The intuitive wisdom of our feminine nature

The intuitive wisdom of our feminine nature

The intuitive wisdom of our feminine nature, an article for the woman who wants to learn how to connect with her intuitive intelligence.

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In the current hyper-masculine world that we live in, one of the most underestimated powers of our femininity is our gift of intuition.

Commonly believed to be an element of woman’s inner power, the domain of intuition is simply the feminine– the feeling, sensing energy that connects us to the truth, to the ‘right’ answers to our questions. 

After all, our intuitive wisdom is the language that the Divine essence (spiritual dimension) in our body uses to guide us towards our desires.

Lets’s go a little deeper to understand this.

The intuitive wisdom of our feminine nature

So, our body consists of 4 dimensions- physical, mental, emotional and energetic, that have an overarching fifth dimension- the spiritual, one that represents the essence of the Divine, the One that’s in each one of us. 

Regardless of what area of our life we are calling a new desire in, it is imperative that we set clear intentions with regard to what we really want.

Because our fifth dimension, the essence of the Divine in us, uses these intentions as guideposts and accordingly communicates to us via our intuition whether we are on or off track on our journey towards our desired destination.

(For the sake of clarity, this destination can be a feeling, a vision, a 3D figure, person, situation, job or simply a state of being)

In fact, the Divine essence in us uses the help of the other four dimensions of our body to communicate its message to us in our 3D reality. 

These intuitive knowings, cues, nudges can feel like they’re.. 

  • Physical- where we might feel them via the sensations in our body, a knot in our gut, a constriction in our solar plexus, heaviness in our heart, etc.
  • Emotional- where we might feel extremely sad or ecstatic during the occurrence of an event.
  • Mental- where we might be reminded of an idea or a thought of a similar situation from the past.
  • Energetic- where we might notice a shift (drop or rise) in our vibration, our aura, our energetic state.

Almost always, it is via the feel of it, the feel of a sensation, an emotion, a thought or an energetic vibration that our intuition is speaking to us. 

The truth, as I always say in my work, is in the feel of it. The truth is in the feel of it.


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When something doesn’t feel right, it isn’t right. For you. At that moment. 

Now, there is no rulebook of life that says that we have to listen to our intuition. It is entirely up to us whether we want to listen to this message or not. 

There are countless times in our lives when we have ignored our intuition and gone ahead to do the exact opposite of what it has told us. Only to take a longer (and a messier) route to a point where we were left with no choice than to attend to this divine intervention. 

Because here is the interesting thing. 

Since we are not taught, trained, or educated to learn this language of the Divine, we grow up either totally oblivious of it or choose to stay ignorant of this superpower that we were born with. 

Because of our lack of belief in our own power, we rely on external support systems like card readings, crystals, readings from psychics and what not to guide us on our path. (nothing wrong with them as long as we haven’t made them the ONLY source of divine guidance.)

Knowing about this superpower and choosing to not use it is almost like saying, “What I cannot see with my naked eyes, I won’t believe in”. 

Just because we don’t witness this power in the obvious ways in our 3D reality, it is very easy for most of us to question its legitimacy and have a hard time trusting it. 

Exactly what brings us to the question of how one can then use this invisible power of intuition to navigate life and its tricky situations.

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Learning how to understand the language of our intuition is a skill, a very important one at that. 

It lies at the heart of our feminine magnetism, playing a vital role in the process of manifestation of our heart’s deepest and wildest desires. 

If you’d like to learn this skill and activate your feminine magnetism, you’re invited to explore my core feminine embodiment course, Your Magnetic Femininity.

In Module 8 of this deeply transformative course, I share with you the skills to somatically read and interpret the language of your body’s cues and intuitive knowings, thus activating a very integral element of your feminine embodiment. Here’s where you can learn more about it.

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Some say feminine embodiment in a skill, others say it’s an art. To me, it feels like a journey within. A journey of reconnecting with the feminine design nature had gifted us women from the time we took birth earth-side. Read this article to learn what feminine embodiment really is and what it looks like in our love and work life.

