients.
So every time I would feel that old urge of my workaholic self to strive, to effort, I would turn back into my body, soften and connect back with my flow.
And then from that place of flow, of calm, of enough-ness, I would listen to my heart and take the next steps to create my feminine business.
It’s been close to three years of listening to my heart and my wise feminine body, of making some really unconventional decisions (like exiting social media for marketing my work) of enjoying creating a business that feels as nourishing as it did on the first day of its inception. And I have continued to see this desire reflected in the kind of coaching requests I have received throughout the course of my business. (which eventually led me to create my powerful coaching program Feminine Business Queen)
These inquiries have been from women who are already in business or are in the corporate world feeling the call to translate one (or more) of their skills into a profitable, soul-nourishing business.
Women who are passionate about something, who want to take ownership of their time and resources and use it to create a life of their choice.
Then there is another beautiful pattern underneath.
These are the women who have in some way already been on their journey of feminine embodiment. They have started taking joy in the slowness of their lives, they are committed to savour the deliciousness of their (once mundane) work routines. They can’t anymore deny their body’s and soul’s needs for slowness, for gentleness, for rest and relaxation.
And now they want to create systems of work that support their feminine way of living.
They want to peel the layers of their masculine conditioning and infuse their feminine gifts in the way they create & lead their business. They want to now lead in their work lives with their feminine, calling in success as effortlessly as they attract all the other desires of their lives.
If you’re feeling curious about what feminine business really means, read on.
Feminine business is a model of business where women (and beings who identify on the more feminine end of nature’s energy spectrum) create and grow businesses in complete alignment with their organic, feminine, feeling, nature.
Feminine business involves birthing our natural gifts and passions into a venture(s) in a way that honours our heart and soul.
It involves creating shifts in the generally transactional nature of business by serving the world through one’s heart-led ideas and innovation. It is about creating structures and systems that honour our sensitivities, our cyclic nature, our desire for pleasure, rest and relaxation.
Feminine business is a way of working where we treat every aspect of our business as a work of art, not a project to build, accomplish or finish, where we lead with vulnerability and let our audience and clients know us more than our offerings.
It involves following the lead of our (feminine) gift of intuition in making decisions around how we conduct our business. It is about practicing the feminine art of magnetism instead of following the dry hustle route.
Want to learn the secrets that make a woman magnetic? Access your copy of the Magnetic Woman guide here.
From a broader point of view, feminine business lies is at the opposite end of the fast-paced, burnout-oriented entrepreneurial culture.
It is about leading a (profitable) business by listening to our bodies first, honouring its needs first and then making shifts in our outer world.
The conditioning of our hyper-masculine world
Living in our hyper-masculine world has almost convinced us to believe that the only way to succeed when it comes to business is to move fast and quick, to exert and toil all day long, to ‘beat’ the competition somehow, to always be busy, to give it all until you have nothing left for for yourself.
As someone who grew up up seeing (and still does) such role-models of business in my family, this is what the definition of business success looked like to me.
A divine intervention just at the cusp of entering the entrepreneurial world invited me to find another way. Another way of doing business and making money at it too.
A way of working that has since…
…made success feel sweet to me,
…given me the chance to experience true wealth,
…helped me honor my (highly) sensitive nature as an empath,
…continued to support my creativity and innovation.
A way of doing business that feels fulfilling to me at every level of my inner and outer realities.
Who does feminine business work best for
I’ve noticed a common limiting belief circulated on the internet around how the feminine business model only works for service entrepreneurs. Nothing could be farther from the truth (and the actual realities of the bigger world).
Feminine business is about how we lead ourselves first. It is about our relationship with ourselves and our inner realities. What we create in our outer (business) world is simply a reflection of that relationship.
We are witnessing such a beautiful rise in slow-moving, sustainable (and ethical) businesses around the world that vary from fashion to home goods, from hospitality to self-care.
The earliest clients who found their way to my work were women in businesses selling tech products. Over time, I have worked with clients who are professional artists, holistic practitioners in the wellness industry, writers, legal experts, online solopreneurs and more.
Whatever ideas and innovation you’ve been holding back for the fear of failing using the art of feminine business, all of those stand an (equal) chance of succeeding in your outer realities.
The roadblocks if any, are our limiting beliefs and doubts formed from our world view of what’s possible and what’s not. Which is why it’s imperative that we seek out support (wherever needed) as we set out to translate our fondest ideas into a business venture.
The gifts of feminine business
So to conclude, feminine business is a way of life, intertwining our deepest passions and gifts with our burning desire to help others, to make meaningful shifts in the world, leaving it better than we found it.
This model of business serves us women at our cellular level in a way that..
we can live out our most fiery ambitions without burning ourselves out,
plan our work schedules according to our bleed cycle,
freely acknowledge our bodies’ needs for rest and pleasure,
lead with vulnerability and allow heartfelt connections to be formed,
receive our divine guidance through our feminine body’s intuitive wisdom and deep knowings,
embrace our unique feminine flavor and infuse our qualities in our work (instead of undermining or completely abandoning them),
slow down when we need to and speed up when we want to,
live a deeply nourished life pursuing our passions outside our work,
spend time with our loved ones without feeling the pressure of time running out, without feeling tethered to our business’s day to day operations.
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If you’d like my support with learning the art of feminine business, you’re welcome to explore working with me in my private coaching program Embodied Businesswoman.
This offering has been designed for sensitive, high-achieving women…
…who are already on the path of entrepreneurship and want to integrate the principles of feminine leadership in the way they share their gifts with the world through their business.
OR
…who are currently a part of the corporate world, feeling the inner fire to translate one or more of their skills into a thriving and sustainable business model.
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In the current hyper-masculine world that we live in, one of the most underestimated powers of our femininity is our gift of intuition. Commonly believed to be an element of woman’s inner power, the domain of intuition is simply the feminine– the feeling, sensing energy that connects us to the truth, to the ‘right’ answers to our questions. After all, our intuitive wisdom is the language that the Divine essence (spiritual dimension) in our body uses to guide us towards our desires. Read this article to learn how to connect with your intuitive intelligence.
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