Embodying our feminine archetype of the sensual Lover, an article for the woman who wants to reconnect with the power of her sensuality in love and in life.
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When I first discovered (non-sexual) pleasure in my body, I felt as though I had found the meaning to my life,
the meaning to my existence,
the meaning to my womanhood.
But often in those early instances, I used to feel a faint pull of my old hyper-masculine conditioning. After all, spending hours turned inwards to my pleasure wasn’t getting anything done.
I was not being ‘productive’ in my days, this practice of cultivating depths of my pleasure wasn’t something I could show to the world (and to myself) as my that day’s work. It felt completely irrational and illogical to the recovering workaholic in me.
And yet, something in me wanted to stay here, in my body, feeling that juicy, life-giving pleasure, marinating myself in it. So I continued to do that.
The self-critical voice diminished and died soon after and I went swimming in the deeper end of my sensual embodiment.
Surprisingly enough, it didn’t take long for this connection with myself to reflect in my connection with the world.
It deepened my receptivity when it came to my love life, where my moments of intimacy with the men in my dating circle became so much more than just kissing and fondling.
I could literally feel our sexual energies meeting each other without any form of sexual contact in picture.
Fast forward to today, living and showing up in my sensual connection so effortlessly invites the penetrative masculine energy of these men in my life further deepening our intimacy and polarity.
So here’s the thing, sweets.
We are living in a world where a woman’s connection with her sensuality (and in turn with her sexuality) is so manipulated, degraded, suppressed by our patriarchal society that we start seeing it as something dirty, sinful and disgraceful (the only exception being when it’s a man bringing pleasure to a woman).
This so sneakily diminishes our connection with our sacred feminine archetype of the sensual Lover that is the most easily identifiable archetype of an embodied feminine woman.
The slow, sensual, emotionally connected, magnetic, passionate, creative woman.
Considered as an embodiment of our sacred sensuality, we are embodying this archetype when we feel the most sensually alive, emotionally connected, deeply fulfilled, ravished by love and intimacy, and are in tune with our life force energy of creativity, inspiration and magnetism.
The magic of this archetype reflects in your most intimate relationships when it pulls a man and keeps him glued to you like a magnet.
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Your natural and juicy expansiveness creates the space for you to fully receive and feel ravished by everything this man does for you.
You stop measuring the magnitude of his offerings of love, intimacy, affection, attention, acts of service and start receiving them as they are, radiating your warmth, joy and pleasure as his return gift.
His masculine energy feels the pull of this magnetic, receiving, feminine energy of yours and wants to give you more, to keep pouring into the infinitely large reservoir of your being.
He lives every waking day of his life to fill that reservoir of your feminine essence.
It is this depth of polarity that keeps men devoted to their women no matter what seasons of life pass them.
It is this strength of attraction that makes a man go from being just a match to a smitten, committed, deeply devoted masculine partner.
Just like we women feel the most fulfilled when connected with our feminine essence, men too feel their lives fully actualised when they get to show up for you in their masculine essence.
And it all starts with you melting your hard, masculine armour and allowing yourself to connect with the most profound gift of your womanhood, your sensuality.
journey deeper
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In modules 5 & 6 of this powerful offering, I show you how you can rise to your feminine power by somatically connecting with your sensual aliveness and healing your relationship with your sacred sexuality.
Here’s where you can learn more about this powerful program.
related reading
Our sensuality is our capacity to discover and connect with the aliveness, vitality and pleasure that’s pulsating through our body by using our five external and infinite internal senses. Read this article to learn 4 simple ways you can start reconnecting with your sensuality and aliveness in your day to day life.