What balance between our feminine & masculine energy truly means

What balance between our feminine & masculine energy truly means

What balance between our feminine and masculine energy truly means, an article for the woman who wants to discover her unique version of inner balance.

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When I (accidentally) set out on my journey of feminine embodiment, I was living life on the far masculine end of my nature’s spectrum. Almost every area of my life had me striving for the actualisation of my desires.

I was completely out of alignment with my organic feminine nature and on most days, I felt exhausted from that go-go, masculinised way of living, loving and working. 

The subsequent years led me inwards into the depths of my femininity, helping me move from that far masculine end to the more feminine end of my being. 

Except, I didn’t anticipate what was about to go ‘wrong’ in my life. I had flung a little too far on that feminine end, often finding myself feeling needy for external support. 

On a subconscious level, I knew I needed my inner masculine to provide me with that safety and support but the memories of my past hyper-masculine life scared me of losing myself to that over-drive, striving, effort-ing way of life again.

Most days felt like I was drowning into my helpless, over-sensitive nature often triggered by the inner wounding and trauma that would surface every now and then. In absence of my connection with my empowered inner masculine, I lacked the capacity to hold space for my grief and healing alike.

I remember one particular instance in that brief period of time when I felt like a true ‘damsel in distress’ wanting a man, wanting anyone to just come rescue me from the dark night of my soul.

That moment felt like a true wake up call. 

As someone who had made it all the way from her humble beginnings to the many versions of her dream life, I knew it was possible to restore my connection with my empowered masculine energy.

So I began with what felt true to me at the time.

I started by first healing the wounding of my inner feminine. And then slowly rebuilding my relationship with my inner masculine.

Gently and gradually, I started trusting my inner masculine to support me in ways that honoured my sensitivity and feelings. 

In the space of my love life, this looked like letting my masculine energy pour into me, provide for me, take care of me so I could joyfully receive from men without the former neediness. 

In the space of my business, this looked like setting embodied boundaries around my work schedule and creating automated systems of structure and support that allowed my (feminine) soul to rest and play as and when she wanted.

Soon enough, I started noticing how regardless of the complexity of the tasks I undertook, I was head over heels in love with the flow of my life. The most mundane activities in my day-to-day life started feeling so luscious, where I’d often find myself marinating in the pleasure-filled sensations pulsating in my body while living out my life’s purpose through this business. 

This phase of my life marked the inner union of my masculine and feminine energies. I had found my inner version of balance between my healed + empowered masculine and feminine energies. 

A sense of balance that has only refined and further deepened over the recent years. 

When I decided to translate my personal journey of feminine embodiment into this business, I set the intention to ensure that my offerings were created with this sacred dance between our inner masculine and feminine energies. I wanted my clients to begin the process of their feminine softening without undermining the importance of their inner masculine essence.

Over the last three years of doing this work, I have witnessed my clients – both who have worked with me privately and who have learnt from my courses – go far and deep on their journey of feminine embodiment without falling into the possible inner wounding that can be caused in the absence of their inner masculine connection (that creates space for their emotional regulation and safety). 

Specifically while coaching clients one-on-one, I have come to notice how for sensitive-hearted women who have a wild heart full of desires, a healthy connection with the inner masculine is deeply integral. 

If our feminine energy is the river whose nature is to flow, our masculine energy signifies the two banks guiding that river in the direction of our heart’s desires. To be able to soften, surrender, melt in our feminine beings, we need the safety, the support of a structure that our inner masculine essence creates for us. 


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For instance, in the space of our intimate relationships, we need our masculine essence to nurture us, to provide for us, helping us not become codependent on a man – an external masculine energy source in our life. 

Similarly, in the space of our work, career, business, we need our inner masculine to create structures and systems in which our inner feminine – our creativity, our intuitive inspiration can dance and flow. 

Just like swinging to the far masculine end of our nature’s spectrum tends to harden us and disconnect us from our own heart, living at the far end of our feminine nature often leads to inner wounding and sinking into a victim state of helplessness. 

Balance between our feminine and masculine energy

A sacred balance between our masculine & feminine energy is rarely a fifty-fifty split. In my experience of working with women from diverse cultures and backgrounds, I have learnt that every feminine being’s inner version of this balance is unique, with the scale always titling towards the more feminine end of the spectrum. 

For women who have been conditioned for years (for some, decades) to overtly use their masculine energy to drive their life, to love and lead with, walking on the path of their feminine energy embodiment feels like coming home. Coming home to themselves, coming home to their organic feminine nature.

It is in this process of feminine softening that their (healthy) masculine essence plays the pivotal role of creating a safe structure in which they can continue to soften, to shift from the far masculine end towards the feminine end of their nature’s spectrum.  

In complete absence of their masculine essence, women find themselves feeling needy, relying on the outside world for validation, for comfort, for safety, most often embodying the modern day damsel in distress archetype. (It’s important to note that there’s a BIG difference between receiving + relishing the support of the masculine energy sources in our lives – be it men, God, or money AND expecting any of these sources to come rescue us.)

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If you’re a sensitive, high-achieving woman desiring to discover your inner sense of feminine-masculine balance, I invite you to explore the following resources:

~ If you’re looking for a simple (and proven) step-by-step process to melt your masculine shield and reconnect with your feminine heart + power, you may explore Rise with the Feminine, my 7-step feminine energy activation program. 

~ And if you’re desiring deeper healing, you can learn how to peel the layers of your hyper-masculine conditioning and reconnect with the full spectrum of your femininity with my core feminine embodiment course Your Magnetic Femininity.

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If you are curious to know more about the art of balancing your inner feminine and masculine energy in the space of love & romance, you might like this article.

Letting our inner wild woman lead the way 

Letting our inner wild woman lead the way 

Letting our inner wild woman lead the way – notes from my life in the wilderness.

When I decided to quit my well-established corporate career out of the blue, everyone around me thought I had lost my mind.

There were a lot of conversations, some pleading me to recall my sanity, some requesting me to stay back coz they’d miss having someone like me around, others rejoicing that the exit of of a high-performer would open up work opportunities. 

Amidst it all, I lay there, unfazed, unaffected by the chaos I had stirred up around me. I didn’t know how to make sense of that decision myself. All I knew was that there was no going back from that point.

The once distant call of my inner wild woman asking me to walk away, walk away from everything known and comfortable, I could hear it so loud and clear. Asking me to run, lay, sleep, weep, dream, desire, in the lap of the wilderness that was awaiting me. 

It’s been 5 years in this wilderness but it feels like my forever home. Where I can be free, be me, be one with who I always was. 

My life in the wilderness 

On this path of reuniting with my inner wild woman, I have discovered things I didn’t know existed in me. I have made friends with my shadows, I have healed some long forgotten scars.

So many masculine shields that I was using to guard myself, have been melted away. I have learnt to suck the juice of life in moments that previously used to numb me to my core.

I’ve learnt to make friends with my rage, letting it guide me to do the things that mean the most to me. I’ve learnt to stand up for myself, stand up for what matters to me even if it has nothing to do with me. 

Acknowledging my anger before it turns into rage has helped me receive the medicine, the message it brings with it every time. Channeling that message in form of meaningful actions has helped me become the sovereign woman I am today. 

I’ve learnt to acknowledge my desires – the raw, the bold, the fierce, the unattainable – all of them as they are. Once upon a time suppressed and buried, I’ve witnessed all of them spring up one by one leading me to create the most delicious life ever. 

No desire feels big anymore. No desire feels scary anymore. 

When a new desire takes birth in my body, I listen to its sound, I feel its texture in my body. I let it tell me what it’s here to tell me. And then I get to doing the doing that needs to be done to call this desire in my three-dimensional reality.

When the world feels overwhelming and too scary, I close my eyes and turn to my inner universe, to my wilderness within. I soften into my body, I melt in my seat, and I let myself travel the seas and the mountains within, journeying deeper into my heart and soul to find peace within, to find love within, to find joy within, to receive my answers within.

It feels surreal to know that there’s been a universe inside of me all this while and I was going on living my life completely oblivious of it. 

Letting our inner wild woman lead the way

Can you close your eyes and listen to your inner wild woman today? 

What does she have to say to you? 

How would she like you to live? 

How would your life be different if you listened to your inner wild woman today? 

What would you say YES to? What would you say NO to? 

How differently would you love, how differently would you lead and create?

All of us have her with us- the inner wild woman. Some call her the dark feminine, some call her the huntress, some call her the Kali. 

She is the one who takes care of us, who sets the boundaries for us, who upholds those boundaries when the moment arrives. 

Our inner wild woman is the one who shows us the way to follow the beating of our hearts and walk in the direction of our desires.  


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She is the one who gives us courage to soften, to tend to our sensitivities when the world around us is burning, is hardening. 

Our inner protector, our inner Kali, she is the one that guards us without building walls around us. 

She is the one that reminds us of our inherent worthiness when we have forgotten our value, our glory, our magnificence. 

The most powerful archetype of our Divine Feminine, she is the one who takes care of our tender, feminine heart and guides us to protect the things and people we love.

What would our lives be without her, I often wonder. We’d be long lost in this wilderness of life if it wasn’t for her. 

She is our inner compass, our inner guide. 

She is the one who reminds us that even when we slow down to rest and recuperate, we are guided, we are protected, we are provided for. 

In her presence, we can remove our hard masculine shields and connect with our tenderness.

She is our inner Goddess, always watching over us, always taking care of us. 

Reconnecting with my inner wild woman has been one of the deepest joys of my life. She is the remembrance of who I always was.

The birth point of my rising, of my pleasure, of my magnetism. 

She has helped me break free from my societal mould of the nice girl and become the fiercely feminine woman I am today. 

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Walking the path of this wilderness has been a blessing beyond imagination. Guiding women on this path an even bigger gift. 

Last summer, women from different walks of life joined us in the live round of my core feminine embodiment course Your Magnetic Femininity. I witnessed them transform into wildly magnetic Goddesses in that short span of 3 months.

If you’re looking for the support of self-paced resource to reunite with your inner wild woman too, you might like this offering. Here’s where you can find out more. 

And if you need the support of a private coaching container to navigate the wilderness of your life, here’s where you can find the next steps.

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An integral aspect of our feminine embodiment is our need to acknowledge our truth, our heart and the desires it holds within. In fact, one of the most unhidden secrets to living a wholehearted, emotionally fulfilling life is honouring our heart’s desires as they are. Read this article to learn more about the significance of owning your heart’s desires.

9 signs that convey if our feminine energy is blocked

9 signs that convey if our feminine energy is blocked

9 signs that convey if our feminine energy is blocked, an article for the sensitive, heart-led woman who wants to learn how to liberate the blocks to her feminine embodiment & reconnect with the flow of her life-giving, feminine energy.

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Have you ever wondered what really disconnects us from our inherent feminine energy? 

So, our feminine energy is the energy of feeling, flowing, sensing, receiving, surrendering. 

When free of inner constrictions, the inherent nature of this energy is flow. It reflects in the lightness of our being, in the depth of our pleasure, in our surrender to the Divine power.

When constricted by fear, shame, emotional trauma, or any other form of frozen tension, this innate flow of our feminine energy gets blocked, disconnecting us from experiencing the full spectrum of our life-force, our eros, our vitality.

Before we get to the embodied resolution of this shared experience of so many of us women, let us look at the symptoms, 9 signs to be specific, that convey if our feminine energy is blocked.

One. When we find it difficult to be present in a given moment. 

We operate under the hyper-masculine conditioning of always being on the go, always hustling, always pushing and striving for results.

Relaxation, slowness, stillness for us equate to laziness, stagnancy and losing the race. 

Our nervous system is either constricted or dys-regulated, to the extent we live out our days in constant fight or flight mode.

Two. When we attach our worth to how much we can do, achieve, earn & own. 

We have internalised the capitalistic theme of the world to an extent that we now derive our inherent self-worth from anything & everything outside of us.

In life, we constantly rely on things outside of us to feel worthy.

In love, we equate our self worth to the attention of the men/ man in our life.

At work, we assume our worth as equal to our pay, our designation, our recognition. And are afraid to ask for what our time, energy and labor is worth.

In business, our censored creative expression, our over-working & people-pleasing approach and our depletive prices might be a reflection of our connection with our self-worth.

Three. When we try to control the outcome of all situations in our life. 

We’re deeply conditioned to believe the illusion of control as the ultimate truth.

We struggle with letting go, practicing surrender and inviting the grace of the Divine power in our life.

Our wonderful masculine quality of maintaining order and structure has crossed the threshold of sanity and is now practised in excess (and often toxic) amounts.

As a result, we find ourselves often feeling overwhelmed and burdened by the weight of life and its problems. 


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Four. When we struggle with setting (and protecting our) boundaries. 

Enmeshment and codependency are some of the common patterns in our life and relationships.

We follow the much celebrated sacrificial way of living where we pour from our cup until it runs dry.

We have a difficult time saying NO and prioritising our well being at the most intricate level.

Our life oscillates between the states of over-giving and resentment. 

Five. When we suppress or deny our darker, heavier emotions. 

We’ve been sold the idea of pseudo-spirituality that’s all about love and light.

We label our pain (and hence the world’s pain) as bad.

Often a product of toxic positivity, this approach has numbed us to an extent that we’re disconnected from the other half of our emotional spectrum, that is our pain, our grief, our rage, aka our (deeply potent) dark and heavy emotions.

We struggle to sit with our feelings when we’re in distress and often use ‘positive affirmations’ to stuff our tender emotions and move past that uncomfortable situation as soon as possible.

Six. When we struggle with receiving support from the masculine energy sources in our life. 

A common result of our hyper-independent conditioning is our inability to receive support from the giving, masculine energy sources in our life.

We struggle with asking for help in our day to day life.

When the empowered masculine men want to be in service to us, we reject them as boring men.

We pile up our work desk in the I-know-it-all-stride and don’t know or believe in delegating work to make our life easier and simpler.

Seven. When we envy and resent other women. 

One of the most prominent signs of our feminine energy being blocked is when we suffer from the Sister wound, a successful product of the world’s capitalistic, patriarchal systems.

Perhaps inflicted in early years of life during our interactions with other females in or outside our family, this wound is still alive in our being and it dictates how we perceive or be with other women.

Embodied sisterhood, the true hallmark of femininity, is missing from our life. 

Eight. When we consider vulnerability as a weakness.

We carry misconceptions around the true meaning of emotional vulnerability, often mistaking it as fragility or as a weakness.

Under the former assumption, we believe that vulnerability means emotionally vomiting out in front of a new social or romantic connection.

And under the latter assumption, we keep our hard masculine shield on, refusing to let romantic and social connections truly see us for our beauty- perfect and imperfect included. 

Nine. When our love for ourselves is conditional. 

We often dishonour ourselves in pursuit of a man’s love, affection and attention.

We frequently abandon our own needs to fit in our social circles.

Our connection with our inner child is either absent or in need of serious repair.

Habitual or sub-conscious self-sacrifice is a recurring theme in our life.

Dear one, our feminine embodiment is us inhabiting all of ourselves fully. It is our deepest, most profound connection with all that we are. It is the highest level of service we can offer to ourselves. 

I have seen this in my life + in the lives of the women I work with that when we start reconnecting with any one element of our femininity, it is bound to have a ripple effect in all areas of our being. And soon enough, it reverberates through our energy and lets the world know how embodied we are. 

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If you want to learn how to liberate the blocks to your feminine embodiment from their roots in your body, I invite you to explore the following resources:

~ If you want a simple (and proven) step-by-step process to melt your masculine armor and reconnect with your feminine radiance, you may explore Rise with the Feminine, my 7-step feminine energy activation program. 

~ And if you’re desiring deeper healing, you can learn how to peel the layers of your hyper-masculine conditioning and reconnect with the full spectrum of your femininity with my core feminine embodiment course Your Magnetic Femininity

The significance of owning our heart’s desires

The significance of owning our heart’s desires

The significance of owning our heart’s desires, an article for the woman who wants to learn how to fully own the deepest (and wildest) desires of her heart.

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An integral aspect of our feminine embodiment is our need to acknowledge our truth, our heart and the desires it holds within. In fact, one of the most unhidden secrets to living a wholehearted, emotionally fulfilling life is honouring our heart’s desires as they are.

And yet, ever so often, we live our lives, partly or wholly in denial of those desires. Sometimes in disbelief of them coming true, other times in fear of what would become of us if those desires were to come true.

Although our fears do a great job of keeping us safe, yet in the long term they cause us more harm than good. Preventing us from taking the leap towards what could possibly lead us to the most magnificent version of our lives. 

Our relationship with our desires is deeply intertwined with our connection with our (empowered) feminine energy. To understand this better, we need to know what does being in our wounded and our empowered feminine energy looks like. 

The differences between wounded and empowered feminine energy

I invite you to think of a time when you felt really hopeless, felt like no one loves you and that everyone in the world is out to get you?

Similarly, can you think of another time when you felt really empowered and supported in life, when you were living your life as if everything was rigged in your favour and everyone in this world was your friend?

What is common in both these scenarios? Our state of being. That is we being in our feminine state. 

Wherein the former represents we being in our Wounded feminine state and the latter is we being in our Empowered (primal) feminine state.

Being in our Wounded Feminine looks like:

..feeling afraid to speak our truth,

..lacking self-worth, denying ourselves our desires,

..struggling with setting boundaries,

..constantly talking to ourselves negatively,

..seeking external validation, 

..suppressing our anger or feeling scared of it,

..comparing ourselves to other women/people and viewing them as a threat to us.

Being in our Empowered Feminine looks like:

..owning our worth,

..honouring our desires,

..validating ourselves with our love and attention,

..having embodied boundaries in life,

..owning our rage and finding the right channels to express it,

..embodying our (Divine) feminine energy and encouraging other women/people to rise and shine their light as well. 


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For the purpose of clarity, a woman who is embodying her wounded feminine state isn’t technically or metaphorically wounded. She is simply embodying a wounded state of either mentally, emotionally, physically or energetically being and showing up in the world. 

Owning our heart’s desires

When a woman lives in her Wounded Feminine energy, she feels ashamed of her desires and masks them under a superficial cover of the “I don’t care” attitude. She either lives in denial of those desires and emotions..

OR

..disapproves of the unpleasant imperfect parts of herself that she doesn’t deem worthy or capable of calling in those desires. 

In the latter case, she beats herself to the point of exhausting perfection because nothing short of it feels enough to her. This reflects in the way she shows up in her life, constantly auditioning for the world in a bazillion ways. She feels scared of owning her truth, of owning who she is as a human. There is no room for her human flaws.

And in the former scenario where the desires are denied by her, she continues to suppress them or hide them from the world because there is this deep, underlying sense of “I am not sure if I can have what I desire.

A woman embodying her empowered Feminine energy owns her desires and embraces her imperfections to an extent that inspires those around her to do the same. She is not scared of honouring her truth, of acknowledging her desires to herself AND to the world. She understands the holiness of her heart’s desires.

She understands that her desires have been planted in her heart by the Divine power so she can live a fully actualised life as long as she is breathing in her gifted human body. 

She understands that denying herself the fulfilment of her desires equates to doing herself the biggest disservice there ever can be.

In Rise with the Feminine, my 7-step feminine energy activation program, I share with you how you can illuminate your inner wounding, liberate that conditioning and reconnect with your primal, empowered feminine essence. Using a simple yet deeply transformative step-by-step process, this program teaches you the skills to :

~ somatically embody your feminine energy, 

~ reconnect with your innate worthiness, 

~ cultivate embodied self-love, 

~ reconnect with your pleasure & sensuality, 

~ heal your relationship with your sacred sexuality, and 

~ activate your feminine magnetism.

Here’s where you can learn more about this deeply transformative offering.

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Our feminine essence, the one we were inherently born with, is replete with our worthiness, our enough-ness. When we are connected with our essence, we don’t need to measure our self-worth with anything outside of us. We are deeply tuned into our desires because at the fundamental level, we consider ourselves to be worthy of those desires. Read this article to learn how to cultivate a solid, potent relationship with your feminine energy of worthiness.